L’Wren Scott, a beautiful person with enormous talent dies at age 49, as the result of an apparent suicide, leaving friends, family and her significant other to mourn her loss . It didn’t have to end this way.

If you would like to know about a simple fact of life, that would have saved her and can save countless others in the future, please read on.

While reading about her ultra successful life, in the world of fashion design, and her long-term relationship with a man she adored and spoke of as her ideal partner, Mick Jagger — something jumped out at me. The Daily Beast had quoted her in 2009, speaking of her designs, as saying: “It’s fun to see the ideas in your head spring to life, because it all starts in your mind.”

That is so true, but what she hadn’t realized was that just because something is in our mind, doesn’t mean that it has to spring to life. We have free will to decide which thoughts we will move forward with and which to let fade away. We’ve all heard the term free-will; we give it lip service on an intellectual level, but few know the deeper spiritual fact of free-will.

We are all blessed with a divine capacity to think, and a divine capacity to accept or reject what we think. We are spiritual essence living in a human form. I don’t mean this in the context of religion, I mean it in the context of psychology — the human psyche is manifested in life, by thought and consciousness.

There were apparently many things L’Wren Scott thought that she believed were real – not the least of which would be the thought that she couldn’t ask her multi-million dollar boyfriend to help her with a loan. Highly creative, famous people, like herself, often run in the red until sales can catch up to production. The only thing that kept her from asking him was her own thinking. What we think is not reality; it is our take on reality. There is not one reality in the world, there are many personal realities; as many as there are people in the world.

Ms. Scott also owned a multi-million dollar apartment that she could have re-mortgaged to fund her business until sales caught up. What kept her from exploring that option? Only her own thoughts could squelch any possibility.

According to another article, L’Wren told a friend, “I think I worry too much.” Had she known about innate health and the fundamental principles at the core of humanity, she’d have known that worry is just a quality of thinking and it would not bother her if she didn’t accept it as a truth.

Our thoughts are nothing, they are not givens, or laws, or truth — they are what we make up, just like an L’Wren Scott design, they are images in our mind. Whether we bring them to life or not is strictly up to us. A better feeling is always just one thought away. When we resist the temptation to follow an unhealthy, low quality thought, a fresh new thought will always come our way — it is how we are wired; it’s the human condition.

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