Do we have our priorities straight? On May 24, 2022, 19 children were brutally murdered at their elementary school by a mass shooter.  The children’s bodies were so torn up by the assault weapon that parents had to provide DNA samples so the corner could identify the bodies.  All the funerals had to have closed caskets because the children’s bodies were too mutilated to have an open casket.  Today is only June 5th and there have already been over 300 mass shootings since the shooting in Texas on May 24th (Gun Violence Archive).  Even with these numbers of shootings and people being injured and killed, the Republicans in the Senate cannot vote for safer, sane gun laws.

These shootings are not new to our Country.  In 1999, there was the Columbine High School shooting, then the Sandy Hook Elementary School, then the Parkland High School shooting and now the Robb Elementary School shooting in Texas.  This is not a complete list of school shootings.  Besides schools there have been mass shootings in churches and shopping malls.  Every time we see this is enough and we need to reform gun laws.  However, the Republicans in the Senate have continued to debate gun reform laws or to vote on any gun reform laws to protect children.  All they do are to offer thoughts and prayers.  Thoughts and prayers are not going to solve the problem.  It reminds me of the man who drowns and he asked God, why didn’t you answer my prayers and safe me.  God said I sent a two boats and a plane but you refused them.  We cannot expect God to take care of everything.  We have to take action to solve the mass shooting issue too.

While we are not discussing how to protect children, there is a bill in the Senate to provide more protection for judges from mass shooters.  Last year a judge’s, 20 year old son was shot at their house.  Last week another judge was shot and killed at his home.  The judges do not deserve to be shot, but they are public servants.  People getting angry at them is part of their job.  Yes they need added protection so they are not being killed, but the school children should be protected first.

The bill is being delayed in the Senate because Republican Senator Lyndsey Graham, who states the school shootings do not require gun reform, wants members of the Senate including in the bill in addition to the judges.  They won’t discuss gun reform when childrens lives are at stake, but when it involves their lives we need gun reform and can discuss it.

In my opinion this is disgusting.  The parents in Texas had to give DNA samples because their child’s body was so torn up that the corner could not identify them.  This is happening at all the mass shootings.  These AR15 guns are weapons of war and the bullet explodes inside the body tearing the body to pieces.  No child deserves to die this way and no parent should have to hear we need DNA to identify their child.  The Senators and judges are public servants and people do make threats against them.  It is part of their jobs.  Given this fact, we should be protecting our children first.

However, we are not protecting our children.  The Republicans in the Senate are using their positions to protect themselves first and the children may be one day.  Remember Columbine occurred in 1999.  We have been waiting since 1999 for gun reform to protect children.  A judge’s son was killed 23 months ago and there is already a bill on the Senate floor.  Children and families have been waiting for 23 years for the Senate to protect children.  The judges and Senators only had to wait less than 2 years.  What is wrong with our priorities when we will allow children to die for 23 years and not doing anything seriously to protect children, but when the Senators and judges are at risk, they move with lightning speed.  No one is just offering judge’s thoughts and prayers.  The Republican Senators are acting to protect the judges, but do nothing for the children.

Parents need to act.  Parents need to call Senators and demand that they put the children first.  The must demand that the Senate pass safe, sane gun reform that will protect children.  They need to focus on the children before they focus saving their own lives.  Look at how many mass shootings have been occurring.  Do you want a corner to ask you for a DNA sample so they can identify your child’s body.  It can happen easier than you think.  Look at how many mass shootings have been occurring and they are happening every where.  We need safe, sane gun reform today!  Please do not let the Republican Senators drag their feet.  The next shooting may involve someone you love and then it will be too late.

Dr. Michael Rubino is a psychotherapist with over 25 years experience treating children, teenagers and trauma victims including first responders. For more information about Dr. Rubino’s work please visit his website at www.RubinoCounseling.com or his Facebook page at www.Facebook.com/drrubino3 or his podcasts on Spotify or Apple.