A big part of making and keeping friends is doing your part.If some 1gives too much, anger sets in.Friends can expect forgiveness. But the friend who feels used may want to spend less time with the less reliable friend.
When determining the relationship’s value ask yourself these things.
1 Is it too much work?
2 What do I gain?
3 Who comes first?
4 Can I let go?
If the answer to #4 is no, speakup. Ambiguous boundaries do not improve a personal or business relationship. When the exchange of time, money or affection is at stake the question isn’t right or wrong. The question is will you be honoring your values?
For answers to questions like this, come talk to me.