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Positive Parenting of Middle Aged, Adolescent, and Adult Children

Positive parenting is a construct that we Marriage and Family Therapists, and Professional Counselors seek to educate and to coach our parents as to the dynamics of such parenting.  Parents come with multiple complaints of how their little ones are oppositional and defiant. With a nutrition background of 17 years, connections with a local Nature-path, […]

The Minimization of Emotions in Therapy and Society

Mary Gale Gurnsey

Over the course of my ten years as a Licensed Therapist I have been able to recognize certain patterns in people and relationships which have become normalized in today’s society. As I sat pondering the relationship between healthy attachments and emotions, I thought “emotions are the key to having the desired relationships we yearn for.” […]

Do I really need to be Empathetic?

Ms. Ganga Daryanani

If you want to have a fantastic relationship with your partner, empathy is paramount.   It’s what’s lacking in many couples that I’ve helped. First let’s define exactly what empathy is.   It’s likened to getting inside someone’s head and understand what they’re thinking and feeling in THEIR world, not yours.  It doesn’t mean you have to […]

Is it anger?

Therapedia Centre

Anger is a common and universal emotion, which is often referred to as a secondary emotion, because it serves to protect us from other vulnerable feelings. Clinicians and researchers believe that anger covers a primary emotion such as sadness, fear, or anxiety. Our behavioral therapists also believe that children and adolescents with anger issues are […]

Body Acceptance: How to Strike Up a Loving Relationship With Your Most Loyal Companion

Suzanne St. John Smith

As a psychotherapist, I’m in the business of hearing how people, especially women, talk about their bodies using hateful and disparaging terms. They aren’t alone. I’ve done the same myself, and so I know how hard it can be to make peace with our imperfect bodies (are they ever anything else?) let alone feel loving […]

The “Ideal” Parent Syndrome

Suzanne St. John Smith

Before we became parents, many of us had an ideal image of what that role would look like. This image is often based on our own experiences of being parented. Consequently, we might decide to parent our children similarly, or we might enter into parenthood with a determination to parent in a dramatically different way, […]

Finding Meaning in Everyday Life

Suzanne St. John Smith

Clients come to my office for a number of reasons. For example, when they’re feeling depressed, when they’re feeling anxious, and when they are experiencing conflict in their relationships, but also when they’ve become bored with their lives. For these people, meaning and engagement in life seemed to have disappeared without conscious awareness, and not […]