Establishing clear and durable no-contact rules with an affair partner is one of the most critical steps for couples beginning the affair recovery process. Many individuals and couples struggle to enforce boundaries that safeguard trust and reduce anxiety. In these cases, the guidance of an experienced, evidence-based therapist can be life-changing. Marina Edelman, LMFT, with […]
Not everyone fits a Tuesday-at-3pm therapy slot. Some people travel for work. Some people are between life chapters and want to make use of a quieter stretch. Some have tried weekly therapy and felt like they were spending the first fifteen minutes of every session catching up before the work could begin. For these people, […]
My investment in other people far outweighed my investment in myself. I was focused on the outcomes in someone else’s life. Focused on their needs, even on their pain. Some could say I was overly invested. Wrapped up in the other person. Do they have what they want? Are they happy? Pleased with me? Most […]
I had this pattern of giving all the good away. I would give and give. Often to the point of exhaustion. I have a large capacity (or I did once upon a time), one that was honed over a lifetime of people pleasing. So I could tolerate a lot and I had a lot to […]
As an adult, I had to learn to say “no.” What most people learn early on in their lives, I struggled to assert. In my family, obedience was expected, regardless of the circumstance. Raised in a strict religious environment, fawning was a requirement of my survival, and I filled the role of the dutiful daughter […]
When couples experience the trauma of affair, the fallout is profound. A single apology rarely sets the foundation for healing. Instead, genuine remorse must be demonstrated over time through consistent behaviors, transparency, and committed actions. Drawing upon leading therapeutic frameworks, Marina Edelman, LMFT emphasizes that authentic remorse goes well beyond words, requiring an enduring dedication […]
If the past is over but your body still feels unsafe, you may be experiencing complex PTSD. CPTSD can keep you stuck in anxiety, shame, emotional flashbacks, and survival mode. Trauma therapy and EMDR can help you understand these patterns and begin moving toward healing. “Why Do I Still Feel This Way?” Many adults living with complex PTSD ask themselves: “Why can’t I just move on?” “Why do I react so strongly?” “Why do I still feel unsafe?” “Why do I feel broken?” You may understand logically that the danger is over, yet your body continues to respond as if the threat is happening right now. That experience is real, and it is more common than many people realize. What Is Complex PTSD? Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder, often called CPTSD, develops when someone has experienced ongoing trauma over time rather than a single event. […]
If you have tried trauma therapy before and still feel stuck, you are not broken. Traditional talk therapy may not fully address PTSD and complex PTSD. EMDR therapy helps the brain process traumatic memories so they no longer feel like a current threat. Learn why therapy may not have worked before and how trauma-focused treatment […]
When a loved one, family member or friend struggles with addiction, the instinct might be to swoop in and try to rescue them. However, there is a fine line between helping and enabling, and crossing it can be devastating for everyone involved. Let’s look a little more closely at the difference between enabling and helping. […]
Many adults are only diagnosed with ADHD later in life because their symptoms were misunderstood or overlooked during childhood. Some individuals learned to mask their struggles, while others were labeled as “disorganized,” “lazy,” or “anxious” instead of receiving proper support. In adults, ADHD symptoms often appear differently than they do in children, making diagnosis more […]
