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What is Divorce?
Like marriage, divorce is one of life's toughest transitions. Despite its prevalence, divorce is extremely painful for all members of the family. According to the U.S. Census Bureau, almost half of all marriages end in divorce, and one-third of all breakups occur within the first five years of marriage - the time when most couples start families.
Divorce is a highly stressful and life changing event. The sheer volume of legal, emotional and logistical issues that need to be addressed can be monumental. In addition, the idea of creating an entirely new life for yourself can feel paralyzing.
However, it is important to realize that things do get better with time and there are professional divorce counselors that provide valuable advice and support through this process. Search TherapyTribe therapist directory for a therapist specializing in divorce counseling. Learn more about how to resume a fulfilling and successful life after divorce, minimize the impact of your divorce on any children you may have, and better understand where the relationship failed so you don't make the same mistakes again.
Marriage and Divorce Counseling
Many couples seek marriage counseling in effort to improve a troubled relationship and prevent a divorce. As experts in relationships, marriage and family therapists can help couples improve their communication and conflict resolution skills. However, if divorce is the inevitable outcome, there are pre- and post-divorce counseling strategies that can help you and your partner navigate through the painful process.
Pre-Divorce Counseling: The involvement of a divorce counselor prior to divorce cn help both parties learn to communicate effectively and civilly during the process. In the event there are children in the family, a civil, healthy divorce is imperative. Pre-divorce counseling can assist with parenting issues related to divorce and provide a forum for how to best tell your children about your impending divorce.
Post-Divorce Counseling: No matter the reason, the break-up of a long-term, committed relationship can disrupt your world as well as trigger some profound emotions of sadness, stress and grief. Life after divorce can feel overwhelming, and for many the uncertainty about the future can sometimes seem worse than the unhappy relationship itself.
Divorce recovery is a grieving process with stages and steps that need to be acknowledged. It is important you allow yourself time to fully grieve the loss of the relationship, the companionship, the support, and any future plans you had together. This process is not meant to be accomplished alone - friends, family, support groups or a professional divorce counselor are important in the divorce recovery process. Specifically, a divorce counselor can:
- Help you understand the stages of loss and grief
- Teach you the necessary coping skills to deal with the emotional pain of divorce
- Provide a forum for the entire family to receive counseling and support
- Relationship coaching to help you understand the reason the relationship failed and prevent future relationship problems
Every day the pain will subside a little and emotionally you will start to move on. However, if you don't feel any progress, you could be suffering from a more serious mental disorder such as depression and may need help from a therapist or psychologist.
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Divorce Counseling Blogs
- Is Couples Therapy Just A Sign Of The End Of A Relationship?
[From the Downtown Therapy blog] I would be lying if years ago, upon hearing that a couple were considering relationship counselling, I didn’t hear a voice in the back of my head cry out: “Dead man walking!”. In other words...
- Discernment Counselling - A New Approach to one of life's most important decisions
Sometimes couples come in to therapy with separation or divorce already an option that’s been laid on the table. As a therapist, this is one of the most painful situations to watch my clients go through. That’s especially true when one pa...
- Divorce Recovery
Most people enter into marriage with dreams of a lifetime of love, partnership, family, security, and happiness. Many times, it is the loss of these dreams that is the most painful aspect of the dissolution of a marriage. Going through a divorce eli...
- Marital Separation and Divorce Mediation
5 Things to Think about When Considering DivorceBy Nancy Fagan, www.Dyvorce.comConsidering leaving your spouse? You need a solid exit plan. Pre-divorce-planning involves carefully planning out often-overlooked aspects of your life before you announce...
- 10 Tips for Helping Your Children Adjust to Divorce
As a registered play therapist and counsellor who specializes in working with families around divorce and separation, I get asked regularly how best to help children when parents are separated or divorced. My first response to parents who are asking ...