I did my Master's research on the experience of infertility. Its impact on a person's life and relationship is enormous. Learning how to navigate through the unrecognized grief and loss is critical for healing. I have spoken and written articles on infertility and adoption. I am an adoptive parent and it is important to recognize that adoption is NOT a cure for infertility. Unresolved infertility can in fact sabotage the bonding relationship with an adopted child. I would be honoured to work with any couple on this important issue which can destroy a relationship, but can also enhance it if the issue is worked through.
I have lived experience and professional experience navigating and supporting folks both with successful adoption, adoption/placement loss when a child is returned to other caregivers, infertility and fertility challenges. I would be honoured to help you navigate your emotions through your own journey.
Not all pregnancy and parenting journeys are the same and it can be an emotional and overwhelming journey. Wanting to have children and not being able to can be a very difficult to accept especially after all the treatments, doctors appointments and hope. Adoption is its own long journey filled with emotional ups and down and then the challenges of having a new child join your family. Have a safe space to process the experiences and ways to manage your new reality.