Codependency therapists in Petrolia, Ontario ON, Canada CA
Codependency
Jennifer Fukushima
Registered Psychotherapist, registered psychotherapist
I believe it is important to interrogate the etiology of codependency which has become such a buzz word in pop psychology. Codependency may have its roots in early attachment trauma - the inability of a caregiver to form a safe and stable relationship with their child. However, it is also important to honour the cultural diversity of being in relationship and being in community. Western culture tells us we are supposed to be happy alone, when this is not the way humans lived for millennia. Collectivist cultures show us a different story of what it is to be in relationship.
Ultimately, learning to cultivate a sense of secure attachment, along with agency and flexible boundaries may be a way to walk the middle path in addressing codependency concerns.
3 Years Experience
Codependency
Laird Counselling Services
Registered Psychotherapist, BA, MACP, RP
All relationships go through rocky periods where we start to question ourselves, but codependent relationships have certain enduring characteristics that make them particularly difficult. In a codependent relationship you can have trouble saying no, setting boundaries, and taking care of your needs. Maybe you feel tired all the time but have a hard time slowing down. You might feel you need to do everyone's work, or it won't get done. Codependency can leave you feeling angry, frustrated, and resentful.
If you are on the flip side of a codependent relationship, you might feel confused about your partner’s reactions. Maybe you feel that someone is always nagging you? In codependent relationships, neither person is happy. One feels they are doing too much and the other does not understand what all the fuss is about. This can be a vicious cycle where neither partner feels understood or appreciated.
Counselling about codependency can help you understand these patterns and get to the heart of the matter. Contact us for a consultation to learn more.
6 Years Experience
Codependency
Nisrine Maktabi
Registered Psychotherapist, Masters in Psychology
Codependency runs rampant in our societies today. Codependency is a sign of abandoning, giving up yourself and losing your true voice out of fear of not getting others validation, approval and praise. Enmeshed families are especially detrimental to your self esteem when you give up your own needs and desires in order to give others the daughter, sister, or wife they want. Together we help your psychic inner child grow up with you so that they do not have to keep you acting in codependent ways.
16 Years Experience
Codependency
Shane Smyth
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, RP, OACCPP
Learning to have a healthy relationship with self and others is a lifelong process. Sometimes we can get overly reliant on others and lose our sense of self. The good news is with therapy and social supports it is possible to return to a healthy sense of self. I have tonnes of experience helping people untangle from codependent relationships and grow in self esteem.
17 Years Experience
Codependency
Lori-Ann Wesley
Registered Psychotherapist, M.A., R.P.
Common as it is, we need to develop a healthier relationship w self in order to get out of codependent behaviour.
27 Years Experience