Relationship and Marriage Counseling therapists in Robinson, Illinois IL
Relationship and Marriage Counseling
Dr. Adam Shafer
Psychologist, Psy. D., M.A.
Caring enough about our intimate relationships requires that we tend to the needs of ourselves and important others so that we may grow in our connections.
Relationship and Marriage Counseling
Alan Brandis, Ph.D.
Psychologist, Ph.D., Licensed Psychologist
Having worked with hundreds of couples over the last 40 years, I have developed a set of beliefs or ideas which, if adopted, help to ensure that a relationship will last. Here is a list of them.
1) Arguing helps nothing, so don't do it.
I like to say that I never met the person who started the fight! When two people argue, each of them believes that he or she is merely reacting to something the other one did or said. Neither one believes that they started the fight; but it started somehow, didn't it? 2) It is better to be close than it is to be “right.”
Blaming each other for the argument is counterproductive. So is trying to change the other person's opinion. Most couples who argue, argue about whose perception is "correct," whose way of doing something is the "right" way, and so on. The only possible outcome of these arguments is that someone will be "right" and someone will be "wrong." Do you know anyone who enjoys being wrong? Most people will fight tooth and nail to avoid being "wrong." 3) Commitment is the Foundation of the Therapy.Commitment implies that you are in the relationship "come Hell or high water," barring certain behaviors your partner might do such as having an affair (although I have seen a number of relationships recover from those, too).
34 Years Experience
Relationship and Marriage Counseling
Dr. Kahina Beasley
Psychologist, Psy.D.
Navigating relationship difficulties can be profoundly challenging for couples, often leading to feelings of disconnect and frustration. Understanding and resolving these issues typically requires exploring underlying dynamics and communication patterns within the relationship, a process best facilitated by a skilled professional. I offer couples counseling designed to provide a safe and supportive space for both partners to express their needs, fears, and desires openly. Through guided conversations and therapeutic techniques, we work together to strengthen your bond, improve communication, and foster a deeper understanding between you. This approach aims to equip you with the tools necessary for a healthier, more fulfilling relationship, helping you and your partner navigate the complexities of your connection with renewed compassion and commitment.
11 Years Experience
Relationship and Marriage Counseling
Julie Novak
Psychologist, PsyD
Relationships are hard. When we're struggling in our relationships, feelings of sadness, anger, anxiety, resentment and hopelessness can all be present. Together we will address the concerns in your relationship and find ways to bring hope back to this vital part of your life.
17 Years Experience
Relationship and Marriage Counseling
Roger Lin
Psychologist, Psy.D.
I am trained in Emotionally Focused Therapy for couples.
11 Years Experience