Sex addiction is something that is frequently discussed in the media, but there is no "official diagnosis" for it in the DSM-5, our diagnostic manual. Some say this is because there is insufficient research on the topic.
The clients I've met with who have believed themselves to be "sex addicts" were actually using sex to cope with another issue. Once the other issue was identified and treated, the need to engage in the unhelpful sexual coping activity was greatly reduced. I can't promise you the same result, but I can promise to treat you respect as we work together to understand what is driving the behavior you are seeking to reduce.
Addiction is created when positive feeling states/ assured survival feelings become wired to sexual behaviors. I can help you using the positive feeling state protocol to remove any connection you have between your sexual behavior and feeling state. This should put an end to your sexual addiction.
Sexual addiction can not only be destructive to a person's relationships with others, but can have a detrimental impact on one's sexual esteem. Our work with you will be deep and meaningful in increasing understanding of your addiction and working reduction of these compulsive behaviors.
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CSAT Candidate
The clients I work with seek out my support in dealing with unhealthy sexual choices that are impacting their careers, performance, goals and negatively impacting important relationships. I help my clients with focused support and practical tools to heal, grow, and move forward.
We take you through the biochemistry of sex and we help you understand sexuality and relationships on the biochemical level. This helps us to frame whatever problems your dealing with around sex constructively so that you can get the help you need and experience the intimacy you desire.
I believe that at times it is difficult for us to see things clearly. My goal is to help you re-adjust your way of looking at yourself and your world, and to help you realize what is possible. I believe that the most important aspect of therapy is the relationship that develops between you and me.
Sexual addiction therapy typically involves a combination of individual and group therapy. Individual therapy explores the underlying psychological factors contributing to sexual addiction and focuses on accepting and managing sexual urges, rather than trying to suppress or deny them. Depending on your goals we can also learn alternative ways to manage stress, unpleasant emotions and work on a healthier understanding and expression of sexuality.
As with any addiction, sexual addiction is about behavior change and recognizing why the addiction started, what it does for you, and ultimately skills and tools to change the behavior.