Online in Kentucky, New Mexico
(Online Only)
As an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, I help individuals and couples talk honestly about sexual concerns, relationship pain, shame, anxiety, and the parts of life that can feel too private or complicated to bring anywhere else. You do not need the perfect words before reaching out. My practice offers a thoughtful, confidential, and nonjudgmental space to begin.
Client Focus
Session Format: Couple, Individual sessions.
Age Specialty: Adult, Senior, Young Adult
Languages: English
Treatment Approach
- Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT) Helps people accept difficult thoughts and feelings instead of fighting them, while committing to actions that reflect their values. It blends mindfulness with practical behavior strategies.
- Behavioral Therapy Uses learning techniques like reinforcement and practice to change unwanted behaviors. It is often applied to phobias, anxiety, and habits.
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) One of the most widely used approaches, CBT helps people identify unhelpful thoughts and replace them with healthier patterns. It is effective for anxiety, depression, and many other concerns.
- Contemplative Psychotherapy Combines mindfulness and meditation practices with modern psychology. It encourages awareness and compassion as part of the healing process.
- Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) Combines CBT with mindfulness to help regulate emotions, tolerate stress, and build stronger relationships. Originally designed for borderline personality disorder, it’s now used more broadly.
- Experiential Therapy Involves hands-on activities to bring emotions into the present moment. It helps clients process feelings more deeply than through conversation alone.
- Family Systems Therapy Looks at problems within the context of the family as a whole. It aims to improve communication and balance in family relationships.
- Gottman Method Couples Therapy Based on decades of research, this method gives couples tools to improve communication, manage conflict, and strengthen intimacy.
- Jungian Therapy Draws on Carl Jung’s ideas about archetypes, dreams, and the collective unconscious. It helps people explore deeper layers of meaning.
- Motivational Interviewing (MI) A collaborative, client-centered approach that strengthens motivation for change. It is especially effective for addictions and health behaviors.
- Psychodynamic Therapy Explores unconscious thoughts and patterns that influence current behavior. It builds insight into how the past impacts the present.
- Somatic Therapy Helps clients notice how emotions are stored in the body. It uses breath, movement, and awareness for healing trauma and stress.
Approach Description: My therapeutic approach is thoughtful, collaborative, and grounded in the belief that people are more than the problems that bring them to therapy. I work with clients to slow down, listen more deeply, and understand the emotional, relational, physical, spiritual, and value-based patterns shaping their lives.
In sex therapy, I do not view sexual concerns as isolated symptoms or simple performance problems. Sexual struggles often carry important information about shame, anxiety, attachment, grief, identity, desire, trauma, communication, values, and the ways people have learned to protect themselves. My role is to help clients explore these concerns with curiosity rather than judgment, and with enough honesty and compassion to make meaningful change possible.
My work draws from contemplative psychotherapy, mindfulness, emotionally focused therapy, attachment theory, parts work, cognitive-behavioral approaches, somatic awareness, and relationship-based therapy. This means we may explore thoughts and behaviors, but we will also pay attention to the body, emotions, meaning, relational patterns, and the deeper story beneath the struggle.
Therapy with me is warm, direct, reflective, and practical. I aim to create a space where clients can talk about difficult or private concerns without shame, while also being supported in taking concrete steps toward greater clarity, connection, self-understanding, and relational health.
Fees & Insurance
Fees
- Average Session Fee 195
- Out of Network
Education & Credentials
Jacob Hamlin M.Ed., LMFT, CST
- Male
- License # CMF 0210941; 170794
- Licensed in New Mexico and Kentucky
- Practicing Since 2010
Jacob Hamlin Practice Details
Therapy Sessions
- Available Online for residents of Kentucky, New Mexico
- Online Therapy Details: I provide online sex therapy and relationship therapy for adults and couples located in Kentucky and New Mexico.
You do not have to know exactly how to say it before you reach out. Many clients begin therapy feeling uncertain, embarrassed, disconnected, or unsure how to name what is happening. Sex therapy often involves concerns that feel private, tender, confusing, or difficult to discuss.
I offer online therapy for adults and couples navigating sexual intimacy, desire differences, erectile difficulties, premature ejaculation, pornography-related concerns, compulsive sexual behaviors, shame, communication around sex, relationship disconnection, anxiety, grief, identity, spirituality, and personal values.
In therapy, we work to reduce shame, increase understanding, improve communication, and build a more honest and integrated relationship with yourself, your sexuality, and the people who matter to you. My style is collaborative, direct, compassionate, and grounded in both emotional depth and practical next steps.
Sessions are offered online through SimplePractice for clients located in Kentucky and New Mexico. I accept several major insurance plans for individual therapy, depending on the plan and state. Couples therapy is private pay only. A consultation call can be a helpful first step if you are unsure whether therapy is a good fit.