In-Person in Saint Paul, MN 55105
Online in Minnesota
The men I work with care deeply about their relationships. They want to be steady, reliable, emotionally present partners. But no one ever taught them how to do that. They were raised to provide, protect, and stay composed. Now they’re being asked for emotional openness, honest communication, and vulnerability—and they’re trying to figure out how to meet those expectations without shutting down or getting angry. If you’ve ever thought, I want to be a better partner, but I don’t know where to start, you’re in the right place.
Client Focus
Session Format: Individual sessions.
Age Specialty: Adult
Languages: English
Treatment Approach
- Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) A structured therapy that uses guided eye movements to help process traumatic memories. It is widely recognized for treating PTSD and trauma-related conditions.
- Relational Psychotherapy Emphasizes the healing power of the therapist-client relationship. It uses trust and safety as a foundation for change.
Fees & Insurance
Fees
- Average Session Fee $250
- Out of Network
Education & Credentials
Reuben Houser MS, LPCC
- Male
- License # 1917
- Licensed in Minnesota
- Practicing Since 2015
Reuben Houser Practice Details
Therapy Sessions
- Available In-Person in Saint Paul, MN 55105
- Available Online for residents of Minnesota
- Online Therapy Details: Telehealth
I can teach you how to stop blowing up or shutting down whenever your partner brings up an issue. It is completely possible to listen to your partner's needs without feeling like everything is your fault. You can learn to communicate your own needs without feeling needy or weak.
It’s not your fault no one taught you how to do this, but it is your responsibility to learn if you want something better. The truth is, most men want love, connection, and peace; they just haven’t had the tools to get there. If you're ready to stop circling the same issues and actually build the kind of relationship you’ve always wanted—I’m here.