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Monica Thoelke (She/Her)

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
 therapist: Monica Thoelke,
Online in Multiple States California, Nevada, Virginia, Washington (Online Only)
I believe in the power of making a therapeutic connection with my clients and treating each client as an individual. I believe in client centered approaches and not forcing a single therapeutic framework on anyone. Our unique life experiences should be treated as that. I feel this approach truly inspires clients to create the changes they seek. This means that I use a variety of approaches such as: Adlerian therapy, DBT, CBT, Somatic and Art Therapy to address a wide range of issues such as relationship problems, anxiety, depression, PTSD and complex trauma.

Client Focus

Session Format: Group, Individual sessions.
Age Specialty: Adult, Young Adult
Demographic Expertise: Military / Veterans, Women clients.

Treatment Approach

  • Adlerian Therapy Focuses on understanding a person’s sense of belonging and purpose. It helps people overcome feelings of inferiority and create healthier relationships.
  • Art Therapy Uses creative activities like drawing, painting, or sculpture as a way to express emotions. It is especially helpful when words are hard to find.
  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) One of the most widely used approaches, CBT helps people identify unhelpful thoughts and replace them with healthier patterns. It is effective for anxiety, depression, and many other concerns.
  • Integrative Therapy Combines techniques from multiple approaches into a customized plan. It adapts to each client’s unique situation and needs.
  • Interpersonal Therapy (IPT) A short-term approach focused on improving relationships and social support. It is often used for depression and grief.
  • Narrative Therapy Encourages people to view problems as separate from themselves and reframe their life story. It helps build resilience and self-identity.
  • Psychoanalytic Therapy Based on Freud’s theories, it explores unconscious conflicts and past experiences. It seeks to bring hidden issues into awareness.
Approach Description: Supportive and empowering. Sometimes this looks like moving from miserable to coping or from good to living your best life! If you have goals we will find a way to get them accomplished. If you have not had goals before you have a dream and that is a great place to start.

Education & Credentials

Monica Thoelke LMFT
  • Female
  • License # 113892, LF6102780, 4555-R
  • Licensed in CA, WA, NV, VA
  • Practicing Since 2010
Education: MA degree in Adlerian Counseling and Psychotherapy at Adler Graduate School, completed MA level Art Therapy program at Alder Graduate School, BA degree in Liberal Arts at the University of Minnesota, Minneapolis, MN.

Finances

Fees
  • Average Session Fee $120-200
  • Affordable sliding scale therapy: apply if you may be eligible.
  • Sliding scale therapy may be provided with Income verification required to qualify.
Insurance
  • Out of Network

Monica Thoelke Practice Details

Therapy Sessions
  • Available Online for residents of Multiple States California, Nevada, Virginia, Washington
  • Online Therapy Details: Tele-therapy via a secure link sent to client before each session.
Monica Thoelke Practice Description
In sessions you will develop the mental wellness tools you need to help you build a range of personal resources. These tools will develop over sessions to resolve barriers, build stronger relationships and live a more fulfilling life.

Practice Overview

Available online only
16 Years Experience
Group, Individual

Office Hours

Monday
10:00am - 6:00pm
Tuesday
10:00am - 6:00pm
Wednesday
10:00am - 6:00pm
Thursday
10:00am - 3:00pm
Friday
9:00am - 3:00pm

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