Infidelity is very common and often leads to a number of problems. Sometimes it is with consent of the other person/s and there are many different concepts of how people like to construct relationships. However, if it is not agreed upon in a monogamous relationship it needs to be addressed. What are the reasons that caused one or both partners to seek something elsewhere? How do both partners want to deal with what has happened? What perspectives do they have and how will they decide to behave now and in the future? How can fears, anger, distrust and pain be addressed?