Marriage is difficult. The person we committed to loving the rest of our lives, is sometimes the person we can't stand to be around. Often times people wonder, "did I marry the wrong person?". These are common experiences and what I work on with couples. I utilize EFT to help a couple dive deep into their relationship, heal past wounds, and build the marriage they want
I love to work with couples. I have always had a strong desire to work with them before I began practicing as a clinician. I love to see people happy and in love, and if I can assist in that process to help them rediscover each other, then that makes me happy. I am trained in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), which is considered to be the best couples therapy modality out there according to the research. I utilize this modality the most in my work with couples, while also borrowing elements from Gottman's Method and the Prepare/Enrich modality. My goal is to give you the most comprehensive and effective treatment possible as a couple.
Marriage and Family Therapist, Ph.D., Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Marriage is challenging -- relationships face numerous challenges. How do you resolve conflict? How do you communicate? How can you possibly get over betrayals? How do you forgive? Is it even possible? I suggest to couples as soon as communication begins to break down, anger can't be resolved, or you feel a 'detachment' from yourself or partner -- don't wait to seek professional help. Often, denying there's a problem and waiting too long makes it more difficult to heal.
Situational awareness of each individuals likes and dislikes and acceptance for the unit to cope with difficulties when they arrive. Always remembering that compromise is necessary to maintain harmony
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, M.S.W., L.C.S.W., NASW Diplomate
In private practice for 32 years. I am interested in assisting you with your emotional growth and well-being. It's normal at times in life to have conflicts, but sometimes we need guidance to discover healthier ways to navigate through these challenges to have a more healthy and rewarding life!
In Imago, we believe that we all come to adulthood with childhood wounds and they are always triggered in our most intimate relationships. We also view conflict as an opportunity to grow more deeply in love. Relationships go through developmental stages just as individuals do, so when a couple is hurting and confused, my training and guidance through learning new ways to communicate and view their relationship can be very helpful.
Sometimes, it is not what we say but how we say it. We may also miss valuable bits of information our partner shares, especially when we are not as calm and focused. The goal is never a perfect marriage but a relationship that continues to learn, grow and thrive
As a Certified Prepare/Enrich Facilitator and a therapist trained in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for couples, I will meet you where you are in your relationship and work with you to further enhance your connection. All relationships go through various seasons, and not all of them are "pretty". However, counseling can help you overcome whatever obstacles you might be facing. Give me a call today so I can walk with you on your journey to wholeness!