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Lavinia May

Counselor/Therapist, MNCPS (Acc.)
Hi, I'm Lavinia. If you and your partner keep having the same argument, feel disconnected, or find yourselves walking on eggshells - you're not alone, and things can change. I specialise in couples therapy, and also work with individuals. My approach is warm, honest and practical: we'll make sense of what's going on between you, and build small, realistic steps that help your relationship feel easier, closer and more like you again. I use proven tools and techniques - without the jargon. Sessions feel like real conversations with direction: we set goals together, track what's working, and adapt as we go. work with couples and individuals navigating: recurring arguments & communication breakdowns · trust & repair after conflict · intimacy & emotional disconnection · anxiety creeping into the relationship · family & in-law boundaries · life transitions & burnout · reconnecting after a rough patch Practicalities: 50-minute sessions • Online or in person in my Sandbach office • Individual & Couples. 🎁 20% Off All Therapy Sessions: Spring is here - and so is 20% off all therapy sessions. Let's make it count! Next step: Introductory Session​ ​ 50 minutes | Individuals & Couples ​The first step is an initial session together - a relaxed conversation to get to know each other, hear a little about what's been going on, and explore how I may be able to support you. There's no pressure or commitment at this stage. Prefer to skip the Introductory Session? You're welcome to book your first therapy session directly. Available in-person in Sandbach, Cheshire, or online from anywhere.

Client Focus

Session Format: Couple, Family, Individual sessions.
Age Specialty: Adult, Senior, Young Adult
Languages: ENGLISH, ROMANIAN

Treatment Approach

  • Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT) Helps people accept difficult thoughts and feelings instead of fighting them, while committing to actions that reflect their values. It blends mindfulness with practical behavior strategies.
  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) One of the most widely used approaches, CBT helps people identify unhelpful thoughts and replace them with healthier patterns. It is effective for anxiety, depression, and many other concerns.
  • Compassion-Focused Therapy (CFT) Builds skills in self-kindness and compassion toward others. It is especially helpful for people who struggle with shame or self-criticism.
  • Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) Combines CBT with mindfulness to help regulate emotions, tolerate stress, and build stronger relationships. Originally designed for borderline personality disorder, it’s now used more broadly.
  • Family Systems Therapy Looks at problems within the context of the family as a whole. It aims to improve communication and balance in family relationships.
  • Integrative Therapy Combines techniques from multiple approaches into a customized plan. It adapts to each client’s unique situation and needs.
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS) Helps clients heal by working with different ‘parts’ of themselves, like inner critics or wounded children. It fosters harmony within the self.
  • Interpersonal Therapy (IPT) A short-term approach focused on improving relationships and social support. It is often used for depression and grief.
  • Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian) Emphasizes empathy, unconditional positive regard, and authenticity. It provides a safe space for self-discovery and growth.
  • Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) Focuses on solutions and future goals rather than past problems. It is practical, short-term, and goal-driven.

Fees & Insurance

Fees
  • Average Session Fee £60 individual session, £90 couple therapy, £120 family therapy
  • Affordable sliding scale therapy: apply if you may be eligible.
  • I offer discounted rates for block booking session, 20% off
Insurance
  • Accepts Insurance
  • BUPA, AVIVA, VITALITY, WPA

Education & Credentials

Lavinia May MNCPS (Acc.)
  • Female
  • Practicing Since 2014
Education: Family Systemic Psychotherapist , Graduated 2013| Accredited Registrant (NCPS)| Membership with British Psychological Society| Membership with The Association for Family Therapy and Systemic Practice|

Lavinia May Practice Details

Therapy Sessions
  • Available In-Person in Sandbach, England CW11
  • Available Online for residents of Romania, United Kingdom
  • Online Therapy Details: secure video call

Practice Overview

Available both in-person and online
12 Years Experience
Couple, Family, Individual

Office Hours

Monday
9:00am - 7:00pm
Tuesday
9:00am - 7:00pm
Wednesday
9:00am - 7:00pm
Thursday
9:00am - 7:00pm
Friday
9:00am - 7:00pm
Saturday
10:00am - 7:00pm
Sunday
Closed

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