Michael Ruben Couples Counselor (He/Him)
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LICSW

In-Person in Boston, MA 02116
Online in Massachusetts, Rhode Island
My expertise is working with couples to help them navigate their communication, intimacy and connection concerns. I utilize Gottman method, ETF, and problem solving therapy to help you develop a closer bond. Discover you and your partner's love languages, develop successful conflict resolution skills, and restore that " loving feeling". I have over 30 years of experience, trained at Columbia University. I offer a 20 minute complimentary consulation so you can better understand my approach. Personally I am happily married, father of four and enjoy running, baking, music, theatre, yoga, ceramics and dancing. Please feel free to reach out with any questions.
Client Focus
Session Format: Couple, Individual sessions.
Age Specialty: Adult, Young Adult
Treatment Approach
- Acceptance and Commitment Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
- Compassion Focus Therapy
- Emotionally Focused (EFT)
- Family Systems
- Gottman Method
- Integrative
Approach Description: I work collaboratively with you,using an integrative model tailored to your needs. My approach includes acceptance and commitment therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy, compassion focused therapy and family systems therapy.
Education & Credentials
Michael Ruben Couples Counselor LICSW
- Male
- License # 101866, ISW01867
- Licensed in MA, RI
- Practicing Since 1990
Education: I have BA in psychology from Oberlin College and a Master's in Clinical Social Work from Columbia University with advanced training in Family Systems Therapy.
Finances
Fees
- Average Session Fee $175
- Out of Network
- Spring Health and Modern Health are accepted
Michael Ruben Couples Counselor Practice Details
Therapy Sessions
- Available In-Person in Boston, MA 02116
- Available Online for residents of Massachusetts, Rhode Island
- Online Therapy Details: Zoom or Doxy.me
Our happiness is directly related to our relationships with our significant others. Are you wanting to recapture the love and spark you once shared? Are you seeking to feel heard or understood, or often in conflict? Are you dealing with sexual issues or an affair? With a wealth of experience, I can help you find solutions to re-establish connection and passionate love. Combining Gottman and Family Systems, I work with couples to resolve conflicts, improve communication, cultivate trust and intimacy, enhance sexual chemistry and romance, and become compassionate partners. I am engaging, active and attentive in our work together.
I specialize in couples and relationship therapy to enhance your relationship. I have helped clients with sexual desire and performance issues, premarital counseling and recovery from affairs.I work with individuals to help them be better partners, and deal with commitment and abandonment fears, which can cause conflict and distance in their relationships.
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