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Neil Coburn Relationship Therapy and Counselling (He/Him)

Registered Psychotherapist, BA (Hons), MA (Tavi Rels), MBACP (Accred)
 therapist: Neil Coburn Relationship Therapy and Counselling,
Online in United Kingdom
I have a particular focus on the relationships that matter most to people, whether it's you as a couple, or as an individual looking for a different perspective on your relationships. My training is to MA level at one of the world's leading institutions for couple and individual therapy training. I am one of few men in the field. People say I have a warm, personable approach to my work.

Client Focus

Session Format: Couple, Individual sessions.
Age Specialty: Adult, Senior

Treatment Approach

  • Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) Focuses on strengthening emotional bonds in couples or families. It helps people identify negative cycles and create more secure connections.
  • Multicultural Therapy Acknowledges the role of culture, race, and identity in mental health. It values diversity and adapts treatment to each person’s background.
  • Object Relations Therapy Focuses on how early caregiver relationships shape current relationships. It aims to improve patterns of attachment and trust.
  • Psychodynamic Therapy Explores unconscious thoughts and patterns that influence current behavior. It builds insight into how the past impacts the present.
  • Psychoeducational Therapy Provides education and coping tools about mental health conditions. It empowers clients with knowledge and practical skills.
  • Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) Focuses on solutions and future goals rather than past problems. It is practical, short-term, and goal-driven.
  • Transactional Analysis Explores interactions through the lens of Parent, Adult, and Child roles. It aims to improve communication and self-awareness.

Fees & Insurance

Fees
  • Average Session Fee £70-120
  • Affordable sliding scale therapy: apply if you may be eligible.
  • My standard fees are £80 for individuals, £100 for couples, £120 for short term separation counselling. However I am open to negotiation in cases where funds are limited, depending on my availability at the time.
Insurance
  • Accepts Insurance
  • I accept WPA, AXA, Vitality and Aviva, however they do not pay for couples therapy

Education & Credentials

Neil Coburn Relationship Therapy and Counselling BA (Hons), MA (Tavi Rels), MBACP (Accred)
  • Male
  • License # 375330 (BACP register)
  • Practicing Since 2015

Neil Coburn Relationship Therapy and Counselling Practice Details

Therapy Sessions
  • Available In-Person in Esher, England KT10 9QA
  • Available Online for residents of United Kingdom
  • Online Therapy Details: Zoom
Neil Coburn Relationship Therapy and Counselling Practice Description
I work from my own consulting room in the heart of Esher. The space is important, a home-from-home, distinct from the places that you might experience your challenges in life. Of course, not everyone can attend in-person, so I offer online sessions too where necessary. I always try to focus on your aims and objectives for your therapy, though I will also try to help you see your challenges in new and sometimes surprising ways, which can really help unlock the capacity to change.

Practice Overview

79a High Street
Available both in-person and online
11 Years Experience
Couple, Individual

Office Hours

Monday
2:00pm - 4:00pm
Tuesday
8:30am - 9:00pm
Wednesday
8:30am - 11:30am
Thursday
4:30pm - 7:30pm
Friday
8:30am - 12:30pm

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