Perfectionism therapists in Carmel-by-the-Sea, CA
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Perfectionism
Shohreh ("Sho-ray") Schmuecker
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
The parts of you that strive for perfection may have learned that having this drive can come with real advantages. The parts of you that try to be perfect may encourage you to do your very best and support you in striving for excellence. However, the relentless push for perfectionism can give you very little space for the mistakes and limitations that come with being human. Over time, the self-criticism and internal pressure tied to inflexible expectations can feel exhausting.
In our sessions together, we can work together to understand the parts of you that are working so very hard. We can explore how they came to be, how they have been helpful and if they are still serving you in the same ways they once were. Supporting you to understand what you would like moving forward and helping you find a more balance way.
12 Years Experience
Online in Carmel-by-the-Sea, CA
Perfectionism
Dan Safavi
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPCC-22108
Perfectionism can look like high standards, overthinking, procrastination, fear of mistakes, or never feeling satisfied with what you accomplish. I help clients loosen rigid expectations, become more comfortable with imperfection and uncertainty, and pursue excellence without being controlled by constant self-pressure.
7 Years Experience
Online in Carmel-by-the-Sea, CA (Online Only)
Perfectionism
Melanie Simms
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
I believe that self-compassion is the antidote for perfectionism. I work with clients to heal from early traumatic experiences that may have led to the development of perfectionism as a coping mechanism. I help clients develop their overall feeling of self-worth and treat themselves with greater compassion to reduce perfectionistic tendencies.
11 Years Experience
Online in Carmel-by-the-Sea, CA
Perfectionism
New Beginnings Christian Counseling
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Perfectionism can feel like a constant pressure to perform, achieve, or appear “good enough,” often leaving you exhausted, anxious, or self-critical. It’s usually rooted in early experiences, fear of failure, or unmet expectations. In therapy, we explore the beliefs driving perfectionistic patterns, develop healthier self-compassion, and create practical strategies for balance and emotional freedom. With Christ-centered guidance, you’ll learn to embrace progress over perfection, honor your worth, and live with greater peace and authenticity.
15 Years Experience
Online in Carmel-by-the-Sea, CA
Perfectionism
Nes Pinar Psychotherapy
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Many people don’t realize that perfectionism isn’t about doing things perfectly—it’s about feeling like anything less than what they had in their minds is unacceptable. This mindset often creates constant self‑criticism, pressure, and a sense that nothing is ever “good enough,” even when you’re working incredibly hard. I help clients notice these patterns with compassion and begin shifting toward a more grounded, accepting way of relating to themselves.
15 Years Experience
Online in Carmel-by-the-Sea, CA
Perfectionism therapists in Carmel-by-the-Sea, CA Statistics
Perfectionism therapists in Carmel-by-the-Sea, CA average 14 years of experience and charge around $214 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (73%), Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) (43%), and Somatic Therapy (41%).
Average years in practice
14 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$214
Accept insurance
43%
Offer sliding scale
35%
Gender ID
| 68% |
Female |
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| 24% |
Male |
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| 4% |
Gender Fluid |
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| 4% |
Non-Binary |
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Session Type
| 55% |
In Person and Online |
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| 45% |
Online Only |
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Top Treatment Approaches
| 73% | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) |
| 43% | Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) |
| 41% | Somatic Therapy |
| 39% | Psychodynamic Therapy |
| 35% | Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) |
| 33% | Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT) |
| 33% | Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) |
Ages Served
| 100% | Adult |
| 71% | Young Adult |
| 63% | Senior |
| 41% | Teen |
| 24% | Children |
Client Focus
| 69% | Women |
| 51% | LGBTQ+ |
| 37% | Asian |
| 37% | Men |
| 33% | Christian |