Infidelity therapists in San Martin, California CA
Russell Wilkie
Marriage and Family Therapist, MFT
Infidelity is one of the most complicated things I've ever dealt with as a therapist. It taps into so many areas that we feel deeply about: trust, faith, betrayal, self-esteem, self-doubt, true love, soul-mates, reconciliation, forgiveness, PTSD, and even our future. The most common question that I hear people ask is, "Why did it happen?" Unfortunately, the answer is often very complicated and hearing the answer is often less than soothing. We want to know why, because, we believe, if we understand it, we can prevent the pain of it happening again in the future. That is difficult to do, so we have to look at our understanding of how control plays a part in our psyche.
36 Years Experience
Misty Johnson
Counselor/Therapist, LCSW
Infidelity does not have to mean the end of a union. There are so many pathways to heal from infidelity and come out stronger as a united couple and restore trust.
6 Years Experience
Scheyden Herold
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT #137593, MS
In my work with couples, I don't believe infidelity is the final straw to end the relationship. The challenges that are presented with this issue are great, but I believe we can work to truly find out what is best for the both of you when it comes to managing this.
5 Years Experience
Dan Fink
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Most people will not get all of their needs met in a single relationship. Let's explore different ways of getting needs met and potentially different types of relationship arrangements, such a polyamory, consensual non-monogamy, and other forms of relationship anarchy.
15 Years Experience
Meg Luce
Marriage and Family Therapist, M.S., LMFT
Infidelity is as painful as it gets. There are many forms of infidelity, including sexual, emotional, and online infidelities. This is delicate work that requires some patience and willingness to repair the deep hurts. With the investment of both partners, it can be done and couples can move forward to have secure and rewarding relationships.
15 Years Experience