Infidelity therapists in Bloomington, IL
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Tim Jenkins
Counselor/Therapist, LCPC
Through the twenty year private practice career as a counselor, I have had a special interest in helping couples that were on the brink of divorce or separation. Many of them found themselves here due to infidelity. It is a special thing to help people to first understand infidelity; why it happens and what to do about it. Primarily, partners often feel that infidelity is their fault: that they did not do something well enough or that they are not attractive, pretty or handsome enough. That is the furthest thing from the truth. Infidelity most often happens due to sexual addiction, or due to the lack of feeling happy with one's self. When another shines their warm light of attention on you, and pays you lots of compliments, it can be very addictive to achieve that dopamine rush. There is also the element of the Coolidge effect. There is a biological thing that happens in animals. Males, (and to some extent females of the species) experience renewed sexual interest whenever a new partner is introduced.
This phenomenon comes about from an anecdote about Calvin Coolidge when he was President. The President and Mrs. Coolidge were being shown around an experimental government farm walking with two separate groups of reporters. When the first lady, whom was known to have a lot of moxie, came to the chicken yard she noticed that a rooster was mating very frequently. She asked the attendant how often that happened and was told, "Dozens of times each day." Mrs. Coolidge said, "Tell that to the President when he comes by." Upon being told this, President Coolidge asked, "Same hen every time?" The reply was, "Oh, no, Mr. President, a different hen every time." President: "Tell that to Mrs. Coolidge."
26 Years Experience
In-Person in Bloomington, IL 61704
Online in Bloomington, IL
Infidelity
Juliette Grantham
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
I'm Juliette Grantham, a psychoanalytic psychotherapist specializing in infidelity.
The aftermath of infidelity is rarely simple, whichever side of it you are on. If you were betrayed, you may be replaying details you wish you did not know, unable to decide whether to stay or go, or shaken by how much you no longer trust your own read on things. If you were the one who strayed, you may be trying to understand what you did and why, alongside shame that makes it hard to think clearly at all.
I work psychoanalytically, which means the question is not only what happened but what it meant. An affair usually has an unconscious logic worth understanding: something it expressed, protected against, or made possible. In sessions we take that up honestly, without a predetermined verdict about what you should do next.
If infidelity has upended your sense of your relationship or yourself, I would be glad to talk.
2 Years Experience
Online in Bloomington, IL
Infidelity
Philadelphia Couples Therapy
Psychologist, PsyD
There was a period of time in our country where partners were expected to stay with their spouse after an affair. It was considered deeply shameful to divorce. The tables seem to have turned, however, as we now live in a more autonomous and self-realizing culture; it’s often expected that the ‘victim’ of an affair will leave the unfaithful spouse in order to make a statement of self-respect. Now, if you stay with your partner after they’ve had an affair, you may feel ashamed and humiliated, as though you’re not strong enough to leave. You may even hear from well-meaning friends and family that “you deserve better.”
Although the therapists at PCT are by and large hopeless romantics, we are also realists. We are under no illusions that romantic partnerships are easy, but we also know affairs happen for a multitude of reasons. Many cases of infidelity can be mended, repaired, and used as a growth opportunity for the couple. We are here to walk this excruciating journey with you- we know where the guideposts are, we know what recovery looks like. Sometimes you will feel like you’re backsliding, but it’s only a product of healing. It’s a confusing and painful experience, but often, in the end, absolutely worth it. We are here to help.
23 Years Experience
Online in Bloomington, IL
Infidelity
Bergen Counseling Collective
Counselor/Therapist, LCPC
The discovery changes everything. Trust that took years to build is shattered in a moment, and now you're both trying to figure out what comes next. Whether you're the one who was betrayed or the one who strayed, the path forward is painful and confusing. Can this be repaired? Should it be? How do you even begin? Our Gottman-trained clinicians specialize in helping couples navigate the aftermath of infidelity. We won't rush you toward forgiveness or push you toward divorce. We'll help you understand what happened, process the pain honestly, and make a clear-eyed decision about your future. Telehealth throughout Illinois. BCBS PPO and Aetna accepted.
20 Years Experience
Online in Bloomington, IL
Infidelity
Merrisa Dawn Santos
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, NCC, CCTMHP, CCTP
In supporting individuals dealing with infidelity in their relationship or marriage, I provide a compassionate and nonjudgmental space for them to process their emotions and navigate the complexities of their situation. Through therapy, we explore the underlying factors contributing to the infidelity, such as communication issues, unmet needs, or underlying relationship problems. I offer strategies to cope with intense emotions such as anger, betrayal, or grief, and facilitate open and honest communication between partners. Additionally, we work on rebuilding trust, setting boundaries, and exploring the possibility of forgiveness and reconciliation if desired. My goal is to support individuals in making informed decisions about their relationship and ultimately finding healing and resolution, whether that involves rebuilding the relationship or moving forward separately.
5 Years Experience
Online in Bloomington, IL (Online Only)
Infidelity therapists in Bloomington, IL Statistics
Infidelity therapists in Bloomington, IL average 18 years of experience and charge around $203 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (69%), Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) (41%), and Family Systems Therapy (40%).
Average years in practice
18 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$203
Accept insurance
40%
Offer sliding scale
34%
Gender ID
| 58% |
Female |
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| 41% |
Male |
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| 1% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 60% |
In Person and Online |
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| 40% |
Online Only |
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Top Treatment Approaches
| 69% | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) |
| 41% | Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) |
| 40% | Family Systems Therapy |
| 40% | Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian) |
| 37% | Psychodynamic Therapy |
| 33% | Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) |
| 30% | Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT) |
Ages Served
| 99% | Adult |
| 70% | Young Adult |
| 57% | Senior |
| 46% | Teen |
| 20% | Children |
Client Focus
| 60% | Women |
| 53% | Men |
| 47% | LGBTQ+ |
| 31% | Military / Veterans |
| 27% | Christian |