Infidelity therapists in Bloomington, Illinois IL
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Tim Jenkins
Counselor/Therapist, LCPC
Through the twenty year private practice career as a counselor, I have had a special interest in helping couples that were on the brink of divorce or separation. Many of them found themselves here due to infidelity. It is a special thing to help people to first understand infidelity; why it happens and what to do about it. Primarily, partners often feel that infidelity is their fault: that they did not do something well enough or that they are not attractive, pretty or handsome enough. That is the furthest thing from the truth. Infidelity most often happens due to sexual addiction, or due to the lack of feeling happy with one's self. When another shines their warm light of attention on you, and pays you lots of compliments, it can be very addictive to achieve that dopamine rush. There is also the element of the Coolidge effect. There is a biological thing that happens in animals. Males, (and to some extent females of the species) experience renewed sexual interest whenever a new partner is introduced.
This phenomenon comes about from an anecdote about Calvin Coolidge when he was President. The President and Mrs. Coolidge were being shown around an experimental government farm walking with two separate groups of reporters. When the first lady, whom was known to have a lot of moxie, came to the chicken yard she noticed that a rooster was mating very frequently. She asked the attendant how often that happened and was told, "Dozens of times each day." Mrs. Coolidge said, "Tell that to the President when he comes by." Upon being told this, President Coolidge asked, "Same hen every time?" The reply was, "Oh, no, Mr. President, a different hen every time." President: "Tell that to Mrs. Coolidge."
26 Years Experience
In-Person in Bloomington, IL 61704
Online in Bloomington, IL Illinois
Bergen Counseling Collective
Counselor/Therapist, LCPC
The discovery changes everything. Trust that took years to build is shattered in a moment, and now you're both trying to figure out what comes next. Whether you're the one who was betrayed or the one who strayed, the path forward is painful and confusing. Can this be repaired? Should it be? How do you even begin? Our Gottman-trained clinicians specialize in helping couples navigate the aftermath of infidelity. We won't rush you toward forgiveness or push you toward divorce. We'll help you understand what happened, process the pain honestly, and make a clear-eyed decision about your future. Telehealth throughout Illinois. BCBS PPO and Aetna accepted.
20 Years Experience
Online in Bloomington, IL Illinois
Alan Jacobson, Psy.D.
Psychologist, Licensed Psychologist, Nationally Registered Health Service Provider
I work with couples where infidelity has been an issue, helping them find a path to forgiveness and navigate the emotional aftereffects. I also work with individuals who want to sort out the emotional impact of infidelity. For individuals, even when forgiveness is not possible, therapy can help people overcome and understand the feelings it produces in order to emerge stronger.
25 Years Experience
Online in Bloomington, IL Illinois (Online Only)
Natalie Campbell
Psychologist, PsyD; LLC
A lot of anger and grief with this one. And yet, it's also a whistleblower that saves relationships in the end! We can become too complacent in our relationships and sometimes we get hurt so deeply as a way to realize things need to change. But how and where to start? I can help with this.
29 Years Experience
Online in Bloomington, IL Illinois (Online Only)
Mind Lodge
Therapist, LCPC
Infidelity can shake the foundation of trust in a relationship, but recovery is possible. We help individuals and couples process the pain, rebuild communication, and work toward healing and understanding.
21 Years Experience
Online in Bloomington, IL Illinois
Infidelity therapists in Bloomington, Illinois Statistics
Infidelity therapists in Bloomington, Illinois average 19 years of experience and charge around $213 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (71%), Family Systems Therapy (43%), and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) (41%).
Average years in practice
19 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$213
Accept insurance
42%
Offer sliding scale
35%
Gender ID
| 56% |
Female |
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| 41% |
Male |
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| 2% |
Gender Fluid |
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| 1% |
Non-Binary |
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Session Type
| 65% |
In Person and Online |
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| 35% |
Online Only |
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Top Treatment Approaches
| 71% | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) |
| 43% | Family Systems Therapy |
| 41% | Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) |
| 39% | Psychodynamic Therapy |
| 38% | Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian) |
| 35% | Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) |
| 33% | Eclectic Therapy |
Ages Served
| 96% | Adult |
| 67% | Young Adult |
| 58% | Senior |
| 49% | Teen |
| 22% | Children |
Client Focus
| 57% | Women |
| 51% | Men |
| 45% | LGBTQ+ |
| 29% | Military / Veterans |
| 29% | Hispanic / Latino |