Chronic Pain therapists in Paola, Kansas KS
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Dr. Cynthia Edwards-Hawver
Psychologist, Psy.D.
When you’ve been in survival mode long enough, your body eventually starts to speak the truth your brain has been trying to ignore.
If you're a high-functioning woman living with chronic illness—Lyme disease, autoimmune issues, migraines, chronic fatigue, fibromyalgia, IBS, or symptoms no doctor can fully explain—you may have spent years blaming yourself. Pushing through. Powering on. Telling yourself you're just stressed, just tired, just too sensitive. But what if your illness isn’t just physical? What if your body is responding to something deeper—like the emotional trauma of a toxic or narcissistic relationship?
I work with women who are successful, smart, and chronically unwell—often without fully understanding that the constant stress, emotional abuse, gaslighting, or high-conflict co-parenting dynamic they’ve endured may be a major root cause of their health issues. These relationships dysregulate your nervous system, flood your body with cortisol, erode your immune system, and create the perfect storm for illness to take hold.
You may be:
Co-parenting with a narcissist and constantly walking on eggshells
Living with post-separation abuse, burnout, and deep emotional exhaustion
Feeling dismissed by medical providers who don’t ask about your relationships
Blaming your body while ignoring the decades of survival it’s endured
Overachieving while secretly unraveling
Wondering if your body is trying to get your attention
If you’ve found yourself searching:
Why am I always sick and exhausted?
How trauma affects chronic illness
Can narcissistic abuse cause physical illness?
Stress-related autoimmune disease in women
Burnout, inflammation, and emotional abuse
Why chronic illness flares after divorce
...you are not imagining it.
Your body is not broken. It’s been fighting to keep you alive through years of emotional chaos.
I specialize in working with women who are managing chronic illness and the emotional aftermath of toxic relationships. Whether you’re still in the relationship, co-parenting with someone who triggers you daily, or finally trying to heal in peace—this work matters. You deserve care that looks at the whole you: physical, emotional, relational, and psychological.
You’re not weak for being sick. You’re strong for surviving what made you sick in the first place.
25 Years Experience
Online in Paola, Kansas (Online Only)
Nancy Hayes-Gary, Psy.D.
Psychologist, Licensed Psychologist, MD , Psy.D.
Hypnosis once again works with most people learning to control their pain. Chronic illness too can come with more losses than a loss of some functioning. These are often very stressful conditions, requiring someone to adjust their sense of themselves to fit new situations.
32 Years Experience
Online in Paola, Kansas (Online Only)
Telespera Counseling
Licensed Professional Counselor
Living with conditions like migraines, fibromyalgia, or other chronic pain can feel like a constant battle. You never know when the pain will strike, derailing your plans and sidelining you from the life you’ve worked so hard to build. Worse, others may question your work ethic or even your sanity, leaving you feeling misunderstood and unsupported.
You’ve spent countless hours in pain, isolated in the dark, wondering if anyone truly cares or understands. And when you reach out for help, you’re often met with blank stares, half-hearted solutions, or advice that completely misses the point. Communicating your needs to doctors, employers, or even friends and loved ones feels like an uphill climb, leaving you longing for someone who really gets it.
But here’s the truth: you don’t have to accept a life of suffering and isolation. Relief is possible, and support is within reach. You deserve to be heard, understood, and helped.
16 Years Experience
Online in Paola, Kansas (Online Only)
Launi Treece
Psychologist, PhD
My specialty in my PhD program was in behavioral medicine (the mind/body connection). I often teach relaxation skills, "spoons theory" and self care techniques. Often we will use trauma related methods like EMDR or LI to identify the trauma or pain caused by the illness/injury in order to clear out that aspect as well.
27 Years Experience
Online in Paola, Kansas
South Psychology
Psychologist, PhD
Living with chronic pain or managing a long-term illness can be incredibly challenging. At South Psychology, we recognize the unique struggles you face, and our mission is to provide evidence-based mental health therapy and assessment services that functionally improve the lives of individuals and families.
Our Approach:
Holistic Care: We understand that chronic pain and illness impact not only the body but also the mind and emotions. Our holistic approach integrates physical, emotional, and psychological aspects to promote overall well-being.
Expert Guidance: Our team of experienced psychologists specializes in pain management. We stay informed about the latest research and therapeutic techniques to offer effective solutions tailored to your needs.
Comprehensive Assessment: Accurate assessment is the foundation of effective treatment. We delve into the complexities of your pain or illness, considering both physical symptoms and emotional responses.
How We Can Help:
Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT): CBT is a powerful tool for managing chronic pain. By addressing distorted thoughts and promoting healthier coping strategies, we empower you to regain control over your life.
Relaxation Techniques: Learn practical relaxation methods to reduce tension, ease discomfort, and enhance your overall well-being.
Emotional Support: Chronic pain often leads to feelings of frustration, anxiety, and depression. Our compassionate therapists provide a safe space to express these emotions and work toward healing.
7 Years Experience
Online in Paola, Kansas