Domestic Abuse therapists in Washington, D.C. DC
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Dr. Cynthia Edwards-Hawver
Psychologist, Psy.D.
Not all abuse leaves bruises. Some of it leaves you doubting your memory, apologizing for things you didn’t do, and walking on eggshells in your own home.
If you’re a high-functioning, capable woman who’s slowly crumbling inside—you may be experiencing domestic abuse and not even realize it. Emotional abuse, narcissistic manipulation, and coercive control are forms of domestic violence that are often overlooked because they’re invisible. You’re not being “too sensitive.” You’re surviving something that chips away at your sense of self, day by day.
You may be parenting with a narcissistic partner, navigating post-separation abuse, stuck in a trauma bond, or enduring parallel parenting chaos that never seems to end. Maybe you're the one doing the therapy, the reading, the work—while your partner gaslights, denies, blames, or plays the victim (DARVO). Maybe you’ve even tried couples counseling, only to leave feeling more confused and more alone because traditional therapy just didn’t name what’s really happening.
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…then your body and brain already know something’s wrong—even if you haven’t said the word abuse out loud.
This is domestic abuse. And it’s not your fault.
I help high-achieving women who are navigating the invisible trauma of emotional abuse, narcissistic relationships, and toxic co-parenting dynamics. Whether you’re still in the relationship, planning your next steps, or trying to rebuild your identity after years of control—I’m here to walk with you. Not to label you. Not to rush you. But to validate what you’ve lived through, and help you heal deeply.
You don’t have to prove it to get support. You just have to stop surviving it alone.
25 Years Experience
Online in Washington, D.C. (Online Only)
DR Mindy Jacobs
Psychologist, PhD -licensed psychologist, ABPP-Board Certified in Counseling Psychology
I work with patients to help them bring together their thoughts and emotions. I start with accepting them for who they are and helping people live out their potential. I explore the person's history as well as prenent influences. I also utilize the therapy relationship as a microcosm their life.
40 Years Experience
In-Person in Washington, DC 20007
Shannon Fowler
Psychologist, PhD
In situations with domestic abuse or violence compassion is number one. I work to understand the situation each individual finds themselves in. From there we can create a plan so they can better take care of themself.
16 Years Experience
Online in Washington, D.C. (Online Only)
Elisha S Lee
Counselor/Therapist, NCCA CTCC CPC
Our counseling services for survivors of domestic abuse or violence provide a compassionate, safe space to address the trauma and complex emotions arising from abusive relationships. Understanding that domestic abuse can take many forms—physical, emotional, sexual, financial—we offer tailored support to empower individuals as they navigate their journey of healing and reclaim their lives.
Empowering Survival and Healing from Domestic Abuse
* Trauma-Informed Care: Drawing from trauma-informed approaches, our counseling services prioritize safety, choice, collaboration, trustworthiness, and empowerment, acknowledging the profound impact of trauma on an individual's life and facilitating a path toward recovery.
* Safety Planning: We assist clients in developing comprehensive safety plans, whether they are preparing to leave an abusive situation, in the process of leaving, or have already left. This planning addresses immediate safety, legal protections, financial security, and long-term independence.
* Emotional Support: Our counseling provides a supportive environment to process emotions such as fear, guilt, shame, anger, and grief, while also working to rebuild self-esteem, confidence, and a sense of self-worth that has been eroded by abuse.
* Healing from Trauma: Through evidence-based therapeutic techniques, we assist clients in processing and healing from the trauma of abuse, anxiety, and depression.
* Rebuilding Life Skills: The path to recovery includes rebuilding life skills that may have been lost or diminished due to abuse. We support clients in gaining independence, making their own decisions, and establishing a healthy, self-determined life.
Goals of Counseling for Domestic Abuse or Violence
Our counseling for survivors of domestic abuse aims to:
* Restore Safety and Security: Ensure that clients feel physically and emotionally safe and secure, both within the counseling environment and in their personal lives.
* Empower Independence: Empower clients to regain control over their lives, decisions, and well-being, fostering a sense of independence and self-efficacy.
* Facilitate Emotional Healing: Support clients in healing from the emotional scars of abuse, promoting resilience and positive self-regard.
* Enhance Coping Strategies: Equip clients with effective coping strategies for managing stress, triggers, and the challenges of rebuilding their lives after abuse.
* Support Healthy Relationships: Guide clients in recognizing the signs of healthy versus unhealthy relationships, setting boundaries, and building supportive, respectful connections moving forward.
Surviving domestic abuse or violence is a profound and courageous journey. Our dedicated team is here to support you through every step, providing the compassionate care and expertise needed to heal, grow, and embrace a future free from abuse. Reach out today to learn how you can reclaim your life and your sense of self.
8 Years Experience
Online in Washington, D.C.
Dempsey Young, Psy.D.
Psychologist, Licensed Psychologist
As a trauma specialist, I work A LOT with trauma whether it was early on in life or currently. I worked hard in my education and research to specialize in this and can help you heal from the deep wounds that abuse and violence creates.
11 Years Experience
Online in Washington, D.C. (Online Only)