Gottman Method Couples therapists in Arroyo Grande, CA
Browse Gottman Method Couples therapists in Arroyo Grande, California. Compare credentials, specialties and therapeutic approach. Contact a therapist to learn more.
Gottman Method
Nathan Ely, LMFT
Marriage and Family Therapist, MDiv, LMFT
I first got my start in ministry working as a worship leader and musician, and later in the private and public schools as a teacher. These experiences opened my eyes to the need for people of all ages to find healing through difficult experiences. My therapy career began in the private practice setting and then I worked at a clinic as a child and family therapist for several years before starting my own practice. My specialization and training is in working with couples, kids and families and individuals. Currently, I'm an EMDR certified therapist which is one of the best evidence based trauma recovery models for those wanting to move through painful experiences and find healing from trauma. My goal is to walk with you on the healing journey and help you understand how to have a healthier relationship with yourself and others.
8 Years Experience
Online in Arroyo Grande, CA
Gottman Method
Layla Ashley Psychotherapy
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Relationships can bring our deepest joy, but they can also surface painful patterns. If you and your partner find yourselves caught in the same arguments, struggling to truly hear one another, or feeling emotionally distant, you’re not alone. Many couples reach a point where communication breaks down and the connection they once felt begins to feel strained or uncertain. Sometimes earlier life experiences, family patterns, or stressors quietly shape the way we relate, making it harder to stay close even when the love is still there.
With more than two decades of experience working with couples, I help partners slow down the cycle of conflict and understand what’s really happening beneath the surface. My approach is compassionate, collaborative, and grounded in relational and attachment-based work. I support couples in developing healthier communication, repairing emotional wounds, and building a stronger foundation of trust and intimacy. I’m also particularly attuned to the needs of highly sensitive people and those who want a thoughtful, depth-oriented approach to relationship growth.
Whether you’re preparing for a deeper commitment, working to repair trust after a rupture, or trying to rediscover connection after years together, therapy can offer a meaningful path forward. I also support individuals navigating dating, heartbreak, or relationship transitions. Together we’ll work toward clearer communication, emotional safety, and a relationship that feels more conscious, supportive, and alive.
If you’d like to explore whether this work might be a good fit, feel free to reach out to schedule a complimentary consultation.
23 Years Experience
Online in Arroyo Grande, CA
Gottman Method
Michelle King Rayfield
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
I know that people come to therapy because they want something in their life to change. That's why I am very conscious of how we set goals and then create a road map to achieving them. I focus on relationships & couples counseling, anxiety, trauma, and life transitions. I am a Certified EMDR Therapist and I have held roles of Clinical Director and Therapist in a number of addiction treatment centers in Southern California. My educational background includes a Master’s in Clinical Psychology from Pepperdine University and a Master’s in Education from the University of Southern California. I know it can be hard to navigate through our struggles all alone, which is why I find joy in helping others feel supported in finding happiness, success, and fulfillment in life.
9 Years Experience
Online in Arroyo Grande, CA
Gottman Method
Higher Sights Counseling
Counselor/Therapist
At Higher Sights Counseling we understand that being stuck and feeling like everything you have tried has left you hopeless is one of the most painful experiences to have. We believe that each person has everything that they need within themselves to overcome even the most difficult challenges that life has to offer. We help our clients feel empowered by helping them to see their own strengths and by teaching them new research-based tools to help focus and guide them for lasting change. We believe that therapy is a starting point to healing and changing patterns that have not been working. We work to help each unique client develop a new way to feel confident in approaching life matter what comes their way. A better life starts today.
We have a team of dedicated and trained psychotherapists that specialize in a variety of issues and use evidence-based treatment methods that are proven to be effective. Our counselors specialize in marital counseling, anxiety, depression, trauma/PTSD, family and other relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, and addiction/substance abuse. Our therapists use Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, the Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Therapy, and a combination of many more researched-based approaches specified for your unique needs. Together your clinician and you will develop a treatment plan to meet your changing needs so you can achieve any goal.
We believe that finding the right fit and connection with your therapist is essential to the success of therapy. We are dedicated to helping you find a clinician that you feel comfortable with and we emphasize a non-judgemental client-centered approach where we believe YOU are the expert of your life and we are here to support you in what areas you want to address. Our company thrives on consistently learning and growing with the developing world of treatment and knowledge and we hand-pick each of our therapists based off their compassion, knowledge, and desire to help you feel empowered and confident in your own life. Don't hesitate to text, call, or email with questions and visit us at HigherSightsCounseling.com to learn more!
16 Years Experience
Online in Arroyo Grande, CA
Gottman Method
Gwendolyn Evans, PhD
Psychologist, PhD
My life mission is to create Inner Peace, one person at a time, one couple at a time. Are you anxious or depressed? Struggling with emotional or physical infidelity? Feeling lonely, overwhelmed or undervalued in your life and relationships? Are you struggling with racial or cross-cultural issues? I've worked with all of these issues and experienced many of them myself, as a mixed-race person: African-American/Irish-Apache. There are ways to make peace with yourself while walking through our world of challenges.
32 Years Experience
Online in Arroyo Grande, CA
Gottman Method Couples Therapy therapists in Arroyo Grande, CA Statistics
Gottman Method Couples Therapy therapists in Arroyo Grande, CA average 14 years of experience and charge around $204 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Relationship and Marriage Counseling (86%), Anxiety or Fears (81%), and Depression (67%).
Average years in practice
14 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$204
Accept insurance
53%
Offer sliding scale
46%
Gender ID
| 57% |
Female |
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| 36% |
Male |
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| 4% |
Non-Binary |
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| 3% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 69% |
In Person and Online |
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| 31% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 86% | Relationship and Marriage Counseling |
| 81% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 67% | Depression |
| 65% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 47% | Loss or Grief |
| 47% | Stress |
| 46% | Self Esteem |
Ages Served
| 100% | Adult |
| 71% | Young Adult |
| 54% | Senior |
| 53% | Teen |
| 28% | Children |
Client Focus
| 56% | Women |
| 44% | LGBTQ+ |
| 40% | Christian |
| 39% | Men |
| 29% | Black / African American |