Sex therapists in Barstow, CA
Browse Sex therapists in Barstow, California. Compare credentials, specialties and therapeutic approach. Contact a therapist to learn more.
Frankie Santiago
Life Coach, Professional Life Coach
I help men and women improve their sexual health, intimacy, and connection through practical life coaching. Whether you’re dealing with challenges around desire, performance, communication in the bedroom, or rebuilding a satisfying intimate life, we focus on open dialogue, practical strategies, and personalized tools to reduce shame, build confidence, and create healthier sexual experiences. My supportive, non-judgmental approach empowers you to address these areas with clarity and respect for your pace and goals. Ready to create positive change? I offer a free 15 minute initial consultation to see how we can work together.
15 Years Experience
Online in Barstow, CA (Online Only)
Dr. David Shapiro
Psychologist, California Licensed Psychologist (License# PSY17495)
Sex Therapy, Intimacy & Erotic Fulfillment
Cultivating Connection, Pleasure, and Sexual Vitality
Sexuality is a vital dimension of human well-being, emotional closeness, and quality of life. Yet, physical changes, performance stress, unaddressed trauma, or relational drift can turn intimacy into a source of anxiety, frustration, or quiet isolation.
My work in sex and intimacy therapy provides a confidential, sophisticated, and deeply non-judgmental environment for both individuals and couples. Whether you are navigating specific functional challenges or seeking to deepen your erotic connection, our work bridges physical function, emotional intimacy, and psychological freedom.
Comprehensive & Functional Care
Sexuality involves a delicate balance between the physical body, the nervous system, and emotional safety. I provide expert guidance across a broad spectrum of sexual concerns, including:
Sexual Function & Performance Anxiety: Addressing erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, and performance stress by quieting the body's alarm system and restoring effortless confidence.
Desire Dynamics & Arousal Discrepancy: Helping individuals and couples navigate low libido, mismatched sexual desire, or the natural shift in erotic energy over long-term partnerships.
Somatic Comfort & Pain-Free Intimacy: Supporting individuals through painful intercourse (vaginismus, dyspareunia, or pelvic tension) by integrating gentle nervous system regulation and mind-body awareness.
Trauma-Informed Healing: Gently reprocessing past sexual trauma, bodily shame, or restrictive cultural messaging, helping you reclaim safe, joyful ownership of your body and pleasure.
Expanding Intimacy & Alternative Lifestyles
Intimacy flourishes when couples move beyond mechanical routine and cultivate genuine emotional presence, playfulness, and eroticism.
Fusing Emotional Closeness with Eroticism: Helping partners build a shared language around desire, loving touch, and mutual pleasure—learning how to cultivate deep emotional safety without sacrificing erotic spark.
Alternative Lifestyles & Consensual Non-Monogamy: Offering an informed, open-minded, and affirmative environment for individuals and couples exploring alternative relationship structures, open relationships, polyamory, or BDSM/kink dynamics.
Whether you are seeking to resolve a specific functional concern, heal from past injuries, or expand your capacity for joy and fulfillment, our work offers the privacy, safety, and expertise needed to align your sexual life with your highest personal vision.
26 Years Experience
Online in Barstow, CA
Monica M. Huston
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Sexual concerns are often connected to communication, emotional intimacy, and individual experiences rather than just physical factors. I work with individuals and couples to better understand these dynamics and create a space where concerns can be explored openly and without judgment. Therapy focuses on improving connection, communication, and overall satisfaction.
9 Years Experience
Online in Barstow, CA
Ken Howard, LCSW, CST - GayTherapyLA.com
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, MSW, LCSW, CST (Sexual Health Alliance)
Ken is one of only several gay male identified Certified Sex Therapists (Sexual Health Alliance) in Los Angeles County, and one of the few gay men's specialist sex therapists in the United States today. He has over 34 years experience providing couples therapy and relationship coaching, with a specialization in gay male couples and gay male polycules. He has an additional clinical services Certification in Consensual Non-Monogamy and Polyamorous Relationships/Families from the Sexual Health Alliance. He is a Certified Sex Therapist (Sexual Health Alliance) trained under David Ley, PhD, Heather McPherson, LMFT, and Michael Vigorito, LMFT, of the Sexual Health Alliance.
34 Years Experience
Online in Barstow, CA (Online Only)
Piyola Derbarseghian- Sex & Relationship Therapist
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, AMFT
Sexuality is a vital part of our well-being, yet it’s often the part we feel most alone in. I provide a safe, non-judgmental space to explore concerns like low desire, performance anxiety and issues, pain during sex, out-of-sync libidos, sexual shame, or questions around kink, orientation, or non-monogamy. Whether you're looking to heal, reconnect, or grow, sex therapy can help you cultivate a more fulfilling and authentic sexual self, individually or with a partner(s).
4 Years Experience
Online in Barstow, CA (Online Only)
Sex Therapy therapists in Barstow, CA Statistics
Sex Therapy therapists in Barstow, CA average 16 years of experience and charge around $225 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (68%), Psychodynamic Therapy (47%), and Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) (45%).
Average years in practice
16 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$225
Accept insurance
45%
Offer sliding scale
50%
Gender ID
| 46% |
Female |
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| 44% |
Male |
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| 5% |
Gender Fluid |
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| 5% |
Non-Binary |
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Session Type
| 60% |
In Person and Online |
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| 40% |
Online Only |
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Top Treatment Approaches
| 68% | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) |
| 47% | Psychodynamic Therapy |
| 45% | Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) |
| 42% | Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) |
| 40% | Existential / Humanistic Therapy |
| 40% | Relational Psychotherapy |
| 39% | Family Systems Therapy |
Ages Served
| 100% | Adult |
| 61% | Senior |
| 60% | Young Adult |
| 50% | Teen |
| 29% | Children |
Client Focus
| 66% | Women |
| 60% | LGBTQ+ |
| 55% | Men |
| 35% | Hispanic / Latino |
| 35% | Military / Veterans |