Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapists in Carmel-by-the-Sea, California CA
Carmel-by-the-Sea Therapists (Statistics)
Average years in practice
12 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$193
Gender ID
| 64% |
Female |
|
| 29% |
Male |
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| 4% |
Non-Binary |
|
| 3% |
Gender Fluid |
|
Session Type
| 59% |
In Person and Online |
|
| 41% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 76% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 63% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 60% | Depression |
| 56% | Stress |
| 50% | Relationship and Marriage Counseling |
| 47% | Loss or Grief |
| 47% | Self Esteem |
We are proud to feature top rated Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapists in Carmel-by-the-Sea, CA. We encourage you to review each profile to find your best match.
Internal Family Systems (IFS)
Laurie Moore
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, PhD, Certified Hypnotherapist, EMDR
You will be valued, heard and seen for the person you are and the matters that are most important to you. You will receive compassion and help to change what has caused you pain. You will be guided to create new ways of navigating yourself and your life so life can be much more of what you are seeking! More peace and joy are available.
26 Years Experience
Online in Carmel-by-the-Sea, California (Online Only)
Internal Family Systems (IFS)
Annette Barnett
Pre-Licensed Professional, AMFT 119490
FREE 30 min video consultation - email, call or text 408-357-9187. For Couples Therapy, choose a Couples Therapist. Not feeling heard or understood? Repetitive shaming & blaming? Often one person feels unsupported & unimportant & “pursues” the other for communication & connection, while the other feels like they’re never enough, can’t please their partner & usually withdraws & shuts down. Break this painful cycle & take your relationship to the next level - create a safe haven & secure base. Establish solid tools & skills, develop a WE not just ME mindset & reignite the spark!
What you should look for in a relationship therapist - Someone safe, kind, sensitive & compassionate, with a true understanding of what you’re going through & how difficult it is - highly educated & knowledgeable about how to shift your relationship from pain & hardship to harmony & ease AND has a full spectrum of skills & tools to do this effectively.
What should my relationship therapist know? They should have a deep understanding of attachment needs & styles, trauma, the brain & nervous system, emotional regulation, childhood issues & relationship modalities such as EFT, PACT & NVC, Non-Violent-Communication. I bring all of this education, as well as experience, to my work with relationships
DO THESE CHALLENGES SOUND FAMILIAR? :
~Not feeling heard, understood,
cared about?
~Escalated conflict?
~Shaming, blaming or reactivity?
~Withdrawing?
~Not feeling valued?
~Feeling like you don't matter?
~Growing apart?
~Little affection?
~Infidelity?
~Mistrust or dishonesty?
~Feeling unsafe, scared or lonely?
~Can't count on each other?
~Feeling dropped or disregarded?
~Feeling forgotten or let down?
~Same arguments over & over?
~Longing for help?
LEARN:
* To feel safe with each other
* To experience deeper & more tender emotions with each other
* To de-escalate conflict
* To grow closer instead of further apart
* To repair breakdowns
* To meet your KUSH needs - know, understand, see & hear each other
* About attachment & attachment styles
* About childhood issues that are showing up in your adult relationship
* To experience more touch, affection & holding
* To share from your VAT - vulnerability, authenticity & transparency
* NVC - Non-Violent Communication Skills
* To express gratitude & admiration for each other
* To "be there" for each other
* To be able to count on each other
* To feel that you MATTER
* How the brain & nervous system play a significant role in your relationship
* To soothe & comfort each other
* "Love practices” & many other skills & tools
4 Years Experience
In-Person Near Carmel-by-the-Sea, CA
Online in Carmel-by-the-Sea, California
Internal Family Systems (IFS)
Melanie Goetz
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
You’ve spent years being the strong one—the helper, the steady presence, the one who keeps it together while carrying so much inside.
Lately, maybe your body feels tense, your heart heavy, and your relationships harder than they should be. You may long for rest, connection, or simply someone who truly understands.
Therapy with me isn’t about “fixing” you. It’s about creating space to listen to the parts of you that have been silenced, to heal old wounds, and to finally feel safe being your fully authentic self.
If you’re ready to stop overextending, quiet the inner critic, and begin living with more ease and authenticity—I would be honored to walk alongside you.
🌿 Let’s start from the roots, and grow upward—together.
At our core, we are all motivated by a desire to connect—both with others and with ourselves in ways that feel honoring. But often, in our upbringing, we learned “rules” for connection that no longer serve us in our friendships, families, or intimate relationships. My work is about helping you recognize those patterns and move toward earned-secure attachment, so your connections can feel mutual, safe, and deeply nourishing.
If this resonates, I invite you to schedule a brief, complimentary 15-minute phone consultation. It’s a chance to see if my presence and approach might be the right support for your journey. You can schedule directly here: melanie-goetz.clientsecure.me
9 Years Experience
Online in Carmel-by-the-Sea, California
Internal Family Systems (IFS)
Adela Stone
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, LPCC
I’m a couples therapist working online across California and Oregon. Many couples come to me feeling stuck, unseen, or like they’re speaking different languages. Sometimes there’s neurodivergence (ADHD, autism), past trauma, or years of miscommunication that usual advice doesn’t touch. My style is direct, compassionate, and real—I bring humor, honesty, and respect into sessions while helping you uncover the patterns beneath conflict. I specialize in helping partners reconnect, improve intimacy, and rebuild trust. You don’t have to be perfect or throw away your life together to reclaim closeness and resilience. If you’re ready to move past surface fixes and find a deeper way forward, I’d love to support you in creating a relationship that feels like “us” again.
4 Years Experience
Online in Carmel-by-the-Sea, California (Online Only)
Internal Family Systems (IFS)
Catherine DeMonte, LMFT
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA., LMFT
I am a mindfulness-based and proactive Psychotherapist who strives to support people heal through the rough places and find growth out of those challenges. My deep desire is to help my clients find peace in their lives and relationships. Looking at and tending to our Shadow Work and our own limiting beliefs is also something I assist with and have written a book on how to do that. If you are ready to take your life to the next level, then I look forward to working with you to achieve your goals.
39 Years Experience
Online in Carmel-by-the-Sea, California (Online Only)