Infidelity therapists in Gilroy, California CA
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Growth and Change Counseling
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Why do men cheat? Why do women cheat? Why does anyone cheat? Whether you are struggling with the insecurity of wondering how to be certain your partner is faithful to you, or whether you are living through the nightmare of having been cheated on, Growth and Change Counseling can help you. We specialize in treating infidelity, helping couples put together a healthy relationship after a betrayal, or even helping couples understand why betrayal happens and how to be confidant that it will never happen in your relationship. Don't wallow in anxiety of uncertainty or the pain of despair. Call us today at 408-461-9658.
8 Years Experience
Online in Gilroy, CA California (Online Only)
Russell Wilkie
Marriage and Family Therapist, MFT
Infidelity is one of the most complicated things I've ever dealt with as a therapist. It taps into so many areas that we feel deeply about: trust, faith, betrayal, self-esteem, self-doubt, true love, soul-mates, reconciliation, forgiveness, PTSD, and even our future. The most common question that I hear people ask is, "Why did it happen?" Unfortunately, the answer is often very complicated and hearing the answer is often less than soothing. We want to know why, because, we believe, if we understand it, we can prevent the pain of it happening again in the future. That is difficult to do, so we have to look at our understanding of how control plays a part in our psyche.
34 Years Experience
Online in Gilroy, CA California (Online Only)
Naomi Zelin
Pre-Licensed Professional, APCC
I help individuals, couples, and polycules navigate the complex emotions and challenges that arise from betrayal. My goal is to facilitate healing, rebuild trust, and foster deeper understanding between partners. By integrating evidence-based therapies and providing a safe, non-judgmental space, I support you in addressing the underlying issues, improving communication, and creating a path toward a healthier, more resilient relationship.
3 Years Experience
Online in Gilroy, CA California (Online Only)
Timothy Walker
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
An agreement broken, a contract shattered, trust destroyed. Infidelity is one of the core wounds we can inflict in a relationship, and no one is left unscathed.
9 Years Experience
Online in Gilroy, CA California (Online Only)
Phillip McCulley
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CSAT
I work with individuals and couples dealing with the impact of infidelity, including situations where cheating is connected to sexual compulsivity or out of control sexual behavior. These experiences often bring intense emotions such as shock, anger, shame, grief, and confusion, and can leave both partners feeling unsure about what comes next.
In therapy, we focus on understanding what led to the infidelity and how compulsive sexual behavior may have played a role. This includes addressing patterns of secrecy, impulsivity, and emotional avoidance, while also helping the partner who was hurt process betrayal and regain a sense of stability and safety. I work with couples to slow the process down, create clearer boundaries, and begin rebuilding trust when repair is possible.
For some couples, therapy becomes a space to decide whether and how to continue the relationship. For others, it is about healing individually and establishing healthier patterns moving forward. My goal is to support honest accountability, emotional repair, and decision making that aligns with each person’s values and long term wellbeing.
22 Years Experience
Online in Gilroy, CA California
Infidelity therapists in Gilroy, California Statistics
Infidelity therapists in Gilroy, California average 16 years of experience and charge around $211 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (59%), Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) (51%), and Family Systems Therapy (45%).
Average years in practice
16 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$211
Accept insurance
29%
Offer sliding scale
42%
Gender ID
| 56% |
Female |
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| 37% |
Male |
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| 4% |
Non-Binary |
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| 3% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 61% |
In Person and Online |
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| 39% |
Online Only |
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Top Treatment Approaches
| 59% | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) |
| 51% | Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) |
| 45% | Family Systems Therapy |
| 44% | Psychodynamic Therapy |
| 40% | Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) |
| 37% | Existential / Humanistic Therapy |
| 34% | Relational Psychotherapy |
Ages Served
| 100% | Adult |
| 62% | Young Adult |
| 61% | Senior |
| 51% | Teen |
| 24% | Children |
Client Focus
| 58% | Women |
| 50% | Men |
| 49% | LGBTQ+ |
| 36% | Christian |
| 34% | Military / Veterans |