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Borderline Personality Disorder therapists in San Jose, CA

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San Jose, California therapist: Growth and Change Counseling, marriage and family therapist
BPD

Growth and Change Counseling

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
It has been said that when you have Borderline Personality disorder (BPD), its hard to tell where your emotions end and your loved ones emotions start. In BPD, I look to my loved one to validate me, to tell me I am okay because my own sense of self worth is so fragile or non-existent. If a loved one gets mad at me or has negative emotions I go into an emotional spiral that is crazy making because I end up in an identity crisis. If you can relate to this, give us a call, we would like to help you.  
8 Years Experience
Online in San Jose, CA (Online Only)
Palo Alto, California therapist: Mary Knoblock, DNH, hypnotherapist
BPD

Mary Knoblock, DNH

Hypnotherapist, DNH, RTT Practitioner, Hypnotist, Holistic Naturopath Practitioner, Spiritual Counselor
I enjoy working with borderline personality disorder and find that the emotion based tools work the most as I focus on helping lead the client through a deeper integration of self, helping them understand their personality in totality with love and acceptance.  
11 Years Experience
Online in San Jose, CA (Online Only)
Pleasanton, California therapist: Dr. Rebecca Scott, Psy.D, psychologist
BPD

Dr. Rebecca Scott, Psy.D

Psychologist, Clinical Psychologist, Certified in Holistic Health
I have a subspecialty in severe mental illness and can support BPD well and teach DBT skills training.  
17 Years Experience
In-Person Near San Jose, CA
Online in San Jose, CA
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Sacramento, California therapist: Sandy Kong, marriage and family therapist
BPD

Sandy Kong

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT 119380
Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) can be a hugely mis-conceptualized disorder. Since it's root problem stems from attachment, therapy is relational. Clients learn how to develop a healthy, secure, and safe relationship with themselves and with a safe adult (therapist), sometimes for the first time. Clients learn to unpack, understand, and increase awareness to how their attachment styles impacts their emotions, their thoughts, and their behavior. Learning how to build a better foundation by restructuring certain thoughts and behaviors, while also regulating emotions, setting boundaries, and developing effective communication skills is.  
11 Years Experience
Online in San Jose, CA
Los Angeles, California therapist: Daniel Slavin, marriage and family therapist
BPD

Daniel Slavin

Marriage and Family Therapist
I work with individuals who experience intense emotions and relationship difficulties in a steady, structured, and compassionate way. Therapy focuses on increasing emotional awareness, stability, and the ability to feel safer and more connected in relationships.  
41 Years Experience
Online in San Jose, CA
San Jose sits at the heart of Silicon Valley, where the pressures of the tech industry — performance anxiety, imposter syndrome, and the psychological cost of relentless innovation culture — drive significant demand for therapists experienced in high-achievement environments. The city's large South Asian and East Asian communities mean culturally competent therapists who understand the intersection of immigrant identity, family expectations, and mental health are particularly sought after. Santa Clara Valley Medical Center and Kaiser Permanente provide institutional mental health resources alongside a growing independent therapy community. Many South Bay therapists offer evening and weekend hours to accommodate the demanding work schedules common in the tech sector.

Borderline Personality Disorder therapists in San Jose, California Statistics

Borderline Personality Disorder therapists in San Jose, California average 15 years of experience and charge around $217 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (73%), Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) (50%), and Family Systems Therapy (48%).

Average years in practice

15 Years Experience

Average cost per session

$217

Accept insurance

40%

Offer sliding scale

48%

Gender ID

60% Female
28% Male
7% Non-Binary
5% Gender Fluid

Session Type

65% In Person and Online
35% Online Only

Top Treatment Approaches

73% Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
50% Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT)
48% Family Systems Therapy
46% Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
44% Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
44% Psychodynamic Therapy
42% Existential / Humanistic Therapy

Ages Served

100% Adult
71% Young Adult
69% Teen
63% Senior
31% Children

Client Focus

56% Women
54% Men
52% LGBTQ+
38% Persons with Disabilities
38% Jewish

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