Relationship and Marriage Counseling in San Mateo, CA
Browse Relationship and Marriage Counseling in San Mateo, California. Compare credentials, specialties and therapeutic approach. Contact a therapist to learn more.
Jeremi R McManus
Marriage and Family Therapist, MFT
I have supported hundreds of couples needing relationship and marriage counseling over the past 15+ years and look forward to helping you get your relationship where you want it to be. Poor communication? Broken trust? Endless arguments? I look forward to hearing from you.
21 Years Experience
In-Person Near San Mateo, CA
Online in San Mateo, CA
Laurie Gulutzan
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
I have trained in EFT treatment for couples work. I have worked for nearly 18 years with couples in different capacities.
21 Years Experience
In-Person Near San Mateo, CA
Online in San Mateo, CA
J. Rosalyn Diehl
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, MA, LMHC, LPPC, LPC
Even strong relationships can face challenges. Whether you're struggling with communication issues, recurring conflict, trust concerns, emotional distance, infidelity, or navigating a major life transition together, therapy can provide a supportive space to better understand one another and strengthen your connection. My approach focuses on improving communication, increasing emotional intimacy, developing healthier conflict-resolution skills, and helping couples work through challenges with greater understanding and respect. Together, we'll identify unhelpful patterns and build a stronger foundation for a healthier, more fulfilling relationship.
12 Years Experience
Online in San Mateo, CA (Online Only)
Dr. Daniele Levy, Bay Area Cognitive Therapy
Psychologist, PhD, MBA
When working with clients on relationship issues, I focus on improving communication skills and addressing underlying challenges. Using TEAM-CBT techniques, we work together to identify thought patterns that contribute to conflict and help you develop healthier ways to express your needs and emotions. By enhancing communication and fostering mutual understanding, my approach promotes more intimate and fulfilling relationships.
17 Years Experience
In-Person Near San Mateo, CA
Online in San Mateo, CA
Anders Greenwood
Psychologist, Psy.D, Ph.D.
I enjoy helping clients accept and like themselves, organize around strengths, achieve greater emotional presence, think clearly, and let go of shame, guilt and old habits of emotional survival. I believe therapy should lead to better decisions, as well as improved quality of life and relationships.
23 Years Experience
In-Person Near San Mateo, CA
Russell Wilkie
Marriage and Family Therapist, MFT
Relationships are difficult. It takes many very unnatural behaviors to create a high-quality relationship. Improving your reactions to your partner is the most important aspect and, since it is the only thing you can control anyway, this is your work. Whether it's in a couple’s session or you do the work individually, you will need to improve yourself and your reactivity and become a better you. Too many couples enter my office and expect me to change their partner because they want relief from their negative interactions. I will always gently steer things back to what you can do to make things better. My style is solution oriented, where I will give you all the tools I can in order to reduce conflict and increase connection, making a better relationship.
34 Years Experience
Online in San Mateo, CA (Online Only)
Sarah Wagner LMFT Corp
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, MBA
Conflict in relationships often reflects deeper developmental patterns shaped long before the partnership began. I integrate IFS, attachment-based models, and EFT to help couples understand how early relational experiences influence current dynamics.
Together, we slow down reactive cycles, strengthen emotional regulation, and build secure attachment within the relationship. Therapy provides a structured, supportive environment for repair, accountability, and renewed connection.
6 Years Experience
In-Person Near San Mateo, CA
Online in San Mateo, CA
Erin Powers
Counselor/Therapist, APCC 9590
I have experience in working with couples and individuals dealing with relationship challenges. I offer guidance, utilizing various methodologies, to overcome relationship struggles.
6 Years Experience
Online in San Mateo, CA (Online Only)
Marcelle Little
Marriage and Family Therapist, MPH, MA
Who does not or has not had a challenging relationship? Our deepest desire is to connect; yet, conflict and pain is unavoidable. Seeing things from an attachment style lens (anxious, avoidant, chaotic) helps identify gaps while cultivating self-compassion, a conduit for intimacy and connection to Self and others.
9 Years Experience
In-Person Near San Mateo, CA
Online in San Mateo, CA
Dr. Lori Lynn Mann
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, Psy.D.
I have hosted a 13 episode national podcast of relationships, conduct pre and post marital therapy, assist with dating and uncoupling, have copy-written 3 books on relationships.
14 Years Experience
Online in San Mateo, CA (Online Only)
San Mateo is a Bay Area city on the Peninsula between San Francisco and Silicon Valley, part of one of the most expensive real estate markets in the world, and home to a large proportion of technology industry workers whose work-related stressors—alongside the intense financial pressure of Peninsula housing costs—shape much of the local mental health demand. The city has a significant East and Southeast Asian population, including large Filipino and Chinese-American communities, for whom culturally competent therapy that addresses specific cultural dynamics around family, stigma, and identity is an important consideration. A well-developed private therapy sector serves the affluent professional community, and telehealth has extended the effective therapy market across the Bay Area. Common therapy concerns include tech industry burnout, housing cost anxiety and financial stress, Asian-American identity and family dynamics, relationship difficulties, and the paradox of acute psychological distress in an objectively privileged material environment.
Relationship and Marriage Counseling therapists in San Mateo, CA Statistics
Relationship and Marriage Counseling therapists in San Mateo, CA average 16 years of experience and charge around $202 per session. 98% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (65%), Psychodynamic Therapy (45%), and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) (40%).
Average years in practice
16 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$202
Accept insurance
34%
Offer sliding scale
48%
Gender ID
| 62% |
Female |
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| 33% |
Male |
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| 3% |
Non-Binary |
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| 2% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 67% |
In Person and Online |
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| 31% |
Online Only |
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| 2% |
In Person Only |
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Top Treatment Approaches
| 65% | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) |
| 45% | Psychodynamic Therapy |
| 40% | Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) |
| 37% | Family Systems Therapy |
| 36% | Existential / Humanistic Therapy |
| 34% | Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian) |
| 30% | Relational Psychotherapy |
Ages Served
| 100% | Adult |
| 58% | Young Adult |
| 55% | Senior |
| 54% | Teen |
| 27% | Children |
Client Focus
| 53% | Women |
| 40% | LGBTQ+ |
| 38% | Men |
| 27% | Christian |
| 24% | Hispanic / Latino |