Infidelity therapists in Selma, CA
Browse Infidelity therapists in Selma, California. Compare credentials, specialties and therapeutic approach. Contact a therapist to learn more.
Jennifer Warkentin
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Infidelity can be one of the most cruel and painful experiences. I work with both betrayed partners and those who did the betraying to better understand how the cheating happened and then how to heal from it. We don't "move on" from infidelity but we can "move through" it and create stronger relationships.
18 Years Experience
Online in Selma, CA (Online Only)
Emily Miles
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
While I don’t work with couples, I can work with either individual impacted to help process hurt, guilt or anger and repair the relationship and move forward together.
10 Years Experience
Online in Selma, CA (Online Only)
Sarah Wagner LMFT Corp
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, MBA
Infidelity can rupture trust at the deepest level, activating intense emotions such as anger, shame, grief, and fear. Using Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and attachment-based models, I help couples understand the underlying relational patterns that contributed to the breach while prioritizing emotional safety and accountability.
Through Internal Family Systems (IFS), we explore protective parts—such as defensiveness, withdrawal, or self-criticism—that may surface after betrayal. Therapy focuses on structured repair conversations, rebuilding trust through consistency and transparency, and determining whether reconciliation or conscious uncoupling is the healthiest path forward.
6 Years Experience
Online in Selma, CA
Phillip McCulley
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CSAT
I work with individuals and couples dealing with the impact of infidelity, including situations where cheating is connected to sexual compulsivity or out of control sexual behavior. These experiences often bring intense emotions such as shock, anger, shame, grief, and confusion, and can leave both partners feeling unsure about what comes next.
In therapy, we focus on understanding what led to the infidelity and how compulsive sexual behavior may have played a role. This includes addressing patterns of secrecy, impulsivity, and emotional avoidance, while also helping the partner who was hurt process betrayal and regain a sense of stability and safety. I work with couples to slow the process down, create clearer boundaries, and begin rebuilding trust when repair is possible.
For some couples, therapy becomes a space to decide whether and how to continue the relationship. For others, it is about healing individually and establishing healthier patterns moving forward. My goal is to support honest accountability, emotional repair, and decision making that aligns with each person’s values and long term wellbeing.
22 Years Experience
Online in Selma, CA
Catherine DeMonte, LMFT
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA., LMFT
Here too, as stated with helping couples navigate divorce, in cases of infidelity, I assist couples air what needs to be said in a safe, non-judgmental space without taking sides. I can assist in zooming out to see the larger picture and context in which the infidelity took place. I can give practical and effective communication tactics for talking about the infidelity without having it escalate every time. Affairs generally happen when something was missing or not ok already, but was not addressed. Past issues and communication styles will be addressed.
40 Years Experience
Online in Selma, CA (Online Only)
Infidelity therapists in Selma, CA Statistics
Infidelity therapists in Selma, CA average 17 years of experience and charge around $206 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (61%), Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) (50%), and Family Systems Therapy (43%).
Average years in practice
17 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$206
Accept insurance
32%
Offer sliding scale
40%
Gender ID
| 57% |
Female |
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| 37% |
Male |
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| 3% |
Gender Fluid |
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| 3% |
Non-Binary |
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Session Type
| 61% |
In Person and Online |
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| 39% |
Online Only |
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Top Treatment Approaches
| 61% | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) |
| 50% | Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) |
| 43% | Family Systems Therapy |
| 43% | Psychodynamic Therapy |
| 37% | Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) |
| 34% | Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian) |
| 32% | Existential / Humanistic Therapy |
Ages Served
| 100% | Adult |
| 64% | Young Adult |
| 61% | Senior |
| 48% | Teen |
| 23% | Children |
Client Focus
| 59% | Women |
| 50% | Men |
| 45% | LGBTQ+ |
| 36% | Christian |
| 35% | Military / Veterans |