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Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) therapists in Thousand Oaks, CA

Thousand Oaks Therapists (Statistics)

Average years in practice

14 Years Experience

Average cost per session

$212

Gender ID

62% Female
32% Male
4% Non-Binary
2% Gender Fluid

Session Type

69% In Person and Online
30% Online Only
1% In Person Only

Top Specialties

74% Anxiety or Fears
68% Relationship and Marriage Counseling
68% Depression
62% Trauma and PTSD
49% Self Esteem
47% Loss or Grief
47% Stress
We are proud to feature top rated Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) therapists in Thousand Oaks. We encourage you to review each profile to find your best match.
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Thousand Oaks, California therapist: Kristin Robert, marriage and family therapist
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

Kristin Robert

Marriage and Family Therapist, AMFT
I came to this work through a deep respect for the complexity of human experience and the ways people adapt in order to survive. Over the years, I have seen how pain, loss, and conflict can quietly shape a person’s inner world, often long before they have language for it. I am continually moved by the courage it takes to look at these experiences honestly and to ask for support when something no longer feels sustainable. What draws me to this work is the opportunity to sit with people at meaningful crossroads in their lives. I value conversations that are real, reflective, and grounded, and I believe healing happens not through quick answers, but through understanding, presence, and trust built over time. I approach therapy with curiosity and humility, holding space for complexity rather than certainty. At a personal level, I believe in accountability without shame, depth without intensity for its own sake, and care that respects autonomy. I am committed to showing up thoughtfully and consistently, honoring the responsibility that comes with being invited into someone’s inner life. This work matters to me because it offers the possibility of greater clarity, connection, and integrity, both within ourselves and in how we relate to others.  
3 Years Experience
In-Person in Thousand Oaks, CA 91362
Online in Thousand Oaks, CA
Westlake Village, California therapist: Spencer Posey, marriage and family therapist
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

Spencer Posey

Marriage and Family Therapist, M.A., LMFT, CSAT
If you’re struggling with porn or sex addiction—or trying to heal after betrayal—you don’t have to face it alone. I walk with individuals and couples through the hard but hopeful work of rebuilding trust, restoring connection, and finding peace. My approach is honest and compassionate—helping you face the truth without shame while discovering the deeper healing that leads to lasting change. Together, we’ll focus on restoring confidence, integrity, and closeness—healing that lasts, not just behavior that changes. Contact me today for a free 15-minute consultation.  
6 Years Experience
In-Person Near Thousand Oaks, CA
Online in Thousand Oaks, CA
Westlake Village, California therapist: Marina Edelman | TrueMe Counseling, marriage and family therapist
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

Marina Edelman | TrueMe Counseling

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Marina Edelman, LMFT, specializes in helping couples rebuild trust, improve communication, and reconnect emotionally after conflict or betrayal. Using evidence-based, attachment-focused therapy, she provides practical tools that create real, lasting change in relationships. Marina offers couples therapy, affair recovery, and premarital counseling in Culver City, Westlake Village, and virtually throughout California. --- **Personal Statement** I am deeply passionate about helping couples find their way back to connection, safety, and genuine partnership. In my work, I use the Gottman Method alongside attachment-based approaches to give couples clear, research-supported tools that strengthen communication and rebuild trust. Having been married for 30 years myself, I bring both professional expertise and real-life understanding to the complex, meaningful work of sustaining long-term love.  
20 Years Experience
In-Person Near Thousand Oaks, CA
Online in Thousand Oaks, CA
Agoura Hills, California therapist: Tracy Sachs (Singh), therapist
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

Tracy Sachs (Singh)

Therapist, MA, AMFT
I am passionate about working with twenty and thirty somethings navigate the tumultuous years of young adulthood. These years are often marked by questions of identity, a reckoning of one’s childhood, big life transitions, relationship challenges, feelings of hopelessness and anxiety about the future, and a general sense of feeling lost. These years are also ripe for self-discovery and developing a greater sense of purpose and meaning. As a depth oriented psychotherapist, I won’t hold these challenges as pathology to be cured but rather as a natural part of the Self’s initiation into greater maturity. I see uncomfortable symptoms, such as depression and anxiety, as wise messengers that can guide us into a more whole and aligned life.  
7 Years Experience
Online in Thousand Oaks, CA (Online Only)
Santa Monica, California therapist: Nicole Bermensolo, marriage and family therapist
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

Nicole Bermensolo

Marriage and Family Therapist, M.A., AMFT
The therapeutic process has the ability to transform. I am living proof of this. At my lowest point, I was anxious, depressed, suicidal, and trapped in an addiction to alcohol and Adderall. With the help of a skilled therapist, I was able to come out of this darkness - inspiring me to leave a successful business in order to help others who are suffering. I believe that everyone deserves a fighting chance to overcome trauma and abuse and live a rich, full, and satisfying life. I believe that everyone can change and grow at any time in their lives. I don't believe that there is a limit to human capacity. I believe we are all deserving of unconditional love. I hold the hope for my clients when they are drowning in hopelessness. I approach my life and my work through a feminist, anti-oppression, anti-racist, and body-positive perspective. I am passionate about animal rescue and shelter pets. If any of this resonates with you, please shoot me a message and let's find a time to connect.  
7 Years Experience
In-Person Near Thousand Oaks, CA
Online in Thousand Oaks, CA
San Diego, California therapist: Ross Kellogg, LMFT, marriage and family therapist
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

Ross Kellogg, LMFT

Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed Individual, Marriage, and Family Therapist (LMFT)
Creating lasting change is hard but you don't have to figure it out alone. After our first session, we will have a clear plan for our work together and identify practical ways to start moving forward. I bring nearly 10 years of mental health experience to our work together and am always engaged in ongoing continuing education. Whether you're looking for individual or couple's therapy, there are options to improve your situation and meet your needs.  
12 Years Experience
Online in Thousand Oaks, CA (Online Only)
San Francisco, California therapist: Caroline Wessling, marriage and family therapist
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

Caroline Wessling

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Is anxiety and overwhelm leaving you feeling trapped and diminished? Do you find yourself endlessly analyzing every decision, only to doubt yourself afterward? Are you constantly chasing an unattainable standard of perfection? Do you feel resentful in your relationships, struggling to have your needs met? You don’t have to navigate these challenges alone. In my practice, I craft personalized plans tailored to the unique needs of each client. I focus on mindfulness techniques to bring awareness to the self-limiting beliefs we've internalized because we can't change what we're not aware of. Through a combination of talk therapy and Brainspotting, I assist clients in overcoming anxious thought patterns and past traumas, silencing their inner critics, and stepping into a more serene and empowered life.  
7 Years Experience
Online in Thousand Oaks, CA (Online Only)
Pasadena, California therapist: Dr Mark Baker, psychologist
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

Dr Mark Baker

Psychologist, Ph.D., Clinical Psychologist, Marriage and Family Therapist
Our counseling center focuses on in depth individual psychotherapy for those who have tried other approaches and yet still find themselves in need of something more, as well as intensive marital therapy by skilled clinicians who specialize in repairing broken bonds in intimate relationships.  
46 Years Experience
In-Person Near Thousand Oaks, CA
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Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

Christian Holmes

Marriage and Family Therapist, M.A., Associate Marriage and Family Therapist
Find freedom, joy, and purpose. I help clients actualize their health, wealth, relationships and higher purpose. I specialize in working with high achievers in the areas of anxiety, depression, addiction, relationship issues / family conflict and spiritual growth. I also do significant work with clients experiencing attachment issues and trauma / PTSD using EMDR.  
8 Years Experience
In-Person Near Thousand Oaks, CA
Online in Thousand Oaks, CA
Santa Monica, California therapist: Life After Birth, marriage and family therapist
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

Life After Birth

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Life After Birth stands out for its specialized focus on the mental and emotional experience of aspiring, expectant, and new parents. Founder and Clinical Director Molly Nourmand, LMFT has been doing this work since 2017 and is widely respected in the maternal mental health community. Clients are often drawn to the practice because they are looking for knowledgeable, compassionate support from clinicians who understand the challenges of fertility, pregnancy, postpartum adjustment, and early parenthood. Life After Birth combines clinical expertise with warmth, community, and a deep commitment to helping parents feel seen and supported.  
13 Years Experience
In-Person Near Thousand Oaks, CA
Online in Thousand Oaks, CA