Sex Therapists in Honolulu, HI

I provide compassionate, inclusive care for individuals and partners navigating sexual health, intimacy, and relationship concerns, including those in ethically non-monogamous (ENM) relationships. My collaborative, evidence-based approach offers a safe, nonjudgmental space to explore challenges such as low or changing desire, sexual dysfunction, performance anxiety, intimacy concerns, and the emotional or relational dynamics that may arise in diverse relationship structures. When appropriate, I integrate medication management with supportive therapy and education to help clients improve communication, strengthen connection, enhance sexual well-being, and foster healthier, more fulfilling relationships.

Sexual concerns—low desire, pain, shame, trauma, or performance anxiety—are often held in the body and in silence. I offer a safe, non-judgmental space to explore sexuality as part of your whole self. My body-based, culturally centered approach honors your values, identity, and history, helping you move toward pleasure, connection, and sexual well-being.

Sex therapy addresses concerns related to desire, arousal, intimacy, and sexual self-expression within the broader context of emotional and relational life. My work integrates psychoanalytic methods, clinical sexology, hypnosis, and somatic awareness to explore the deeper meanings beneath sexual struggles. Together, we work toward a more coherent, embodied, and authentic relationship with desire and intimacy.

As a trans man with 7 years experience with ethical non-monogamy, nothing is too taboo -- LGBTQ, kink, non-monogamy, etc. All is welcome here.

I specialize in hypersexuality, offering a supportive and confidential environment to address sexual concerns. My services cater to individuals and couples seeking to enhance their sexual well-being, explore sexual identity, overcome sexual dysfunctions, and improve intimacy and communication. Utilizing evidence-based approaches, I aim to facilitate a positive and healthy sexual experience for all my clients.

Honolulu's surface image as a paradise can obscure significant mental health challenges tied to Hawaii's extreme cost of living — among the highest in the United States — the stress of geographic isolation, and the psychological weight carried by Native Hawaiian communities navigating cultural loss and historical trauma. The city has a majority Asian and Pacific Islander population, including large Japanese, Filipino, and Native Hawaiian communities, and culturally competent therapists who understand Pacific Islander family values and collectivist systems are especially sought after. Tripler Army Medical Center serves the military population across the Indo-Pacific Command, while The Queen's Medical Center provides civilian institutional mental health resources. Therapist availability in Honolulu is lower relative to comparable mainland metros, and telehealth has become important for residents seeking specialist matching beyond what is available locally.

Gender ID

	62%	Female
	25%	Gender Fluid
	13%	Male

Session Type

	86%	Online Only
	14%	In Person and Online

Top Treatment Approaches

43%	Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT)
43%	Internal Family Systems (IFS)
43%	Somatic Therapy
29%	Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
29%	Compassion-Focused Therapy (CFT)
29%	Developmental Therapy
29%	Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)

Ages Served

100%	Adult
71%	Young Adult
43%	Senior
43%	Teen

Client Focus

71%	Men
71%	Women
57%	LGBTQ+
43%	Black / African American
43%	Hispanic / Latino

Sex therapists in Honolulu, Hawaii HI

Shanea McDaniel

XaHara A. MeGod

Dr. Stéphanie Gamache, PhD

Forest Williams

Eric Olsen

Sex Therapy therapists in Honolulu, Hawaii Statistics

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Offer sliding scale