Infidelity therapists in O'Fallon, IL
Browse Infidelity therapists in O'Fallon, Illinois. Compare credentials, specialties and therapeutic approach. Contact a therapist to learn more.
Infidelity
Bloom Behavioral Health Ptrs
Treatment Center, Psy'D, LPC, LMSW, CAADC, CCS
We help individuals and couples navigate the emotional impact of infidelity with compassion and honesty. We provide support for rebuilding trust, improving communication, processing betrayal, and exploring healing and relationship repair.
14 Years Experience
Online in O'Fallon, IL
Infidelity
Emily Hurlin
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LISW, LCSW
Discovering an affair can shake the ground under both partners. The hurt partner is often flooded with questions and grief. The partner who strayed may feel shame, defensiveness, or confusion about how it happened. I help couples slow down and stabilize, understand what made the relationship vulnerable, and decide with clear eyes whether and how to rebuild. When a couple chooses to stay together, we work on restoring trust through consistent actions, not just promises.
8 Years Experience
Online in O'Fallon, IL (Online Only)
Infidelity
Centered Therapy Chicago
Psychologist, PsyD
We work with clients who have experienced infidelity and interpersonal relationships.
13 Years Experience
Online in O'Fallon, IL
Infidelity
Tim Jenkins
Counselor/Therapist, LCPC
Through the twenty year private practice career as a counselor, I have had a special interest in helping couples that were on the brink of divorce or separation. Many of them found themselves here due to infidelity. It is a special thing to help people to first understand infidelity; why it happens and what to do about it. Primarily, partners often feel that infidelity is their fault: that they did not do something well enough or that they are not attractive, pretty or handsome enough. That is the furthest thing from the truth. Infidelity most often happens due to sexual addiction, or due to the lack of feeling happy with one's self. When another shines their warm light of attention on you, and pays you lots of compliments, it can be very addictive to achieve that dopamine rush. There is also the element of the Coolidge effect. There is a biological thing that happens in animals. Males, (and to some extent females of the species) experience renewed sexual interest whenever a new partner is introduced.
This phenomenon comes about from an anecdote about Calvin Coolidge when he was President. The President and Mrs. Coolidge were being shown around an experimental government farm walking with two separate groups of reporters. When the first lady, whom was known to have a lot of moxie, came to the chicken yard she noticed that a rooster was mating very frequently. She asked the attendant how often that happened and was told, "Dozens of times each day." Mrs. Coolidge said, "Tell that to the President when he comes by." Upon being told this, President Coolidge asked, "Same hen every time?" The reply was, "Oh, no, Mr. President, a different hen every time." President: "Tell that to Mrs. Coolidge."
26 Years Experience
Online in O'Fallon, IL
Infidelity
Juliette Grantham
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
I'm Juliette Grantham, a psychoanalytic psychotherapist specializing in infidelity.
The aftermath of infidelity is rarely simple, whichever side of it you are on. If you were betrayed, you may be replaying details you wish you did not know, unable to decide whether to stay or go, or shaken by how much you no longer trust your own read on things. If you were the one who strayed, you may be trying to understand what you did and why, alongside shame that makes it hard to think clearly at all.
I work psychoanalytically, which means the question is not only what happened but what it meant. An affair usually has an unconscious logic worth understanding: something it expressed, protected against, or made possible. In sessions we take that up honestly, without a predetermined verdict about what you should do next.
If infidelity has upended your sense of your relationship or yourself, I would be glad to talk.
2 Years Experience
Online in O'Fallon, IL
Infidelity therapists in O'Fallon, IL Statistics
Infidelity therapists in O'Fallon, IL average 18 years of experience and charge around $203 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (62%), Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) (44%), and Family Systems Therapy (39%).
Average years in practice
18 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$203
Accept insurance
39%
Offer sliding scale
30%
Gender ID
| 60% |
Female |
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| 39% |
Male |
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| 1% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 60% |
In Person and Online |
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| 40% |
Online Only |
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Top Treatment Approaches
| 62% | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) |
| 44% | Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) |
| 39% | Family Systems Therapy |
| 38% | Psychodynamic Therapy |
| 36% | Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian) |
| 34% | Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) |
| 32% | Gottman Method Couples Therapy |
Ages Served
| 99% | Adult |
| 71% | Young Adult |
| 58% | Senior |
| 42% | Teen |
| 19% | Children |
Client Focus
| 53% | Women |
| 49% | Men |
| 45% | LGBTQ+ |
| 27% | Military / Veterans |
| 25% | Christian |