Infidelity therapists in O'Fallon, Illinois IL
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Online Therapy for Anxiety, Burnout & Life Transitions -AZ, IL, OH
Counselor/Therapist, LPC, LCPC
My approach blends Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) with emotionally attuned, values‑based guidance to help you understand the patterns that contributed to the rupture, manage overwhelming emotions, and develop healthier communication. For clients who desire it, I also integrate Christian Counseling, offering faith centered support, prayerful reflection, and biblically aligned tools for forgiveness, restoration, and discernment.
9 Years Experience
Online in O'Fallon, IL Illinois (Online Only)
Tim Jenkins
Counselor/Therapist, LCPC
Through the twenty year private practice career as a counselor, I have had a special interest in helping couples that were on the brink of divorce or separation. Many of them found themselves here due to infidelity. It is a special thing to help people to first understand infidelity; why it happens and what to do about it. Primarily, partners often feel that infidelity is their fault: that they did not do something well enough or that they are not attractive, pretty or handsome enough. That is the furthest thing from the truth. Infidelity most often happens due to sexual addiction, or due to the lack of feeling happy with one's self. When another shines their warm light of attention on you, and pays you lots of compliments, it can be very addictive to achieve that dopamine rush. There is also the element of the Coolidge effect. There is a biological thing that happens in animals. Males, (and to some extent females of the species) experience renewed sexual interest whenever a new partner is introduced.
This phenomenon comes about from an anecdote about Calvin Coolidge when he was President. The President and Mrs. Coolidge were being shown around an experimental government farm walking with two separate groups of reporters. When the first lady, whom was known to have a lot of moxie, came to the chicken yard she noticed that a rooster was mating very frequently. She asked the attendant how often that happened and was told, "Dozens of times each day." Mrs. Coolidge said, "Tell that to the President when he comes by." Upon being told this, President Coolidge asked, "Same hen every time?" The reply was, "Oh, no, Mr. President, a different hen every time." President: "Tell that to Mrs. Coolidge."
26 Years Experience
Online in O'Fallon, IL Illinois
Jonathan Schnapp
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Infidelity can be deeply painful and disorienting, often bringing up feelings of betrayal, loss, anger, and confusion. Whether you’re working through the impact of a partner’s betrayal or trying to understand your own actions, therapy offers a space to process what happened with care and honesty. Together, we’ll explore the underlying dynamics, support you in making sense of your experience, and help you move toward clarity, healing, and more intentional choices in your relationships.
15 Years Experience
Online in O'Fallon, IL Illinois
Cultivate Your Essence
Registered Psychotherapist, LPC, LCPC, MFT
The discovery of infidelity can create profound emotional pain, confusion, and loss of trust. At Cultivate Your Essence, we support individuals and couples navigating betrayal trauma, relationship repair, and difficult decisions about the future. Our goal is to provide a safe space for healing, communication, and emotional restoration.
8 Years Experience
Online in O'Fallon, IL Illinois (Online Only)
Merrisa Dawn Santos
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, NCC, CCTMHP, CCTP
In supporting individuals dealing with infidelity in their relationship or marriage, I provide a compassionate and nonjudgmental space for them to process their emotions and navigate the complexities of their situation. Through therapy, we explore the underlying factors contributing to the infidelity, such as communication issues, unmet needs, or underlying relationship problems. I offer strategies to cope with intense emotions such as anger, betrayal, or grief, and facilitate open and honest communication between partners. Additionally, we work on rebuilding trust, setting boundaries, and exploring the possibility of forgiveness and reconciliation if desired. My goal is to support individuals in making informed decisions about their relationship and ultimately finding healing and resolution, whether that involves rebuilding the relationship or moving forward separately.
5 Years Experience
Online in O'Fallon, IL Illinois (Online Only)
Infidelity therapists in O'Fallon, Illinois Statistics
Infidelity therapists in O'Fallon, Illinois average 18 years of experience and charge around $208 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (72%), Family Systems Therapy (44%), and Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian) (39%).
Average years in practice
18 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$208
Accept insurance
41%
Offer sliding scale
33%
Gender ID
| 57% |
Female |
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| 42% |
Male |
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| 1% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 61% |
In Person and Online |
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| 39% |
Online Only |
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Top Treatment Approaches
| 72% | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) |
| 44% | Family Systems Therapy |
| 39% | Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian) |
| 39% | Psychodynamic Therapy |
| 39% | Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) |
| 38% | Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) |
| 33% | Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT) |
Ages Served
| 98% | Adult |
| 69% | Young Adult |
| 58% | Senior |
| 48% | Teen |
| 22% | Children |
Client Focus
| 58% | Women |
| 52% | Men |
| 47% | LGBTQ+ |
| 33% | Military / Veterans |
| 28% | Christian |