Codependency therapists in Nashua, New Hampshire NH
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Dr. Brittany Jacobson
Psychologist, PhD, CST
You may find yourself prioritizing others’ needs, emotions, or expectations at the expense of your own. Together, we explore the patterns that keep you overextended or disconnected from yourself, often rooted in early relationships or learned roles. I will help you honor your own needs and voice, develop clearer boundaries, and connect to others without abandoning yourself.
10 Years Experience
Online in Nashua, NH New Hampshire
Salvadore Coaching LLC
Life Coach, Holistic Life Coach, Certified Breathwork Instructor, Certified Hypnotist
Codependency often begins as care, loyalty, or sensitivity—but over time it can become self-abandonment. And when you abandon yourself, you don’t actually protect the relationship—you weaken it.
Oftentimes, many people find themselves over-functioning, people-pleasing, managing another’s emotions, or staying in relationships that require them to shrink their needs in order to keep connection. The result is often a combination of anxiety, resentment, exhaustion, and a loss of clarity about what they actually want.
In our work together, we aim to de-escalate these patterns and explore what they’ve been protecting: perhaps a fear of conflict, abandonment, guilt, or the belief that love must be earned through sacrifice. We build practical skills for boundaries, self-trust, and direct communication, so you can stay connected without losing yourself. The goal is not to become “less caring,” but to create relationships that include you—relationships where care and reciprocity can coexist.
14 Years Experience
Online in Nashua, NH New Hampshire
Alan Brandis, Ph.D.
Psychologist, Ph.D., Licensed Psychologist
The concept of Co-Dependency was developed as a way of explaining how family members of alcoholics, especially their spouses, became emotionally ill apparently as a result of living with an alcoholic for years.
"Co" is a prefix that means "like" or "with" - the family member becomes sick like and with "the dependent" (the person dependent on a chemical). There are several common problems that often go along with life with an alcoholic or drug abuser, including their unpredictable moods, selfish and irresponsible behavior, angry outbursts which may include verbal or physical abuse, broken promises and commitments, embarrassing public behavior, financial irresponsibility, legal problems, and inability to return love or affection. However, most chemically dependent people have periods when they function well, and this generates the hope that they will stay well, quit or control their chemical use, and become responsible and loving for good.
36 Years Experience
Online in Nashua, NH New Hampshire
Dr. Olivia Blandford
Psychologist, Ph.D.
Difficult relationship dynamics are my bread and butter. I can help you understand the origins of your patterns and why you might be doing what you are doing. We can work together to find more balanced, effective boundaries and learn how to deliver them effectively.
6 Years Experience
Online in Nashua, NH New Hampshire
Dr. Elizabeth Coldren
Psychologist, PSYD, PSYPACT
I work with young adults and adults who have learned to orient themselves around other people’s needs, emotions, or expectations at the expense of their own. This can look like being the reliable one, the steady one, the person others turn to, while privately feeling depleted, unseen, or unsure where your own preferences begin. Many people I see have spent years managing relationships, smoothing conflict, or carrying more than their share because it felt safer than disappointing someone or risking disconnection.
Codependent patterns often develop in situations where you had to stay attuned to others to keep the peace, where your worth was tied to being helpful or accommodating, or where expressing your own needs led to tension, withdrawal, or criticism. Over time, this can make it hard to trust your internal signals, set boundaries without guilt, or believe that your needs matter as much as anyone else’s.
In our work together, we look at how these patterns formed, what they have protected you from, and how they show up in your relationships today. We make space for the part of you that learned to stay small, agreeable, or over responsible in order to feel safe, and for the part of you that is tired of doing so much emotional labor. From there, we explore what it means to move through relationships with more clarity, self‑respect, and choice, without abandoning the parts of you that have worked so hard to keep things stable. Supporting people who have organized themselves around others for a long time is central to my practice, and I have deep respect for how much you have carried.
26 Years Experience
Online in Nashua, NH New Hampshire
Codependency therapists in Nashua, New Hampshire Statistics
Codependency therapists in Nashua, New Hampshire average 19 years of experience and charge around $201 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (62%), Psychodynamic Therapy (37%), and Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT) (35%).
Average years in practice
19 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$201
Accept insurance
38%
Offer sliding scale
48%
Gender ID
| 58% |
Female |
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| 35% |
Male |
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| 4% |
Non-Binary |
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| 3% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 52% |
Online Only |
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| 48% |
In Person and Online |
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Top Treatment Approaches
| 62% | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) |
| 37% | Psychodynamic Therapy |
| 35% | Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT) |
| 33% | Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian) |
| 33% | Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) |
| 32% | Somatic Therapy |
| 32% | Existential / Humanistic Therapy |
Ages Served
| 97% | Adult |
| 70% | Young Adult |
| 60% | Senior |
| 38% | Teen |
| 20% | Children |
Client Focus
| 63% | Women |
| 53% | Men |
| 47% | LGBTQ+ |
| 35% | Military / Veterans |
| 33% | Hispanic / Latino |