Infidelity therapists in Kinston, NC
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Seaford Counseling Services
Counselor/Therapist, M.Ed, LCMHC
Infidelity does not have to spell the end of marriage. In fact, I have seen it become the impetus for making your marriage stronger, richer, and more satisfying than you ever thought possible. I’ve had specialized training through The Gottman Institute for how to help couples through infidelity of all kinds, and I would love to show you how this can be done.
26 Years Experience
Online in Kinston, NC
Emily Stone
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, MDiv, PhD, LMFT-S
Infidelity: Healing the Relational Fracture
Moving Beyond Betrayal toward Radical Reconnection
The discovery of infidelity is often described as a "relational earthquake." It shatters the foundation of safety, leaving both partners in a state of profound overwhelm, shock, and grief. In my practice, I provide a sturdy, non-judgmental container to navigate this crisis. We don't just "move past" the betrayal; we move through it, examining the systemic roots of the fracture and rebuilding a relationship that is more authentic and resilient than before.
Navigating the Aftermath
Infidelity triggers a specific kind of attachment trauma that requires careful, specialized handling. Together, we address:
The Crisis Phase: Managing the "flooding" of emotions, the intrusive thoughts, and the loss of reality that follow the discovery.
The "Why" vs. the "What": Moving away from the paralyzing "detective work" toward a deeper understanding of the systemic gaps and personal vulnerabilities that allowed the fracture to occur.
Rejection Sensitivity & Shame: Addressing the intense pain of the betrayed partner and the paralyzing shame of the involved partner that often prevents true repair.
A Clinical Path to Restoration
With over 20 years of experience and specialized training in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and EMDR, I guide couples through a structured process of healing:
Stabilizing the System: We first focus on de-escalating the "conflict loop" and establishing immediate boundaries to prevent further harm and burnout.
EMDR for Betrayal Trauma: We use EMDR to help the betrayed partner process the "flashback" memories and somatic triggers associated with the discovery.
Rebuilding Secure Attachment: Using EFT, we help you have the "courageous dialogues" necessary to express unmet needs and rebuild trust—one vulnerable interaction at a time.
Healing for Individuals & Couples
Whether you are the partner who was betrayed, the partner who stepped outside the marriage, or a couple deciding whether to stay or go, I offer a space rooted in mutuality and respect. I have extensive experience working with healers, pastors, and leaders for whom infidelity carries an extra layer of professional and spiritual risk.
Infidelity is a crisis, but it does not have to be the end of your story. It can be the catalyst for a more honest and deeply connected "We."
21 Years Experience
Online in Kinston, NC (Online Only)
Nour Counseling
Counselor/Therapist
Infidelity is often reduced to a single moment—but for most people, it’s an earthquake that shakes everything: trust, identity, history, and your sense of reality in the relationship. Whether you were the one betrayed or the one who stepped outside the relationship, the impact is real and complex. There’s often a mix of anger, grief, confusion, guilt, and a constant loop of questions that don’t have easy answers. And while people around you may push for quick decisions—leave, stay, forgive, move on—the truth is, it’s rarely that simple.
At Nour Counseling, we don’t take a one-size-fits-all stance on infidelity. We’re not here to tell you what you should do—we’re here to help you get clear on what actually makes sense for you. We work with you to unpack what happened, understand the dynamics that led up to it, and process the emotional impact without minimizing or rushing it. This includes rebuilding trust (if that’s the direction you choose), setting clear boundaries, navigating communication, and addressing the deeper patterns in the relationship. We also make space for the cultural and relational expectations that shape how infidelity is understood and responded to—because those pressures are real. This is honest, grounded work focused on helping you move forward with clarity, not just reaction.
9 Years Experience
Online in Kinston, NC (Online Only)
Dr. Adam Shafer (Chicago, IL)
Psychologist, Psy. D., M.A.
When we have been betrayed by those we have placed our trust in, we can wonder if we will ever be able to love and be open to others again.
17 Years Experience
Online in Kinston, NC
Vanessa Roddenberry
Psychologist, Ph.D.
I provide evidence-based therapy for couples or individuals who want to address infidelity in their relationships. It's possible to reconnect and foster intimacy, build communication skills, recover from infidelity, and put a spark back in your relationship. Therapy can also be helpful if the experience of infidelity has been emotionally traumatic for you or your partner. I provide a safe, calm space in which to process your feelings about this experience. I offer concrete skills and techniques to help you and your partner reach your relationship goals.
14 Years Experience
Online in Kinston, NC
Infidelity therapists in Kinston, NC Statistics
Infidelity therapists in Kinston, NC average 19 years of experience and charge around $205 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (70%), Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian) (41%), and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) (39%).
Average years in practice
19 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$205
Accept insurance
39%
Offer sliding scale
41%
Gender ID
| 57% |
Female |
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| 39% |
Male |
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| 2% |
Gender Fluid |
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| 2% |
Non-Binary |
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Session Type
| 59% |
In Person and Online |
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| 41% |
Online Only |
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Top Treatment Approaches
| 70% | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) |
| 41% | Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian) |
| 39% | Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) |
| 37% | Family Systems Therapy |
| 33% | Psychodynamic Therapy |
| 33% | Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) |
| 27% | Existential / Humanistic Therapy |
Ages Served
| 100% | Adult |
| 73% | Young Adult |
| 54% | Senior |
| 47% | Teen |
| 19% | Children |
Client Focus
| 63% | Women |
| 54% | Men |
| 43% | LGBTQ+ |
| 31% | Military / Veterans |
| 26% | Christian |