Infidelity therapists in Portland, Oregon OR
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Dr. Kelly Rees
Counselor/Therapist, PhD, Sexologist
Infidelity has been the only excuse needed to get out of a relationship. When we consider how often it occurs it becomes a very human thing; possibly not a sign of a failed relationship or a disastrous human being. We can look at what, if anything, was missing beforehand, what is lost afterward, and what happens during. For most people, the most painful part is the breach of trust. Properly treated, infidelity can become a revitalizing point in the relationship, or the exit point.
17 Years Experience
In-Person in Portland, OR
Online in Portland, Oregon
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Sky Asher
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, QMHP
Infidelity can shake the foundations of trust and identity. I support individuals and couples in processing betrayal, understanding its impact, and discerning whether to repair or reimagine the relationship.
7 Years Experience
Online in Portland, Oregon (Online Only)
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Chuck Chapman
Counselor/Therapist, LPC
Infidelity creates a rupture that changes everything. Whether you were the one who stepped outside the relationship or the one who discovered the betrayal, the impact is profound. Trust is shaken, identity is questioned, and the future suddenly feels uncertain. Many men feel overwhelmed by guilt, shame, anger, confusion, or the fear that they have destroyed something that mattered. Others feel blindsided, devastated, and unsure how to make sense of what happened or how to move forward. Infidelity is not just about the act—it is about the loneliness, unmet needs, emotional disconnection, and silent suffering that often existed long before.
My work in this area is grounded in honesty, compassion, and slow, steady repair. We begin by understanding what was happening before the infidelity—what was missing, what was avoided, what went unspoken, and what pain or patterns were already living beneath the surface. For the partner who betrayed, we work with accountability that is rooted in courage, not self-condemnation. For the partner who was betrayed, we create space to grieve, express anger, and rebuild a sense of personal safety and self-worth. The goal is not to erase what happened or rush toward a false sense of forgiveness. The goal is to understand, heal, and make choices with clarity and integrity.
Healing from infidelity is possible, but it requires presence. It requires being willing to face the pain instead of running from it. Whether the relationship continues or not, this work is about helping you reclaim your voice, your truth, and your capacity to love—yourself and others—with greater depth and honesty. You do not have to navigate this alone. We walk this slowly, together.
15 Years Experience
Online in Portland, Oregon (Online Only)
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Dr. Shelby Kittinger
Psychologist, PsyD
I help partners and individuals process the pain and disorientation that follow betrayal or broken trust. Using an attachment and emotionally focused lens, we work to understand underlying needs, restore safety, and rebuild (or redefine) connection with honesty and care.
9 Years Experience
In-Person in Portland, OR 97215
Online in Portland, Oregon
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Tycee Belcastro
Marriage and Family Therapist, M.A., LMFT, CSTIP
If you’re reeling from infidelity, your heart might feel like it’s been caught in a storm—swirling with shame, betrayal, confusion, or a sense of abandonment. It’s overwhelming, and it’s okay to feel like your world has been turned upside down. You might be tempted to push it all aside, to pretend it didn’t happen just to keep going. But as hard as it is to face, sweeping it under the rug won’t bring the peace you deserve. Here’s the warm truth: healing is possible. You can rebuild, not just to where you were, but to a place of deeper connection and trust. It’s not an easy path, but you don’t have to walk it alone. I’m here to meet you and your partner right where you are, with compassion and a clear, structured plan to guide you through the pain. Together, we’ll work on practical steps to process the hurt, rebuild trust, and find solid ground again. With your commitment, we’ll turn this chapter into a new beginning—one filled with hope and closeness.
20 Years Experience
In-Person Near Portland, OR
Online in Portland, Oregon