Relationship and Marriage Counseling therapists in Boiling Springs, South Carolina SC
Ebb & Flow Counseling + Coaching
Psychologist, PsyD
We frequently work with couples facing infertility. Dr. Brookland also treats couples who need improved communication and conflict resolution skills.
14 Years Experience
The Center for Counseling & Wellness
Counselor/Therapist
Licensed Counselors and Social Workers Available
13 Years Experience
Lisa Vespico-Mull
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, SAP, ICAADC
I have a lot of experience in marital counseling. I utilize Emotionally Focused Therapy with couples and we will identify patterns of communication and interaction and ways to change them. Together we can improve the connection to one another and also reduce conflict.
11 Years Experience
Debra Nelson
Psychologist, Psy.D.
Relationship issues cover a vast array of areas in our lives. We have relationships with our immediate families, extended families, friends, romantic partners, co-workers, and supervisors -- just to name a few! At times, these relationships can become complex, or even toxic to our well-being. Understanding how to best navigate your current relationships, and even uncover patterns of relating, can greatly improve your relationships and reduce overall stress in your life.
21 Years Experience
Alan Brandis, Ph.D.
Psychologist, Ph.D., Licensed Psychologist
Having worked with hundreds of couples over the last 40 years, I have developed a set of beliefs or ideas which, if adopted, help to ensure that a relationship will last. Here is a list of them.
1) Arguing helps nothing, so don't do it.
I like to say that I never met the person who started the fight! When two people argue, each of them believes that he or she is merely reacting to something the other one did or said. Neither one believes that they started the fight; but it started somehow, didn't it? 2) It is better to be close than it is to be “right.”
Blaming each other for the argument is counterproductive. So is trying to change the other person's opinion. Most couples who argue, argue about whose perception is "correct," whose way of doing something is the "right" way, and so on. The only possible outcome of these arguments is that someone will be "right" and someone will be "wrong." Do you know anyone who enjoys being wrong? Most people will fight tooth and nail to avoid being "wrong." 3) Commitment is the Foundation of the Therapy.Commitment implies that you are in the relationship "come Hell or high water," barring certain behaviors your partner might do such as having an affair (although I have seen a number of relationships recover from those, too).
34 Years Experience