Online Infertility therapists in San Jose, California CA
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David Gumpert
Psychologist, PsyD
While I do not have specialized training in this subject, my partner and I experienced infertility difficulties for many years before finally having our two children. I can offer empathy and support from a personal experience. This may include suggestions I and others in the infertility community have found useful.
5 Years Experience
Online in San Jose, CA (Online Only)
Daniel Slavin
Marriage and Family Therapist
I support individuals and couples facing infertility or adoption through the emotional complexity, grief, uncertainty, and identity shifts involved. Therapy offers space to process loss, manage stress, and navigate these experiences with greater resilience and self-compassion.
41 Years Experience
Online in San Jose, CA
Life After Birth
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
All of our clinicians have training and experience treating Primary and Secondary Infertility, which often include grief and loss support.
13 Years Experience
Online in San Jose, CA
Jeanette Abney
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, SAP
Infertility and adoption issues can be a personal matter. I have many years of experience as I worked within the court system regarding adoptions. I also have many years of experience with working with both males and females as it relates to fertility issues.
27 Years Experience
Online in San Jose, CA
Dr. Amy Hecht
Psychologist, PhD
I work closely with individuals and couples navigating infertility and the many paths to building a family, including adoption and assisted reproduction. These experiences often bring a unique mix of grief, uncertainty, hope, and pressure, and I provide both therapeutic support and practical guidance throughout the process.
In addition to therapy, I offer psychoeducation to help clients better understand and manage the emotional aspects of family building, as well as comprehensive psychological evaluations required for adoption, surrogacy, and donor-related processes. I understand how time-sensitive these steps can be, and—based on both my professional experience and personal understanding—I prioritize these appointments, offering a quick turnaround and minimal wait whenever possible.
My goal is to provide a steady, informed, and compassionate presence during what can be an intensely emotional journey, helping clients move forward with clarity, resilience, and confidence.
26 Years Experience
Online in San Jose, CA
G. Roman Gupta, LCSW
Therapist, LCSW
I have been practicing for almost 20 years and I have a strength-based, trauma-informed, culturally aware, LGBTQ+ affirmative, sex positive, kink positive, poly affirming, feminist perspective. I have trained and practiced in a variety of treatment methods that offer us a variety of ways to meet your goals whether as an individual, couple, or family.
18 Years Experience
Online in San Jose, CA
Anne M. Dennis LMFT
Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
While the IVF process can be an exciting hopeful time, an individual/couple want to ensure their mental health is addressed along the way. Feelings of isolation, depression, anxiety, relationship conflict left untreated and unresolved may have long-term effects on the relationship. Working together in therapy the issues can be addressed including processing thoughts and feelings and learning positive coping skills to utilize during the IVF process.
18 Years Experience
Online in San Jose, CA (Online Only)
Katie Burgess
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, PMH-C
Katie has over 10 years of experience working with families in the foster and adoption process. She supports individuals and families navigating the complexities of adoption, offering a thoughtful space to process identity, attachment, grief, and the evolving dynamics that can arise throughout the adoption journey.
Katie also specializes in perinatal experiences and is a certified perinatal mental health provider with extensive experience in supporting individuals and families through the difficult and sensitive journey of infertility. It can be an isolating and all consuming process. You are not alone and Katie enjoys partnering with individuals and families through this delicate season.
15 Years Experience
Online in San Jose, CA (Online Only)
Gail Kirk Poust
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Infertility can be a lonely journey. Friends and family may try to be supportive, but it is often hard for them to truly understand the roller coaster of monthly disappointments, the intangible loss of a miscarriage, or the deep yearning every time you see a baby or pregnant belly. I am here to support women in the infertility journey, no matter which stage of the path you are on. I can help you find strategies for managing your stress and making decisions if you are still in the process of trying treatments, or walk with you as you grieve what could have been and build a life of meaning if you are childless-not-by-choice.
12 Years Experience
Online in San Jose, CA (Online Only)
Shadi Souferian
Psychologist, Psy.D
Infertility can be devastating. Therapy can help you work through grief and loss and find ways to move forward. We also help navigate through the process of adoption.
26 Years Experience
Online in San Jose, CA
Rebecca Rothberg
Psychologist, Psy.D., M.A., R.Y.T.
I specialize in helping those navigating challenges with fertility, including those going through the IVF process and grappling with the possibility of adoption.
9 Years Experience
Online in San Jose, CA
Tiffany O'Toole
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LCMHC, LPCC
One of my specialties is working with women who are dealing with infertility. Some of my clients are trying to get pregnant and some have experienced miscarriages but they all have feelings of loneliness and isolation, sometimes even shame and embarrassment. I offer a safe, non-judgmental space for you to process your emotions, receive support and address the trauma caused by infertility.
14 Years Experience
Online in San Jose, CA (Online Only)
Michelle Roberts
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
It's a particular kind of grief, longing for a family and perhaps experiencing many losses along the way. Even the loss of what can't be, or having to shift your understanding of what your identity is or will be in the world, has its own grief journey. The highs and the lows all make sense. I'm here as a steady presence as you figure out what you need most in the life you are building.
12 Years Experience
Online in San Jose, CA (Online Only)
Marina Edelman | TrueMe Counseling
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
We provide support for the complex grief, stress, and identity shifts that often accompany infertility or adoption journeys. Therapy offers space for processing and coping.
20 Years Experience
Online in San Jose, CA
Dr. Shelby Kittinger
Psychologist, PsyD
In therapy, I support individuals and couples navigating the grief, uncertainty, and identity shifts that often accompany infertility and adoption. Our work centers on meaning-making, emotional regulation, and deepening relational support through these complex experiences.
10 Years Experience
Online in San Jose, CA (Online Only)
Amy Price, AMP Family Therapy Inc.
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
I have had a number of clients struggling with infertility and how to navigate relationships during this truly trying and stressful time. I have experience with people who have adopted, used surrogates and donors, and also see adoptees who need support.
23 Years Experience
Online in San Jose, CA
Timothy Walker
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
The journey to becoming a parent is not so easy for some of us. Years of waiting, of expectation, of loss. It can do a number on us. Infertility challenges relationships, and our fundamental experience of ourselves.
9 Years Experience
Online in San Jose, CA (Online Only)
Melissa Klass M.A., LMFT
Marriage and Family Therapist, M.A., LMFT #119163
Some of the most joyous moments in life also have the potential to be the most painful. The world doesn’t seem fair when some women get pregnant just by looking at their partners, or so it would seem, while others try for months, and then begin to time their cycles, and finally start exploring other options. The infertility journey is long and confusing—full of needle pricks, doctor’s appointments and strange or inappropriate questions from friends and loved ones. And if you’re part of a queer couple, you can multiply those strange and inappropriate questions by a factor of two, or maybe three. But then it happens, you get the news: X number of healthy embryos. Yay! Except they are all boys, you really wanted a girl, but that’s okay, you just want a healthy baby. But then, your first implantation doesn’t take. So you have to try again. Success! At least at first. Miscarriages are also an all too common, intensely painful part of this process. It starts to feel like your body is betraying you. Or what if you don’t have all of the necessary parts to carry the child and you need to use a surrogate? The first one doesn’t work out, and the second one doesn’t pass psychological testing and number three, well, unfortunately after three unsuccessful tries, it’s time to look for number four. When will it end? And when will it be your turn for a healthy baby? Therapeutic support from someone who understands the process can help you feel less alone as you navigate the decisions, the ups and downs, and the journey to becoming your own self-educated endocrinologist (kidding, sort of…).
10 Years Experience
Online in San Jose, CA (Online Only)
Omer Harari
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
I help individuals manage the stressors of infertility by using an integrative approach using narrative, dynamic, relational, and attachment informed therapy. We work together to manage the feelings that can come with being in a process that can be challenging, uncertain, and open-ended. We build skills to manage uncertainty, anxieties, and isolation, and create safe containers for hope and emotional support, both in therapy and in relationships outside of therapy. I'm familiar and have lived experience with steps commonly involved in IUI, IVF and have experience supporting clients--couples and individuals--in navigating them.
9 Years Experience
Online in San Jose, CA
Courtney Whetstone
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
After my lived experience with pregnancy loss and not being able to receive the proper services and care that I needed, I knew it was my turn to make a difference and provide the type of support that is needed within this population. Someone that can work within this population with the care and time and effort and advocacy it deserves. I have written a workbook on this very topic and it is something that is needed in this field.
12 Years Experience
Online in San Jose, CA (Online Only)
San Jose sits at the heart of Silicon Valley, where the pressures of the tech industry — performance anxiety, imposter syndrome, and the psychological cost of relentless innovation culture — drive significant demand for therapists experienced in high-achievement environments. The city's large South Asian and East Asian communities mean culturally competent therapists who understand the intersection of immigrant identity, family expectations, and mental health are particularly sought after. Santa Clara Valley Medical Center and Kaiser Permanente provide institutional mental health resources alongside a growing independent therapy community. Many South Bay therapists offer evening and weekend hours to accommodate the demanding work schedules common in the tech sector.
Infertility therapists in San Jose, California Statistics
Infertility therapists in San Jose, California average 15 years of experience and charge around $206 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Infertility or Adoption (100%), Anxiety or Fears (80%), and Trauma and PTSD (78%).
Average years in practice
15 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$206
Gender ID
| 68% |
Female |
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| 22% |
Male |
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| 6% |
Non-Binary |
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| 4% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 50% |
In Person and Online |
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| 50% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Infertility or Adoption |
| 80% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 78% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 69% | Loss or Grief |
| 65% | Depression |
| 63% | Relationship and Marriage Counseling |
| 61% | Stress |