Sex therapists in Lodi, CA
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Dr. David Shapiro
Psychologist, California Licensed Psychologist (License# PSY17495)
Sex Therapy, Intimacy & Erotic Fulfillment
Cultivating Connection, Pleasure, and Sexual Vitality
Sexuality is a vital dimension of human well-being, emotional closeness, and quality of life. Yet, physical changes, performance stress, unaddressed trauma, or relational drift can turn intimacy into a source of anxiety, frustration, or quiet isolation.
My work in sex and intimacy therapy provides a confidential, sophisticated, and deeply non-judgmental environment for both individuals and couples. Whether you are navigating specific functional challenges or seeking to deepen your erotic connection, our work bridges physical function, emotional intimacy, and psychological freedom.
Comprehensive & Functional Care
Sexuality involves a delicate balance between the physical body, the nervous system, and emotional safety. I provide expert guidance across a broad spectrum of sexual concerns, including:
Sexual Function & Performance Anxiety: Addressing erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, and performance stress by quieting the body's alarm system and restoring effortless confidence.
Desire Dynamics & Arousal Discrepancy: Helping individuals and couples navigate low libido, mismatched sexual desire, or the natural shift in erotic energy over long-term partnerships.
Somatic Comfort & Pain-Free Intimacy: Supporting individuals through painful intercourse (vaginismus, dyspareunia, or pelvic tension) by integrating gentle nervous system regulation and mind-body awareness.
Trauma-Informed Healing: Gently reprocessing past sexual trauma, bodily shame, or restrictive cultural messaging, helping you reclaim safe, joyful ownership of your body and pleasure.
Expanding Intimacy & Alternative Lifestyles
Intimacy flourishes when couples move beyond mechanical routine and cultivate genuine emotional presence, playfulness, and eroticism.
Fusing Emotional Closeness with Eroticism: Helping partners build a shared language around desire, loving touch, and mutual pleasure—learning how to cultivate deep emotional safety without sacrificing erotic spark.
Alternative Lifestyles & Consensual Non-Monogamy: Offering an informed, open-minded, and affirmative environment for individuals and couples exploring alternative relationship structures, open relationships, polyamory, or BDSM/kink dynamics.
Whether you are seeking to resolve a specific functional concern, heal from past injuries, or expand your capacity for joy and fulfillment, our work offers the privacy, safety, and expertise needed to align your sexual life with your highest personal vision.
26 Years Experience
In-Person Near Lodi, CA
Online in Lodi, CA
Eric Olsen
Life Coach, PTSD, Trauma Triage, BSc Social Sciences, DoD Career Councilor, SARC, DAPA, Pre Licensed Human Intelligence / Psychology, Life Coach. | Professional Support: LSSBB, PgM, Bluestone PMP,
I specialize in hypersexuality, offering a supportive and confidential environment to address sexual concerns. My services cater to individuals and couples seeking to enhance their sexual well-being, explore sexual identity, overcome sexual dysfunctions, and improve intimacy and communication. Utilizing evidence-based approaches, I aim to facilitate a positive and healthy sexual experience for all my clients.
17 Years Experience
Online in Lodi, CA (Online Only)
Monica M. Huston
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Sexual concerns are often connected to communication, emotional intimacy, and individual experiences rather than just physical factors. I work with individuals and couples to better understand these dynamics and create a space where concerns can be explored openly and without judgment. Therapy focuses on improving connection, communication, and overall satisfaction.
9 Years Experience
Online in Lodi, CA
Frankie Santiago
Life Coach, Professional Life Coach
I help men and women improve their sexual health, intimacy, and connection through practical life coaching. Whether you’re dealing with challenges around desire, performance, communication in the bedroom, or rebuilding a satisfying intimate life, we focus on open dialogue, practical strategies, and personalized tools to reduce shame, build confidence, and create healthier sexual experiences. My supportive, non-judgmental approach empowers you to address these areas with clarity and respect for your pace and goals. Ready to create positive change? I offer a free 15 minute initial consultation to see how we can work together.
15 Years Experience
Online in Lodi, CA (Online Only)
Hayden Dover
Marriage and Family Therapist, MFT, CST
As a Certified Sex Therapist, I work with individuals and couples who want a more honest, connected, pleasurable, and fulfilling relationship with sexuality. I help clients address desire differences, sexless relationships, sexual difficulties, sexual communication, intimacy concerns, sexual compulsivity, infidelity, pleasure, and questions related to identity or relationship structure. My approach is direct, sex-positive, non-judgmental, and LGBTQIA+, poly, kink, and non-monogamy-aware.
22 Years Experience
Online in Lodi, CA
Sex Therapy therapists in Lodi, CA Statistics
Sex Therapy therapists in Lodi, CA average 16 years of experience and charge around $221 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (66%), Psychodynamic Therapy (46%), and Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) (45%).
Average years in practice
16 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$221
Accept insurance
45%
Offer sliding scale
49%
Gender ID
| 46% |
Female |
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| 44% |
Male |
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| 5% |
Gender Fluid |
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| 5% |
Non-Binary |
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Session Type
| 58% |
In Person and Online |
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| 42% |
Online Only |
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Top Treatment Approaches
| 66% | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) |
| 46% | Psychodynamic Therapy |
| 45% | Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) |
| 42% | Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) |
| 38% | Existential / Humanistic Therapy |
| 38% | Relational Psychotherapy |
| 37% | Family Systems Therapy |
Ages Served
| 100% | Adult |
| 62% | Senior |
| 58% | Young Adult |
| 49% | Teen |
| 28% | Children |
Client Focus
| 65% | Women |
| 57% | LGBTQ+ |
| 55% | Men |
| 35% | Military / Veterans |
| 34% | Hispanic / Latino |