I provide a compassionate framework to assist individuals and couples in navigating the complex emotions and stories that emerge with infidelity. This therapeutic approach encourages clients to express their personal experiences of resentment, betrayal, and pain, while also delving into broader relational and societal narratives that may shape their perspective of fidelity and trust. By externalizing the infidelity as a separate entity from their identity and relationship, clients gain agency to decide what they want for their relationship moving forward.
Infidelity does not have to mean the end of a union. There are so many pathways to heal from infidelity and come out stronger as a united couple and restore trust.
Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified IMAGO Relationship Therapist, MFT, and EMDR
Certified in Imago Relationship therapy in 2010. In order to deepen intimacy we need a safe relationship container that requires both partners to close their exits. Then there is shared grief after an affair and trust broken must be re-earned. The healing power of Imago Dialogues teaches partners How to stay in their committed relationship and better get their needs met with one another.
There is nothing quite like discovering infidelity. It is extremely and uniquely traumatic. You find yourself feeling and doing things that you never thought you were capable of. I have experience helping couples heal after the discovery and I have experience helping the betrayed move on and rebuild their lives. Don't doubt yourself - if you feel a bit crazy...that's a symptom of being betrayed.
Infidelity has been an area we have been working with as long as we have worked with couples. We have been able to help partners navigate the betrayal and repair required to recover. This is true for polyamorous partners as well when there is a break of trust.
I have supported hundreds of couples over the past 15+ years who are working through infidelity or broken trust, and look forward to helping you get your relationship where you want it to be. Poor communication? Broken trust? Endless arguments? I look forward to hearing from you.