Borderline Personality Disorder therapists in Oceanside, California CA
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Melanie Goetz
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
I take an Ambivalent Attachment perspective, meaning that my view of BPD is that is a more severe expression of an Ambivalent Attachment style. In sessions, I will maintain a safe and predictable environment, supporting a space for each of us to be in charge of our own stories and emotional states. I'll be gentle in nonverbal and verbal communication, and, will model personal boundaries between and in sessions. We may incorporate EMDR or parts work into a primarily DARE approach of being with the felt-sense of connection, highlighting what feels safe and unsafe, trusting and mistrusting, predicable and chaotic. From a place of safe connection, we'll revisit the wounded parts from your past with nurturing openness and adaptability, while maintaining integrity and authenticity of your Core Self.
10 Years Experience
In-Person Near Oceanside, CA
Online in Oceanside, CA California
Diaspora Therapy Group
Marriage and Family Therapist, DSW, LMFT
We provide compassionate, trauma-informed care for individuals living with borderline personality disorder. We focus on emotional regulation, identity development, relationship patterns, and distress tolerance using collaborative, skills-based approaches. Our work is non-judgmental and centers safety, stability, and empowerment.
7 Years Experience
In-Person Near Oceanside, CA
Online in Oceanside, CA California
Dr. Divya Kakaiya Healthy Within
Psychologist, Licensed Clinical Psychologist Ph. D M.S. BCN-L
Borderline personality disorder is characterized by a nervous system that experiences emotions at full volume — intense, rapid, and difficult to contain. The brain's regulatory circuits, particularly those governing emotional response and impulse control, are chronically overwhelmed.
Neurofeedback trains these circuits toward greater stability, reducing the intensity and speed of emotional flooding. Patients often report feeling a new neurological pause between trigger and reaction — space that makes genuine self-regulation possible for the first time.
41 Years Experience
In-Person Near Oceanside, CA
Melissa Quinn Pollock
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Attachment and nervous system dysregulation gets labeled as personality disorders in the therapeutic world. While some diagnoses can be helpful to understand ourselves, we can work on a holistic approach that includes but is not limited to DBT.
13 Years Experience
Online in Oceanside, CA California (Online Only)
Empowered Path Clinical Counseling, PC
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPCC, MA, CBIF, CAMS-II, CART, LMFT, AMFT, APCC
We provide compassionate, nonjudgmental therapy for individuals living with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), focusing on emotional regulation, building stable relationships, and improving self-worth. Using evidence-based approaches like DBT and mindfulness, we help clients better understand their emotions, reduce self-destructive behaviors, and create a more balanced and fulfilling life
11 Years Experience
In-Person Near Oceanside, CA
Online in Oceanside, CA California
Dr Karen Rippy - hi since individual, marriage, children and family Therapy online and Mission Viejo office
Marriage and Family Therapist, Ph.D., LMFT ,
Did someone say you have BPD. Let's examine the situation and understand the relationship problems involved.
41 Years Experience
In-Person Near Oceanside, CA
Online in Oceanside, CA California
Heather Marriatori
Psychologist, PhD
I work with all personality disorders, with Borderline PD being at the forefront of trauma.
13 Years Experience
In-Person Near Oceanside, CA
Online in Oceanside, CA California
Oceanside is a coastal city in northern San Diego County situated directly adjacent to Marine Corps Base Camp Pendleton, one of the largest Marine Corps installations in the country, and the city's mental health landscape is heavily shaped by the needs of active duty service members, veterans, and military families. Trauma, PTSD, military sexual trauma, deployment stress, and the challenges of military-to-civilian transition are among the most common concerns for therapists working in the area. San Diego County behavioral health services extend to Oceanside, and several private practices specialize specifically in military-affiliated populations. The city also has a growing civilian population of families and retirees attracted by its beaches and lower housing costs than central San Diego, and general therapy needs are well served by a broad network of local practitioners.
Borderline Personality Disorder therapists in Oceanside, California Statistics
Borderline Personality Disorder therapists in Oceanside, California average 16 years of experience and charge around $220 per session. 98% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (68%), Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) (50%), and Psychodynamic Therapy (48%).
Average years in practice
16 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$220
Accept insurance
40%
Offer sliding scale
44%
Gender ID
| 61% |
Female |
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| 28% |
Male |
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| 6% |
Non-Binary |
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| 5% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 62% |
In Person and Online |
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| 36% |
Online Only |
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| 2% |
In Person Only |
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Top Treatment Approaches
| 68% | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) |
| 50% | Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) |
| 48% | Psychodynamic Therapy |
| 44% | Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) |
| 44% | Family Systems Therapy |
| 42% | Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) |
| 40% | Existential / Humanistic Therapy |
Ages Served
| 100% | Adult |
| 72% | Young Adult |
| 70% | Teen |
| 64% | Senior |
| 36% | Children |
Client Focus
| 58% | Men |
| 58% | Women |
| 56% | LGBTQ+ |
| 42% | Jewish |
| 40% | Christian |