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Borderline Personality Disorder therapists in Oceanside, CA

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Carlsbad, California therapist: Melanie Goetz, marriage and family therapist
BPD

Melanie Goetz

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
I take an Ambivalent Attachment perspective, meaning that my view of BPD is that is a more severe expression of an Ambivalent Attachment style. In sessions, I will maintain a safe and predictable environment, supporting a space for each of us to be in charge of our own stories and emotional states. I'll be gentle in nonverbal and verbal communication, and, will model personal boundaries between and in sessions. We may incorporate EMDR or parts work into a primarily DARE approach of being with the felt-sense of connection, highlighting what feels safe and unsafe, trusting and mistrusting, predicable and chaotic. From a place of safe connection, we'll revisit the wounded parts from your past with nurturing openness and adaptability, while maintaining integrity and authenticity of your Core Self.  
10 Years Experience
In-Person Near Oceanside, CA
Online in Oceanside, CA
Carlsbad, California therapist: Diaspora Therapy Group, marriage and family therapist
BPD

Diaspora Therapy Group

Marriage and Family Therapist, DSW, LMFT
We provide compassionate, trauma-informed care for individuals living with borderline personality disorder. We focus on emotional regulation, identity development, relationship patterns, and distress tolerance using collaborative, skills-based approaches. Our work is non-judgmental and centers safety, stability, and empowerment.  
7 Years Experience
In-Person Near Oceanside, CA
Online in Oceanside, CA
San Diego, California therapist: Dr. Divya Kakaiya Healthy Within, psychologist
BPD

Dr. Divya Kakaiya Healthy Within

Psychologist, Licensed Clinical Psychologist Ph. D M.S. BCN-L
Borderline personality disorder is characterized by a nervous system that experiences emotions at full volume — intense, rapid, and difficult to contain. The brain's regulatory circuits, particularly those governing emotional response and impulse control, are chronically overwhelmed. Neurofeedback trains these circuits toward greater stability, reducing the intensity and speed of emotional flooding. Patients often report feeling a new neurological pause between trigger and reaction — space that makes genuine self-regulation possible for the first time.  
41 Years Experience
In-Person Near Oceanside, CA
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San Diego, California therapist: Melissa Quinn Pollock, licensed clinical social worker
BPD

Melissa Quinn Pollock

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Attachment and nervous system dysregulation gets labeled as personality disorders in the therapeutic world. While some diagnoses can be helpful to understand ourselves, we can work on a holistic approach that includes but is not limited to DBT.  
13 Years Experience
Online in Oceanside, CA (Online Only)
Murrieta, California therapist: Empowered Path Clinical Counseling, PC, licensed professional counselor
BPD

Empowered Path Clinical Counseling, PC

Licensed Professional Counselor, LPCC, MA, CBIF, CAMS-II, CART, LMFT, AMFT, APCC
We provide compassionate, nonjudgmental therapy for individuals living with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), focusing on emotional regulation, building stable relationships, and improving self-worth. Using evidence-based approaches like DBT and mindfulness, we help clients better understand their emotions, reduce self-destructive behaviors, and create a more balanced and fulfilling life  
11 Years Experience
In-Person Near Oceanside, CA
Online in Oceanside, CA
Mission Viejo, California therapist: Dr Karen Rippy - hi since individual, marriage, children and family Therapy online and Mission Viejo office, marriage and family therapist
BPD

Dr Karen Rippy - hi since individual, marriage, children and family Therapy online and Mission Viejo office

Marriage and Family Therapist, Ph.D., LMFT ,
Did someone say you have BPD. Let's examine the situation and understand the relationship problems involved.  
41 Years Experience
In-Person Near Oceanside, CA
Online in Oceanside, CA
San Diego, California therapist: Heather Marriatori, psychologist
BPD

Heather Marriatori

Psychologist, PhD
I work with all personality disorders, with Borderline PD being at the forefront of trauma.  
13 Years Experience
In-Person Near Oceanside, CA
Online in Oceanside, CA
Oceanside is a coastal city in northern San Diego County situated directly adjacent to Marine Corps Base Camp Pendleton, one of the largest Marine Corps installations in the country, and the city's mental health landscape is heavily shaped by the needs of active duty service members, veterans, and military families. Trauma, PTSD, military sexual trauma, deployment stress, and the challenges of military-to-civilian transition are among the most common concerns for therapists working in the area. San Diego County behavioral health services extend to Oceanside, and several private practices specialize specifically in military-affiliated populations. The city also has a growing civilian population of families and retirees attracted by its beaches and lower housing costs than central San Diego, and general therapy needs are well served by a broad network of local practitioners.

Borderline Personality Disorder therapists in Oceanside, California Statistics

Borderline Personality Disorder therapists in Oceanside, California average 16 years of experience and charge around $220 per session. 98% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (68%), Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) (50%), and Psychodynamic Therapy (48%).

Average years in practice

16 Years Experience

Average cost per session

$220

Accept insurance

40%

Offer sliding scale

44%

Gender ID

61% Female
28% Male
6% Non-Binary
5% Gender Fluid

Session Type

62% In Person and Online
36% Online Only
2% In Person Only

Top Treatment Approaches

68% Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
50% Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT)
48% Psychodynamic Therapy
44% Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
44% Family Systems Therapy
42% Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
40% Existential / Humanistic Therapy

Ages Served

100% Adult
72% Young Adult
70% Teen
64% Senior
36% Children

Client Focus

58% Men
58% Women
56% LGBTQ+
42% Jewish
40% Christian

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