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Borderline Personality Disorder therapists in Poway, CA

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San Diego, California therapist: Melissa Quinn Pollock, licensed clinical social worker
BPD

Melissa Quinn Pollock

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Attachment and nervous system dysregulation gets labeled as personality disorders in the therapeutic world. While some diagnoses can be helpful to understand ourselves, we can work on a holistic approach that includes but is not limited to DBT.  
13 Years Experience
Online in Poway, CA (Online Only)
San Diego, California therapist: Dr. Divya Kakaiya Healthy Within, psychologist
BPD

Dr. Divya Kakaiya Healthy Within

Psychologist, Licensed Clinical Psychologist Ph. D M.S. BCN-L
Borderline personality disorder is characterized by a nervous system that experiences emotions at full volume — intense, rapid, and difficult to contain. The brain's regulatory circuits, particularly those governing emotional response and impulse control, are chronically overwhelmed. Neurofeedback trains these circuits toward greater stability, reducing the intensity and speed of emotional flooding. Patients often report feeling a new neurological pause between trigger and reaction — space that makes genuine self-regulation possible for the first time.  
41 Years Experience
In-Person Near Poway, CA
San Diego, California therapist: Heather Marriatori, psychologist
BPD

Heather Marriatori

Psychologist, PhD
I work with all personality disorders, with Borderline PD being at the forefront of trauma.  
13 Years Experience
In-Person Near Poway, CA
Online in Poway, CA
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Carlsbad, California therapist: Diaspora Therapy Group, marriage and family therapist
BPD

Diaspora Therapy Group

Marriage and Family Therapist, DSW, LMFT
We provide compassionate, trauma-informed care for individuals living with borderline personality disorder. We focus on emotional regulation, identity development, relationship patterns, and distress tolerance using collaborative, skills-based approaches. Our work is non-judgmental and centers safety, stability, and empowerment.  
7 Years Experience
In-Person Near Poway, CA
Online in Poway, CA
San Diego, California therapist: Patricia Fahmy, licensed professional counselor
BPD

Patricia Fahmy

Licensed Professional Counselor, LPCC
Living with intense emotions can feel exhausting. You may experience overwhelming fears of abandonment, difficulty trusting others, rapid shifts in emotions, relationship struggles, or a constant fear of being left, rejected, or misunderstood. Many people feel ashamed of these experiences or believe something is wrong with them. In reality, these patterns often make sense in the context of attachment wounds, relational trauma, and painful life experiences. Together, we'll work to better understand these patterns, strengthen emotional regulation, improve relationships, and help you feel more stable, secure, and connected.  
7 Years Experience
Online in Poway, CA (Online Only)
San Diego, California therapist: Dr. Jen Bachtold, psychologist
BPD

Dr. Jen Bachtold

Psychologist, Ph.D., Certified Alcohol & Drug Counselor-II (CADC-II), Certified Clinical Trauma Professional, Specialist in Anger Management
As a licensed psychologist with experience working with those with borderline personality disorder (BPD), I am dedicated to providing compassionate and effective support to individuals living with this condition. My approach is based on evidence-based therapies and personalized strategies to help you manage symptoms and improve your quality of life.  
11 Years Experience
Online in Poway, CA (Online Only)
San Diego, California therapist: Ross Kellogg, LMFT, marriage and family therapist
BPD

Ross Kellogg, LMFT

Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed Individual, Marriage, and Family Therapist (LMFT)
I provide Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, the standardized and most effective approach to address symptoms related to Borderline Personality Disorder.  
12 Years Experience
Online in Poway, CA (Online Only)
Carlsbad, California therapist: Melanie Goetz, marriage and family therapist
BPD

Melanie Goetz

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
I take an Ambivalent Attachment perspective, meaning that my view of BPD is that is a more severe expression of an Ambivalent Attachment style. In sessions, I will maintain a safe and predictable environment, supporting a space for each of us to be in charge of our own stories and emotional states. I'll be gentle in nonverbal and verbal communication, and, will model personal boundaries between and in sessions. We may incorporate EMDR or parts work into a primarily DARE approach of being with the felt-sense of connection, highlighting what feels safe and unsafe, trusting and mistrusting, predicable and chaotic. From a place of safe connection, we'll revisit the wounded parts from your past with nurturing openness and adaptability, while maintaining integrity and authenticity of your Core Self.  
10 Years Experience
In-Person Near Poway, CA
Online in Poway, CA

Borderline Personality Disorder therapists in Poway, California Statistics

Borderline Personality Disorder therapists in Poway, California average 15 years of experience and charge around $217 per session. 98% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (71%), Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) (49%), and Family Systems Therapy (47%).

Average years in practice

15 Years Experience

Average cost per session

$217

Accept insurance

39%

Offer sliding scale

47%

Gender ID

62% Female
27% Male
6% Non-Binary
5% Gender Fluid

Session Type

63% In Person and Online
35% Online Only
2% In Person Only

Top Treatment Approaches

71% Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
49% Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT)
47% Family Systems Therapy
45% Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
43% Psychodynamic Therapy
43% Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
41% Existential / Humanistic Therapy

Ages Served

100% Adult
71% Young Adult
69% Teen
63% Senior
33% Children

Client Focus

57% Women
55% Men
53% LGBTQ+
39% Jewish
39% Persons with Disabilities

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