Gottman Method Couples therapists in San Luis Obispo, California CA
Browse Gottman Method Couples therapists in San Luis Obispo. Compare credentials, specialties and therapeutic approach. Contact a therapist to learn more.
Gottman Method
Melanie Goetz
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
You’ve spent years being the strong one—the helper, the steady presence, the one who keeps it together while carrying so much inside.
Lately, maybe your body feels tense, your heart heavy, and your relationships harder than they should be. You may long for rest, connection, or simply someone who truly understands.
Therapy with me isn’t about “fixing” you. It’s about creating space to listen to the parts of you that have been silenced, to heal old wounds, and to finally feel safe being your fully authentic self.
If you’re ready to stop overextending, quiet the inner critic, and begin living with more ease and authenticity—I would be honored to walk alongside you.
🌿 Let’s start from the roots, and grow upward—together.
At our core, we are all motivated by a desire to connect—both with others and with ourselves in ways that feel honoring. But often, in our upbringing, we learned “rules” for connection that no longer serve us in our friendships, families, or intimate relationships. My work is about helping you recognize those patterns and move toward earned-secure attachment, so your connections can feel mutual, safe, and deeply nourishing.
If this resonates, I invite you to schedule a brief, complimentary 15-minute phone consultation. It’s a chance to see if my presence and approach might be the right support for your journey. You can schedule directly here: melanie-goetz.clientsecure.me
10 Years Experience
Online in San Luis Obispo, CA California
Gottman Method
Kristin Robert
Marriage and Family Therapist, AMFT
At a personal level, I value substance over presentation, meaningful connection over polished appearances, and honesty delivered with care. I am curious about people, loyal in my relationships, and rarely interested in the easy or rehearsed answer. I appreciate intelligence, humor, directness, and the kind of conversation that makes time disappear.
My life has made me attentive to what people carry quietly and to the distance that can exist between how a life appears and how it actually feels. I believe in accountability without shame, depth without intensity for its own sake, and care that respects autonomy. I have a deep respect for the courage it takes to question what we have inherited, live with greater intention, and build something honest from the experiences that have changed us.
I am committed to showing up thoughtfully and consistently, honoring the responsibility that comes with being invited into someone’s inner life. This work matters to me because it offers the possibility of greater clarity, connection, and integrity, both within ourselves and in how we relate to others. I believe there is something quietly powerful about understanding yourself well enough to make choices rooted in truth rather than fear, expectation, or approval.
3 Years Experience
Online in San Luis Obispo, CA California
Gottman Method
Daniel Slavin
Marriage and Family Therapist
My background in hypnotherapy allows me to recognize and address complex issues thoughtfully, ensuring you get the support you need—whether that means exploring treatment options or developing coping strategies together.
Whether you’re dealing with anxiety, self-esteem issues, emotional pain, grief, trauma, relationship challenges, or navigating life with ADD/ADHD or dyslexia, I’m dedicated to helping you establish clear, tangible goals. My personalized approach to psychotherapy is designed to equip you with the skills necessary to create the positive changes you desire.
41 Years Experience
Online in San Luis Obispo, CA California
Gottman Method
Marina Edelman | TrueMe Counseling
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Marina Edelman, LMFT, specializes in helping couples rebuild trust, improve communication, and reconnect emotionally after conflict or betrayal. Using evidence-based, attachment-focused therapy, she provides practical tools that create real, lasting change in relationships. Marina offers couples therapy, affair recovery, and premarital counseling in Culver City, Westlake Village, and virtually throughout California.
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**Personal Statement**
I am deeply passionate about helping couples find their way back to connection, safety, and genuine partnership. In my work, I use the Gottman Method alongside attachment-based approaches to give couples clear, research-supported tools that strengthen communication and rebuild trust. Having been married for 30 years myself, I bring both professional expertise and real-life understanding to the complex, meaningful work of sustaining long-term love.
20 Years Experience
Online in San Luis Obispo, CA California
Gottman Method
John Fry
Psychologist, Ph.D.
Three-quarters of my clients use my services for 5 to 20 sessions to achieve their therapy goals. I use the cognitive behavioral therapy approach because of its impressive results in therapy research. I enjoy my work, seeing people move their lives forward to enjoy their lives more, becoming happier, more at ease with themselves, creating better relationships, and having more fulfillment.
49 Years Experience
Online in San Luis Obispo, CA California
Gottman Method Couples Therapy therapists in San Luis Obispo, California Statistics
Gottman Method Couples Therapy therapists in San Luis Obispo, California average 14 years of experience and charge around $200 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Relationship and Marriage Counseling (85%), Anxiety or Fears (82%), and Trauma and PTSD (72%).
Average years in practice
14 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$200
Accept insurance
54%
Offer sliding scale
46%
Gender ID
| 54% |
Female |
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| 35% |
Male |
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| 7% |
Non-Binary |
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| 4% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 72% |
In Person and Online |
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| 28% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 85% | Relationship and Marriage Counseling |
| 82% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 72% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 68% | Depression |
| 53% | Loss or Grief |
| 50% | Stress |
| 47% | Self Esteem |
Ages Served
| 100% | Adult |
| 69% | Young Adult |
| 59% | Senior |
| 53% | Teen |
| 30% | Children |
Client Focus
| 55% | Women |
| 45% | Men |
| 43% | LGBTQ+ |
| 42% | Christian |
| 32% | Black / African American |