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Codependency therapists in San Mateo, CA

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Menlo Park, California therapist: Stefani Largent, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Stefani Largent

Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Codependency, Fixing and Pleasing Others, Controlling Others, Over-Functioning as a Partner, Loss of Identity  
17 Years Experience
In-Person Near San Mateo, CA
Online in San Mateo, CA
Menlo Park, California therapist: J. Rosalyn Diehl, licensed mental health counselor
Codependency

J. Rosalyn Diehl

Licensed Mental Health Counselor, MA, LMHC, LPPC, LPC
Codependency often shows up as putting others’ needs before your own, difficulty setting boundaries, or feeling responsible for others’ emotions. You may find yourself overgiving, seeking reassurance, or struggling to feel secure in relationships. I help clients understand these patterns, build a stronger sense of self, and develop healthier, more balanced ways of relating.  
12 Years Experience
Online in San Mateo, CA (Online Only)
Palo Alto, California therapist: Mary Knoblock, DNH, hypnotherapist
Codependency

Mary Knoblock, DNH

Hypnotherapist, DNH, RTT Practitioner, Hypnotist, Holistic Naturopath Practitioner, Spiritual Counselor
I can help you work through codependency issues with a lot of different tools, specifically RTT, Emotion Code and many more.  
11 Years Experience
Online in San Mateo, CA (Online Only)
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Berkeley, California therapist: Kim Christine Stevens, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Kim Christine Stevens

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Love helping my clients work through and heal codependency issues, including developing excellent boundaries and finding more self empowerment.  
11 Years Experience
In-Person Near San Mateo, CA
Online in San Mateo, CA
San Jose, California therapist: Russell Wilkie, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Russell Wilkie

Marriage and Family Therapist, MFT
Growing up in a less than nurturing environment can lead to all sorts of codependent traits, resulting in struggles with: self-esteem, self-care, boundaries, controlling others, taking care of your adult needs, perfectionism, and emotional flooding, to name a few. I am well versed in the 12-step program of codependents anonymous and the issues that are helped through attending meetings. I recommend the program, but it is not required to understand or heal the above issues.  
34 Years Experience
Online in San Mateo, CA (Online Only)
San Francisco, California therapist: San Francisco Counseling Collective, licensed professional counselor
Codependency

San Francisco Counseling Collective

Licensed Professional Counselor, LPCC, LMFT, LCSW
At San Francisco Counseling Collective ("SFCC"), when working with codependency issues, we help clients identify relational patterns rooted in overresponsibility, difficulty with boundaries, and self-sacrifice. Together we strengthen self-awareness, autonomy, and relational balance.  
9 Years Experience
In-Person Near San Mateo, CA
Online in San Mateo, CA
San Francisco, California therapist: Susanna La, psychologist
Codependency

Susanna La

Psychologist, Ph.D.
Codependency is about relationships and how others can affect us in unhealthy ways. This can often look like being consumed by worries for how others are doing (family, friends, colleagues, etc.), people-pleasing, not expressing our own thoughts/feelings, and/or losing our sense of self. Our identity can be dependent on trying to “fix” other people’s problems and not focusing on our own. This may also be due to not recognizing our own emotions and/or problems. Therapy can help you improve the relationship you have with yourself and others.  
13 Years Experience
Online in San Mateo, CA (Online Only)
Los Angeles, California therapist: Brooke Taylor, pre-licensed professional
Codependency

Brooke Taylor

Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, AMFT
Codependency often shows up as putting others' needs before your own, struggling with boundaries, and losing yourself in relationships. If you find yourself constantly trying to please others, feeling responsible for their emotions, or staying in unhealthy dynamics, you may be experiencing codependency. In our work together, I’ll help you recognize patterns of codependency, explore their origins, and develop healthier ways to relate to others. My goal is to support you in reclaiming your sense of self, establishing strong boundaries, and building fulfilling, balanced relationships. You deserve to love and care for yourself as much as you do for others.  
5 Years Experience
Online in San Mateo, CA (Online Only)
San Francisco, California therapist: California Center for Change, psychologist
Codependency

California Center for Change

Psychologist, PhD
When someone you love is struggling with addiction, it is easy to lose yourself in the effort to help them. You may find yourself managing their crises, making excuses for their behavior, or putting your own needs so far aside that you can no longer remember what they were. Codependency is not a character flaw. It is a learned pattern and it can change. We work with partners, parents, and family members to help them set healthier boundaries, rebuild their own sense of self, and find more effective ways to support their loved one without sacrificing their own wellbeing in the process.  
17 Years Experience
Online in San Mateo, CA (Online Only)
New York City, New York therapist: Susana Scotti, Journey Psychotherapy, psychologist
Codependency

Susana Scotti, Journey Psychotherapy

Psychologist, PhD
Struggling with codependency can leave you feeling emotionally exhausted, stuck in unhealthy relationship patterns, and unsure of your own needs or boundaries. You may find yourself prioritizing others at the expense of your well-being, feeling responsible for fixing or rescuing those around you, or experiencing guilt when you try to put yourself first. As a licensed psychologist with expertise in trauma, addiction, and mood disorders, I understand how codependent patterns often develop as a way to cope with past experiences and relational wounds. In therapy, we work together to uncover these underlying dynamics, build self-awareness, and strengthen your sense of identity and self-worth. My approach is compassionate, collaborative, and grounded in evidence-based practices. I help clients develop healthier boundaries, improve communication, and learn how to engage in relationships from a place of balance rather than obligation or fear. Whether codependency is connected to past trauma, substance use, or ongoing anxiety or depression, our work will focus on helping you create more fulfilling, stable, and authentic connections, starting with the relationship you have with yourself.  
13 Years Experience
Online in San Mateo, CA (Online Only)

Codependency therapists in San Mateo, California Statistics

Codependency therapists in San Mateo, California average 14 years of experience and charge around $204 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (61%), Psychodynamic Therapy (46%), and Existential / Humanistic Therapy (42%).

Average years in practice

14 Years Experience

Average cost per session

$204

Accept insurance

32%

Offer sliding scale

56%

Gender ID

68% Female
25% Male
4% Non-Binary
3% Gender Fluid

Session Type

64% In Person and Online
36% Online Only

Top Treatment Approaches

61% Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
46% Psychodynamic Therapy
42% Existential / Humanistic Therapy
42% Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian)
40% Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
38% Somatic Therapy
32% Relational Psychotherapy

Ages Served

99% Adult
65% Young Adult
54% Senior
53% Teen
23% Children

Client Focus

65% Women
48% LGBTQ+
44% Men
29% Christian
29% Hispanic / Latino

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