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Infidelity therapists in San Mateo, CA

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Burlingame, California therapist: Jeremi R McManus, marriage and family therapist
Infidelity

Jeremi R McManus

Marriage and Family Therapist, MFT
I have supported hundreds of couples over the past 15+ years who are working through infidelity or broken trust, and look forward to helping you get your relationship where you want it to be. Poor communication? Broken trust? Endless arguments? I look forward to hearing from you.  
21 Years Experience
In-Person Near San Mateo, CA
Online in San Mateo, CA
Menlo Park, California therapist: Stefani Largent, marriage and family therapist
Infidelity

Stefani Largent

Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Affairs, Betrayal, Relationship Recovery, Reentering World of Dating  
17 Years Experience
In-Person Near San Mateo, CA
Online in San Mateo, CA
Menlo Park, California therapist: J. Rosalyn Diehl, licensed mental health counselor
Infidelity

J. Rosalyn Diehl

Licensed Mental Health Counselor, MA, LMHC, LPPC, LPC
Infidelity can leave you feeling betrayed, confused, and questioning both the relationship and yourself. Many women find themselves overthinking, struggling with trust, or wondering how to move forward. I provide a supportive space to process these experiences, rebuild self-worth, strengthen self-trust, and develop healthier relationship patterns so you can move forward with greater clarity and confidence.  
12 Years Experience
Online in San Mateo, CA (Online Only)
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San Jose, California therapist: Russell Wilkie, marriage and family therapist
Infidelity

Russell Wilkie

Marriage and Family Therapist, MFT
Infidelity is one of the most complicated things I've ever dealt with as a therapist. It taps into so many areas that we feel deeply about: trust, faith, betrayal, self-esteem, self-doubt, true love, soul-mates, reconciliation, forgiveness, PTSD, and even our future. The most common question that I hear people ask is, "Why did it happen?" Unfortunately, the answer is often very complicated and hearing the answer is often less than soothing. We want to know why, because, we believe, if we understand it, we can prevent the pain of it happening again in the future. That is difficult to do, so we have to look at our understanding of how control plays a part in our psyche.  
34 Years Experience
Online in San Mateo, CA (Online Only)
Alameda, California therapist: Sarah Wagner LMFT Corp, marriage and family therapist
Infidelity

Sarah Wagner LMFT Corp

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, MBA
Infidelity can rupture trust at the deepest level, activating intense emotions such as anger, shame, grief, and fear. Using Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and attachment-based models, I help couples understand the underlying relational patterns that contributed to the breach while prioritizing emotional safety and accountability. Through Internal Family Systems (IFS), we explore protective parts—such as defensiveness, withdrawal, or self-criticism—that may surface after betrayal. Therapy focuses on structured repair conversations, rebuilding trust through consistency and transparency, and determining whether reconciliation or conscious uncoupling is the healthiest path forward.  
6 Years Experience
In-Person Near San Mateo, CA
Online in San Mateo, CA
San Francisco, California therapist: San Francisco Counseling Collective, licensed professional counselor
Infidelity

San Francisco Counseling Collective

Licensed Professional Counselor, LPCC, LMFT, LCSW
At San Francisco Counseling Collective ("SFCC"), we help individuals and couples navigate the emotional impact of infidelity with care, honesty, and skill. Work may include processing betrayal, clarifying values and needs, and exploring paths to repair or redefine the relationship.  
9 Years Experience
In-Person Near San Mateo, CA
Online in San Mateo, CA
San Francisco, California therapist: Michael Myette Therapy, licensed clinical social worker
Infidelity

Michael Myette Therapy

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
I specialize in treatment for issues related to infidelity  
19 Years Experience
Online in San Mateo, CA (Online Only)
Los Angeles, California therapist: Heidi Hartston, psychologist
Infidelity

Heidi Hartston

Psychologist, PhD
Infidelity creates deep pain, triggers trauma, breaks trust, and destabilizes a relationship and family. There can be heartbreak, guilt, mistrust and loss for all parties involved. Affair recovery involves re-committing to each other by first rebuilding trust, safety, accountability, and establishing good communication skills. A caring connection can be reestablished once the affair is behind you and each of you feel prioritized and listened to. I combine insightful, caring depth work with evidence based techniques that effectively free you from trauma and old patterns, and help you to reclaim a happy, secure relationship.  
35 Years Experience
Online in San Mateo, CA (Online Only)
San Francisco, California therapist: Eric Olsen, life coach
Infidelity

Eric Olsen

Life Coach, PTSD, Trauma Triage, BSc Social Sciences, DoD Career Councilor, SARC, DAPA, Pre Licensed Human Intelligence / Psychology, Life Coach. | Professional Support: LSSBB, PgM, Bluestone PMP,
We look at your infidelity concerns or issues and find the root cause for them and help you recover.  
17 Years Experience
Online in San Mateo, CA (Online Only)
San Francisco, California therapist: Brad Byrum, marriage and family therapist
Infidelity

Brad Byrum

Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, MBA, LMFT
I support couples in recovering from the relationship trauma the occurs when emotional trust is destroyed through infidelity.  
10 Years Experience
Online in San Mateo, CA (Online Only)

Infidelity therapists in San Mateo, California Statistics

Infidelity therapists in San Mateo, California average 16 years of experience and charge around $210 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (59%), Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) (52%), and Family Systems Therapy (44%).

Average years in practice

16 Years Experience

Average cost per session

$210

Accept insurance

29%

Offer sliding scale

41%

Gender ID

57% Female
36% Male
4% Non-Binary
3% Gender Fluid

Session Type

61% In Person and Online
39% Online Only

Top Treatment Approaches

59% Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
52% Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
44% Family Systems Therapy
43% Psychodynamic Therapy
38% Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT)
36% Existential / Humanistic Therapy
33% Relational Psychotherapy

Ages Served

100% Adult
63% Young Adult
62% Senior
52% Teen
26% Children

Client Focus

58% Women
48% Men
47% LGBTQ+
36% Christian
33% Military / Veterans

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