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Codependency therapists in San Ramon, CA

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San Ramon, California therapist: Ever After Individual and Family Therapy, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Ever After Individual and Family Therapy

Marriage and Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
When relationships become imbalanced, codependency can lead to emotional exhaustion and loss of self-identity. We help clients set healthy boundaries, build self-worth, and develop relationships based on mutual respect and independence.  
17 Years Experience
Online in San Ramon, CA (Online Only)
San Francisco, California therapist: San Francisco Counseling Collective, licensed professional counselor
Codependency

San Francisco Counseling Collective

Licensed Professional Counselor, LPCC, LMFT, LCSW
At San Francisco Counseling Collective ("SFCC"), when working with codependency issues, we help clients identify relational patterns rooted in overresponsibility, difficulty with boundaries, and self-sacrifice. Together we strengthen self-awareness, autonomy, and relational balance.  
9 Years Experience
In-Person Near San Ramon, CA
Online in San Ramon, CA
Pleasanton, California therapist: Dr. Rebecca Scott, Psy.D, psychologist
Codependency

Dr. Rebecca Scott, Psy.D

Psychologist, Clinical Psychologist, Certified in Holistic Health
I can support learning ways to foster independence and break codependent patterns.  
17 Years Experience
In-Person Near San Ramon, CA
Online in San Ramon, CA
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Walnut Creek, California therapist: Victoria Miller, licensed clinical social worker
Codependency

Victoria Miller

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
You try to to help, bend over backwards to make a other people's life better, make them happy, but it doesn't work and you end up feeling worse off than you did before. Friendships and relationships always seem off balance and a struggle. Eventually these relationships can go off the rails leaving you devastated and wondering "what did I do wrong?" I will help you understand how codependent patterns develop and how these patterns have affected just about every relationship in your life. I will help you explore what it means to have healthy boundaries and healthy more balanced relationships. This will help your relationships grow stronger and you feeling less anxiety and stress.  
20 Years Experience
In-Person Near San Ramon, CA
Online in San Ramon, CA
San Jose, California therapist: Russell Wilkie, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Russell Wilkie

Marriage and Family Therapist, MFT
Growing up in a less than nurturing environment can lead to all sorts of codependent traits, resulting in struggles with: self-esteem, self-care, boundaries, controlling others, taking care of your adult needs, perfectionism, and emotional flooding, to name a few. I am well versed in the 12-step program of codependents anonymous and the issues that are helped through attending meetings. I recommend the program, but it is not required to understand or heal the above issues.  
34 Years Experience
Online in San Ramon, CA (Online Only)
Lafayette, California therapist: Shohreh Schmuecker, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Shohreh Schmuecker

Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Struggling with Codependency? You're Not Alone. Do you find yourself constantly putting others’ needs before your own, struggling with boundaries, or feeling responsible for other people's emotions? Codependency can quietly affect your relationships, self-esteem, and overall well-being, but healing is possible. As a compassionate and experienced counselor, I offer a safe, nonjudgmental space to explore the patterns that keep you stuck. Together, we can work to support you in building healthier relationships, strengthen your sense of self, and help you reconnect with your own needs and desires. Take the first step toward freedom and self-empowerment. Reach out today for a confidential consultation.  
12 Years Experience
Online in San Ramon, CA (Online Only)
Lafayette, California therapist: Nes Pinar Psychotherapy, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Nes Pinar Psychotherapy

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
I help clients untangle patterns of codependency by slowing down, getting curious, and reconnecting with their own needs, boundaries, and inner wisdom. Together, we explore the stories and survival strategies that once kept you safe but now keep you stuck, making space for more choice, agency, and self‑trust. My approach is warm, relational, and steady—supporting you as you practice new ways of relating that feel authentic, mutual, and sustainable.  
15 Years Experience
In-Person Near San Ramon, CA
Online in San Ramon, CA
San Francisco, California therapist: Susanna La, psychologist
Codependency

Susanna La

Psychologist, Ph.D.
Codependency is about relationships and how others can affect us in unhealthy ways. This can often look like being consumed by worries for how others are doing (family, friends, colleagues, etc.), people-pleasing, not expressing our own thoughts/feelings, and/or losing our sense of self. Our identity can be dependent on trying to “fix” other people’s problems and not focusing on our own. This may also be due to not recognizing our own emotions and/or problems. Therapy can help you improve the relationship you have with yourself and others.  
13 Years Experience
Online in San Ramon, CA (Online Only)
Oakland, California therapist: Charis Khoury, marriage and family therapist
Codependency

Charis Khoury

Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
For those that were trained to self-abandon, returning "home" and learning to derive self worth from more reliable (internal) sources is one of the most rewarding achievements.  
16 Years Experience
In-Person Near San Ramon, CA
Online in San Ramon, CA
Los Angeles, California therapist: Mia Turner, therapist
Codependency

Mia Turner

Therapist, MA, RYT, ASDCS, LMFT, NPT-C, CMNCS, CMIP
Support for people who find themselves chronically over-functioning, caretaking, people-pleasing, shape-shifting, minimizing their own needs, anticipating the needs of others, or feeling responsible for the emotions, wellbeing, comfort, or stability of those around them. These patterns often develop as intelligent adaptations within family systems, trauma, cultural expectations, caregiving roles, marginalization, neurodivergence, or environments where safety, belonging, acceptance, or survival depended upon attunement to others. This work explores the protective and prescribed roles these patterns may have played throughout your life and the ways they may have shaped identity, relationships, self-worth, boundaries, decision-making, and connection to your own needs, desires, emotions, and body. Particular attention is given to the influence of family dynamics, culture, gender socialization, attachment experiences, systemic oppression, internalized beliefs, and the messages you may have received about responsibility, worthiness, sacrifice, and care. These patterns often live not only in thoughts and beliefs, but within the nervous system itself. They may show up as hypervigilance, chronic self-monitoring, difficulty asking for help, guilt when resting, discomfort receiving care, difficulty identifying needs, over-explaining, conflict avoidance, perfectionism, or a persistent sense that your value comes from what you do for others rather than who you are. Through a trauma-informed, attachment-focused, and nervous-system-centered lens, space is created for greater self-trust, authenticity, reciprocity, discernment, and connection to your own inner experience. The goal is not to stop caring for others, but to cultivate a deeper relationship with yourself and with relationships where care can flow in multiple directions and where your needs, humanity, and wellbeing are nurtured by the same compassion and attention you so readily offer to everyone else.  
10 Years Experience
Online in San Ramon, CA (Online Only)

Codependency therapists in San Ramon, California Statistics

Codependency therapists in San Ramon, California average 14 years of experience and charge around $203 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (61%), Psychodynamic Therapy (46%), and Existential / Humanistic Therapy (43%).

Average years in practice

14 Years Experience

Average cost per session

$203

Accept insurance

31%

Offer sliding scale

56%

Gender ID

68% Female
25% Male
4% Non-Binary
3% Gender Fluid

Session Type

64% In Person and Online
36% Online Only

Top Treatment Approaches

61% Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
46% Psychodynamic Therapy
43% Existential / Humanistic Therapy
42% Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian)
40% Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
38% Somatic Therapy
32% Relational Psychotherapy

Ages Served

99% Adult
64% Young Adult
54% Senior
54% Teen
23% Children

Client Focus

65% Women
49% LGBTQ+
44% Men
30% Christian
29% Hispanic / Latino

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