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Perfectionism therapists in Shasta Lake, CA

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Santa Monica, California therapist: Tracey Kiernan, marriage and family therapist
Perfectionism

Tracey Kiernan

Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, AMFT
Perfectionism often looks like success on the outside but feels exhausting internally. I help you understand the drivers behind it and shift toward a more sustainable, self-supportive way of functioning.  
2 Years Experience
Online in Shasta Lake, CA
Glendora, California therapist: True You Ministries | Stacy Echeverria Co-Founder, pastoral counselor/therapist
Perfectionism

True You Ministries | Stacy Echeverria Co-Founder

Pastoral Counselor/Therapist, Licensed Pastoral Counselor
Perfectionism can leave you feeling as though nothing you do is ever quite good enough. I help women uncover the deeper fears, beliefs, and emotional wounds that may be driving the need to perform, please others, or avoid making mistakes. Together, we work toward breaking unhealthy patterns, embracing grace, and finding greater freedom and confidence in your God-given identity rather than your performance.  
6 Years Experience
Online in Shasta Lake, CA (Online Only)
Los Angeles, California therapist: Mia Turner, therapist
Perfectionism

Mia Turner

Therapist, MA, RYT, ASDCS, LMFT, NPT-C, CMNCS, CMIP
Perfectionism is often less about striving for excellence and more about seeking safety, belonging, predictability, acceptance, or protection. It can develop in response to trauma, marginalization, giftedness, neurodivergence, family expectations, racism, ableism, cultural pressures, high-achievement environments, or experiences where mistakes felt costly and being "good enough" never quite felt good enough. What is often labeled as perfectionism may also reflect a nervous system that learned to stay vigilant, perform, overprepare, overachieve, self-monitor, mask, or anticipate problems in order to avoid criticism, rejection, disappointment, conflict, shame, or harm. For many people, perfectionism becomes intertwined with identity, self-worth, productivity, competence, and the belief that value must be earned rather than inherently possessed. It may show up as chronic self-criticism, difficulty resting, procrastination, overthinking, people-pleasing, hyper-independence, fear of failure, fear of success, difficulty making decisions, or feeling as though there is always more that should be done. This work explores the protective role perfectionism has played throughout your life while examining the ways it may be impacting relationships, wellbeing, creativity, joy, authenticity, and connection with yourself. Particular attention is given to the influence of family systems, culture, gender, neurodivergence, trauma, and the internalized narratives that shape how you relate to achievement, mistakes, success, failure, worthiness, and belonging. My approach is grounded in the belief that perfectionism is often an adaptive survival strategy rather than a personal flaw. Rather than attempting to simply eliminate perfectionistic tendencies, we become curious about what those parts are protecting, what they fear might happen if they loosened their grip, and what needs may exist beneath the pressure to perform. Using EMDR, somatic therapy, mindfulness, polyvagal-informed practices, parts work, neuropsychotherapy, expressive arts, attachment-focused approaches, and liberation-oriented healing, therapy supports developing a more compassionate relationship with the parts of yourself that learned to equate achievement with safety. Attention is also given to the ways perfectionism lives in the body and nervous system. This may include chronic tension, difficulty slowing down, overactivation, self-monitoring, exhaustion, difficulty experiencing satisfaction, or feeling unable to rest without guilt. Through greater awareness of sensation, emotion, nervous system states, and embodied experience, space is created for increased flexibility, self-trust, self-compassion, and choice. The goal is not to stop caring, striving, creating, achieving, or growing. It is to cultivate a relationship with yourself that is not dependent upon performance, productivity, approval, or getting everything right. Often, the work involves reclaiming authenticity, playfulness, creativity, rest, joy, pace, and the internal permission to be fully human rather than a constant self-improvement project.  
10 Years Experience
Online in Shasta Lake, CA (Online Only)
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Lake Oswego, Oregon therapist: Dr. Michael Marossy, psychologist
Perfectionism

Dr. Michael Marossy

Psychologist, Ph.D.
Perfectionism often involves far more than simply having high standards. Many individuals struggling with perfectionism experience chronic self-criticism, fear of failure, anxiety, procrastination, emotional burnout, shame, difficulty relaxing, or a persistent feeling that they are never “good enough” regardless of achievement or external success. I help clients better understand the emotional and relational roots of perfectionistic patterns while developing greater self-compassion, psychological flexibility, and a healthier relationship with achievement, performance, and self-worth. Therapy focuses on reducing rigid thinking and chronic pressure while helping clients build more balanced, meaningful, and emotionally sustainable ways of living.  
8 Years Experience
Online in Shasta Lake, CA
San Francisco, California therapist: Dr. Jag Soni, psychologist
Perfectionism

Dr. Jag Soni

Psychologist, Ph.D., HSPP, PCC, SPHR, SHRM-SCP
While the drive for excellence is often rewarded, the weight of Perfectionism and "never being enough" leads to burnout and paralysis. Drawing on 35 years of clinical experience, I help you shift from self-criticism to a resilient, high-functioning sense of self. We work to uncover the root of your perfectionistic standards and foster the internal changes needed to achieve your goals without sacrificing your mental well-being. In a private Telehealth setting, I provide a sophisticated space to help you trade the burden of perfection for an authentic and manageable life. Contact me to schedule your first appointment.  
36 Years Experience
Online in Shasta Lake, CA (Online Only)

Perfectionism therapists in Shasta Lake, CA Statistics

Perfectionism therapists in Shasta Lake, CA average 14 years of experience and charge around $213 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (74%), Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) (44%), and Somatic Therapy (42%).

Average years in practice

14 Years Experience

Average cost per session

$213

Accept insurance

42%

Offer sliding scale

36%

Gender ID

69% Female
23% Male
4% Gender Fluid
4% Non-Binary

Session Type

56% In Person and Online
44% Online Only

Top Treatment Approaches

74% Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
44% Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)
42% Somatic Therapy
40% Psychodynamic Therapy
36% Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
34% Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT)
32% Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)

Ages Served

100% Adult
70% Young Adult
62% Senior
40% Teen
24% Children

Client Focus

68% Women
50% LGBTQ+
36% Asian
36% Men
32% Christian

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