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Perfectionism therapists in Thousand Oaks, CA

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Thousand Oaks, California therapist: Kristin Robert, marriage and family therapist
Perfectionism

Kristin Robert

Marriage and Family Therapist, AMFT
Perfectionism is rarely about excellence alone. It often develops when achievement, control, or being beyond criticism becomes tied to safety, worth, belonging, or protection from shame. What may appear as discipline can quietly produce procrastination, overworking, indecision, self-criticism, and an inability to feel satisfied even after success. Therapy explores what imperfection has come to mean, separates healthy ambition from fear-driven performance, and builds the capacity to take risks, make mistakes, and remain worthy without continually proving it.  
3 Years Experience
In-Person in Thousand Oaks, CA 91362
Online in Thousand Oaks, CA
Encino, California therapist: Sam Naimi, licensed clinical social worker
Perfectionism

Sam Naimi

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, Psychoanalyst, Psychotherapist
What begins as a drive to do well can gradually become an unforgiving way of measuring one's worth. Therapy offers a place to understand where those demands came from and why mistakes, disappointment, or falling short can feel so, so threatening. As that pressure becomes more understandable, perfection no longer has to do so much psychological work, and you can create more room to be ambitious without being governed by self-criticism.  
8 Years Experience
In-Person Near Thousand Oaks, CA
Online in Thousand Oaks, CA
Ventura, California therapist: Melanie Simms, marriage and family therapist
Perfectionism

Melanie Simms

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
I believe that self-compassion is the antidote for perfectionism. I work with clients to heal from early traumatic experiences that may have led to the development of perfectionism as a coping mechanism. I help clients develop their overall feeling of self-worth and treat themselves with greater compassion to reduce perfectionistic tendencies.  
11 Years Experience
In-Person Near Thousand Oaks, CA
Online in Thousand Oaks, CA
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Santa Monica, California therapist: Tracey Kiernan, marriage and family therapist
Perfectionism

Tracey Kiernan

Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, AMFT
Perfectionism often looks like success on the outside but feels exhausting internally. I help you understand the drivers behind it and shift toward a more sustainable, self-supportive way of functioning.  
2 Years Experience
In-Person Near Thousand Oaks, CA
Online in Thousand Oaks, CA
Valley Village, California therapist: Layla Ashley Psychotherapy, marriage and family therapist
Perfectionism

Layla Ashley Psychotherapy

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Perfectionism can create constant pressure to perform or appear flawless. In sessions, we explore how to shift rigid expectations, and cultivate a healthier relationship with achievement and self-worth.  
23 Years Experience
In-Person Near Thousand Oaks, CA
Online in Thousand Oaks, CA
San Francisco, California therapist: Dr. Jag Soni, psychologist
Perfectionism

Dr. Jag Soni

Psychologist, Ph.D., HSPP, PCC, SPHR, SHRM-SCP
While the drive for excellence is often rewarded, the weight of Perfectionism and "never being enough" leads to burnout and paralysis. Drawing on 35 years of clinical experience, I help you shift from self-criticism to a resilient, high-functioning sense of self. We work to uncover the root of your perfectionistic standards and foster the internal changes needed to achieve your goals without sacrificing your mental well-being. In a private Telehealth setting, I provide a sophisticated space to help you trade the burden of perfection for an authentic and manageable life. Contact me to schedule your first appointment.  
36 Years Experience
Online in Thousand Oaks, CA (Online Only)
Los Angeles, California therapist: Kim Gibson, licensed professional counselor
Perfectionism

Kim Gibson

Licensed Professional Counselor, LPCC, ATR
Many of my clients experience perfectionism secondary to ADHD or anxiety. I enjoy helping clients identify this pattern and explore what is behind it and if its time to change it.  
25 Years Experience
In-Person Near Thousand Oaks, CA
Online in Thousand Oaks, CA
Beverly Hills, California therapist: Danielle Esses, psychologist
Perfectionism

Danielle Esses

Psychologist, PsyD
Perfectionism can look like high standards on the surface, but often comes with anxiety, self-criticism, and difficulty feeling satisfied or at ease. Therapy helps you understand the function of these patterns and develop a more flexible, sustainable way of approaching achievement and self-worth.  
8 Years Experience
In-Person Near Thousand Oaks, CA
Online in Thousand Oaks, CA
Beverly Hills, California therapist: PBA Psychology Group, Inc., psychologist
Perfectionism

PBA Psychology Group, Inc.

Psychologist, Clinical and Forensic Psychology
Perfectionism makes demands on the self that can be overwhelming and paralyzing. Helping you develop insight into these struggles is the work that we do. To be released from these demands and the underlying fears that drive them will bring relief.  
30 Years Experience
In-Person Near Thousand Oaks, CA
Online in Thousand Oaks, CA
Los Angeles, California therapist: Alexis Cabrera, licensed professional counselor
Perfectionism

Alexis Cabrera

Licensed Professional Counselor, LPCC, LMHC, LPC
I am engaged and alert with my clients. I support your growth while Frustrating your defenses- I work to confront my clients in their blind spots, because (as a New Yorker) I understand that speaking from a place of love may not always mean people-pleasing. But with the warmth of my California Licensure (c;) I work to be fluid and flexible, using somatic interventions to develop and cathart Embodied Trauma. Sometimes the history lives in the present.  
11 Years Experience
In-Person Near Thousand Oaks, CA
Online in Thousand Oaks, CA

Perfectionism therapists in Thousand Oaks, CA Statistics

Perfectionism therapists in Thousand Oaks, CA average 14 years of experience and charge around $213 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (74%), Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) (44%), and Somatic Therapy (42%).

Average years in practice

14 Years Experience

Average cost per session

$213

Accept insurance

42%

Offer sliding scale

36%

Gender ID

69% Female
23% Male
4% Gender Fluid
4% Non-Binary

Session Type

56% In Person and Online
44% Online Only

Top Treatment Approaches

74% Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
44% Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)
42% Somatic Therapy
40% Psychodynamic Therapy
36% Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
34% Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT)
32% Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)

Ages Served

100% Adult
70% Young Adult
62% Senior
40% Teen
24% Children

Client Focus

68% Women
50% LGBTQ+
36% Asian
36% Men
32% Christian

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