Relationship and Marriage Counselling in Shirley, England
Browse Relationship and Marriage Counselling in Shirley, England, United Kingdom. Compare credentials, specialties and therapeutic approach. Contact a therapist to learn more.
Relationships
Jonathan Livingstone Therapy & Coaching
Psychologist, MSc, MA, PGCE, GMBPsS
If your relationship is in crisis, you need help to communicate in a way that doesn't generate defensiveness. If one partner believes that he or she is right and the other wrong, or that one person is to blame for what has happened, then your relationship is in crisis. I will help you to communicate in a way that makes it likely that your partner will want to help you to get your needs met, rather than respond defensively. Couples who have been together for a certain period of time often develop resentments towards each other. In addition to helping you both to communicate effectively, I will help you and your partner to let go of past resentments (using relearning therapy, which may be the only therapy that is able to achieve this).
28 Years Experience
In-Person Near Shirley, ENG
Online in Shirley, England
Relationships
Benjamin Marr
Counsellor/Therapist, BA MA Relational Psychotherapist/ Birkbeck College - Psychodynamic Counsellor
I use my relational psychotherapy background to counsel couples and relationships in general and have created a comfortable and safe environment for couples and individuals to discuss, explore and contribute to finding possible ways of overcoming relationship issues. Healthy human relationships are a vital part of day-to-day life and can be very fulfilling when these are close, loving ones. In current times, the maintenance of such positive relationships can be problematic, given the normal social demands that are placed on everyone.
My relational psychotherapy is used to identify the probable issues in a relationship between two clients, including any evident, or supposed, causes of any deficiencies in that relationship. Difficulties with relationships may have their origins in such examples as problematic responses from one party, attachment issues, or some form of perceived hindrance by one party to creating a supportive background to future relationship developments amongst their social circles. Equally, my relational psychotherapy has borne successes when it comes to such facets as overcoming relational discordance and even conflicts.
In all instances, I carry out my psychotherapy sessions in a professional and respectful manner, with the utmost stress on the client’s confidentiality and privacy.
35 Years Experience
Online in Shirley, England
Relationships
Karine Flynn
Psychologist, MSc, GMBPS
The patterns that show up most clearly in relationships - the people-pleasing, the shutdown when someone gets close, the pull toward dynamics that confirm old fears - are rarely about choice. They're the nervous system doing what it learned to do to stay safe. Working somatically with relationship patterns means addressing them at the level where they actually operate, rather than trying to think or resolve your way out of responses that were never cognitive to begin with.
23 Years Experience
Online in Shirley, England
Relationships
Will Salter - Connected Man Counselling
Counsellor/Therapist, ACA member, L2 IFS trained, Diploma of Counselling
My focus is on supporting men as they work through stress, anger, disconnection, and self-doubt. By encouraging honesty, vulnerability, and emotional clarity, I provide a safe and non-judgmental space to explore the challenges that show up in relationships, work, fatherhood, or identity. Counselling here isn’t about “fixing” you—it’s about guiding you back into connection: with yourself, your core values, and the people who matter most, so you can move forward with greater clarity and purpose. I see counselling as a collaborative and creative process, shaped by the needs and direction of each person I work with. My role is to offer steady support while creating room for healing, growth, and meaningful change. Ultimately, my aim is to help you deepen your relationship with yourself, others, and the world around you.
6 Years Experience
Online in Shirley, England (Online Only)
Relationships
Sudeva Hawkes
Registered Psychotherapist, Registered Clinical Counsellor, B.Couns., MNCPS Accred. , PACFA Reg.
Love is easy to fall into and not to so easy to live. It is often helpful when I work together with my wife Adima to support a couple in getting out of the hardships of relationship and into the heart. Or sometimes you just want someone to talk with about what is happening. My aim is to serve and support you in your authentic flowering, rather than to 'fix' you according to the expectations of conventional therapy.
29 Years Experience
Online in Shirley, England (Online Only)
Relationship and Marriage Counseling therapists in Shirley, England Statistics
Relationship and Marriage Counseling therapists in Shirley, England average 16 years of experience and charge around ¤146 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Integrative Therapy (58%), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (52%), and Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian) (48%).
Average years in practice
16 Years Experience
Average cost per session
¤146
Accept insurance
37%
Offer sliding scale
50%
Gender ID
| 73% |
Female |
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| 27% |
Male |
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Session Type
| 65% |
In Person and Online |
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| 35% |
Online Only |
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Top Treatment Approaches
| 58% | Integrative Therapy |
| 52% | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) |
| 48% | Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian) |
| 38% | Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) |
| 37% | Behavioral Therapy |
| 35% | Psychodynamic Therapy |
| 33% | Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) |
Ages Served
| 100% | Adult |
| 67% | Senior |
| 67% | Young Adult |
| 42% | Teen |
| 13% | Children |
Client Focus
| 65% | Women |
| 56% | Men |
| 48% | LGBTQ+ |
| 38% | Asian |
| 37% | Black / African American |