Relationship and Marriage Counseling therapists in Crystal Lake, Illinois IL

Relationships are complicated, but communication is simple- once you know the techniques! Let's get started!  

Part of the healing process is being listened to and understood. I help you see more clearly what has been happening and what that may mean for you, providing a safe environment where thoughts and feelings can be explored and understood. Together, we work to help you move from wherever you're stuck.  

Are you feeling depressed or anxious? Are your life and relationships unfulfilling? Can't let go of past hurts? Using sex or the internet to avoid others or painful emotions? Nothing gets better no matter what you try? Maybe it's time for a change!  

Relationships are difficult to manage especially when two different people try to live together in harmony. Therefore, it’s critical for each of them to focus on her or his defects and tries to make changes instead of demanding from the other person to do so.  

I am a compassionate and perceptive listener who in the course of a professional relationship strives to facilitate efficient and satisfying progress toward the personal goals of each client. I attempt to facilitate personal exploration and understanding while encouraging independence and strength.  

Commitments are important. Sometimes they get messy. If you are questioning your commitment to one another and need some clarity on where and how to carry on, I can help. Whether the relationship is a traditional 1:1 or a nontraditional one, I have experience in helping folks coming to a deeper understanding of their commitment of their partnerships. I can help.  

I have been working with couples for over 20 years, not only in the US but overseas as well. My understanding of marriage counseling derives not only from my specialization but my intensive cross-cultural work with families and relationships.  

Working as a couples and family therapist for over 20 yrs, I have seen marriages come back from the brink. These couples have one thing in common willingness verses willfulness . Growth in each individuals, serves best functioning within the marriage. There are certainly more complex situations such infidelity, addiction or personality disorders that negatively impact continued connection, however with relational trauma exploration and acceptance therapy , forgiveness and compassion can happen. I am trained in Imago Relational Therapy , Family Systems Therapy and Complex Relational Trauma treatment and Acceptance Therapy to enhance clarity and direction.  

As a Level Two Gottman Couples Therapist, I am trained in helping couples to learn to better communicate, navigate conflict, increase connection and intimacy. Specific areas of expertise include addressing infidelity, attachment styles, and co-parenting.  

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